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himabindu05

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Posted: 13 years ago

Arnav does not believe in marriage...he does not believe in love...and he does not believe in God!!

Khushi believes in all these and thrives on them..her every sentence has a "devimaiyya"" in it!!

Even with such drastic difference in their attitudes...the inevitable is happening!!! and they know it!!

She knows he is No Saint!! She knows he is experienced...She knows that he knows how his touch..his proximity affects her...not now but from the very beginning...

She Is Not Scared of him!! She is so scared of herself!! and Arnav Knows that!!

That is why he keeps asking her...WHY??He still does not understand Love...He is so practical about it...He knows they both are attracted to each other...and so now he is on the quest for the remedy...He might go to any extent for the solution...Even marriage...Becoz he just cannot lose her to anyone else..Becoz he wants her...he desires her...He still does not understand Love!!

Whereas Khushi understands love...and she knows He doesnt...Now where does that leave them...Her frail body is fighting her own desires...Her heart is goin totally against her mind...She knows that she cant be around him too much ..she cannot afford the physicall proximity...his nearness...becoz her body might betray her...her heart might just give in...She does not want to waver from the moral path that she has chosen ..that has been embedded into her...Her very identity and beliefs are at stake here...So she is running for her life!She is running away from herself...She is not Scared Of Him and the best part is he has started to realise that!!

Even if Arnav says Yes to marriage...She will say No ...Until she is sure that He too be;lieves in all those things that she thrives on...But if she is cornered into a marriage at this stage...she will make sure that Arnav Understands What exactly Is Love and that it really does Exist ...And then will give herself away to him...without holding back..

We could see that she is so giving whenever Arnav realises a bit more...a bit deep...Her kiss was to show that...just imagine her kissing in front of everyone...she will do anything for him..if he starts thinking from his heart.!!!she has proved it...I just loved the way She kissed him...It was a promise that she will never let him down...that all his desires will be met...only if...

Thats just me trying to analyse Khushis Fear...want to know Ur views too about why she is so scared...

Edited by himabindu05 - 13 years ago

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cutepearl

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Posted: 13 years ago

Gr8 post...

"I just loved the way She kissed him...It was a promise that she will never let him down...that all his desires will be met...only if..."

Very true...

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smitar

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Posted: 13 years ago

U have put it so well. Enjoyed reading your post!

Her kiss tells it all. She was so moved by his love, protectiveness, & possessiveness towards her that she went out on a limb for him. Kissed him in front of his family AND Snake. Her love grew so much in those moments that her heart could not contain it. She was in no position to count the cost.

Liked her sentence at the end of the ME about Arnav too not being theek! And he understood exactly what she meant.

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himabindu05

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: smitar
U have put it so well. Enjoyed reading your post!

Her kiss tells it all. She was so moved by his love, protectiveness, & possessiveness towards her that she went out on a limb for him. Kissed him in front of his family AND Snake. Her love grew so much in those moments that her heart could not contain it. She was in no position to count the cost.

Liked her sentence at the end of the ME about Arnav too not being theek! And he understood exactly what she meant.

thanx a lot dear..

I enjoyed her Kiss Soo much Becoz she let all her inhibitions down at that moment and she did it on her own..consciously..that was really so sweet of her...We can imagine what kind of passion she can unleash once Arnav opens up to her...

Me too liked the last sentence...When she says ''Aap bhi to teek nahin lagte"'😆She knows the effect of her kiss...

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abavi

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Posted: 13 years ago

very neat analysis from Kushi's POV...

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mimi

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Posted: 13 years ago

very well said!!!!

cudn't agree more to ur viewpoint!!!!

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Shanthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nice post.

I agree she is afraid of her feelings, her desires and of giving in at this stage.

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honeypriya

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Posted: 13 years ago

lovely post...told u earlier love ur insights...always look fwd to reading ur POV 👏

coming back...u put across wat I had in mind all the while...For Khushi its not her fear of Arnav...she is scared of herself...and thats y she is taking more time to accept the changes,his advances,her heartbeats...

From the first day they met,though she fought...she never pushed him back...never denied anything...when Arnav came to say sorry to Payal for her broken marriage,Khushi's tears told that she had forgave him long back...she had never blamed him (maybe just the guest house day..bt that was one different circumstance)

When he came close to kissing her,for once also she didnt stop him...if a girl is not in love and sanskari small town girl...unless u know the impact of that man on u...u wont take a moment to pull back...(thts y there has always been a difference in her attitude to NK nd Shyam,whenever they hv cm close - wid Arnav even during their worst fights,she didnt mind the manhandling...rather tried hiding them,even from him !!!)

Thats y it was very imp for her on diwali night to know y he did wat he did...

Today tables hv turned...she knows that the ASR who doesnt believe in reltn...came forward helped her to win the sangeet, has been slowly playing the love games,kissed her,questioning her,getting jealous...so she knows very well abt her vulnerabilty to this Man...thts y she is scared...

She proved her love..if u notice...after the kiss,she instantly didnt withdraw..she waited for a moment...so it was no way accidental but a reciprocation of her love towards him...

We usually see this show mainly from Arnav's perspective...even the CVs narration are at times mostly biased towards him (obviously no prize for guessing the reason 😆😆😆)

But it is actually Khushi's dilemma and love which is the binding force of their story and thats y Arnav is getting confused too...coz she is holding back !!!

PS - sorry for replying so long 😕

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himabindu05

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Posted: 13 years ago

@Priya...

Loved your reply ..dear..

U are so right in pointing out all those scenes...where in she has let down her guard...let him in...Never pushed him away...So this proves that she always knew...But why she does not want to acknowledge..There in lies the whole story..

It is quite difficult for her to understand Arnavs love for her...What he is actually feeling for her right now...Becoz he has told her in clear terms wht exactly he thinks...She is slowly realising that he is taking back everything he has done to hurt her...he is making amends but in his own way...

So she gives the sweetest of Kisses to him...I Sooo loved it...His passion..her sweetness...Its just too good...

Thanx a ton for appreciating my POV...