Why won't the hurt and pain go away?

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sillyme1000

@sillyme1000

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#11

I sooo agree with u here...,

The hurt and pain infact is increasing with each day and any news i read abt the show,

I wish i hadnt obsessed over the pair to such an extent!!

It hurts, my heart aches, cant seem to move on yet,

I wish, i come out of their world asap,

My whole world was revolving arnd these characters,

I'd watch them before going to sleep, get up, watch a repeat of their scenes b4 leaving fr wrk, come back, watch new olvs/read spoilers, wait impatiently fr the episode, laugh when they laughed, blush when they romanced,cried when they cried!

I'd gone insane, and its all gone now!

After reading the spoilers today, the pain just increased!

I should just get a life now!

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premparbat

@premparbat

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#12

DaZZ... You have voiced what most of us have been feeling for the past couple of days.

The dead silence in the forum itself is proof of how members are feeling. If we are feeling low and disconnected with what has been happening since the leap imagine what the cast and crew must be feeling and the atmosphere on the sets.

The ashram ladies gone !!! RL we had such plans for her meeting a beau . Badi amma was not part of the blast but don't think she is coming back .

Most of all Mishal which you say seems disconnected. He does. He must be upset also with whatever is happening in the background, with his role and character and with Eisha. Both made a great pair and liked each other .

The pain will go away ..it eventually does and what will remain is sweet memories of a sweet Jodi . Keep that in your mind above everything else and take it as it comes.

We all are together in this really.

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JaZzs

@JaZzs

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#13

the hurt n pain will not go away coz we liked misha as vidha and let it not go away also coz it's natural...after sometime we ourselves may laugh at how distressed we were for something which was actually nothing... at the moment just look at the positive side that the show will anyway not lost longer :P so this duplicate vidha won't be getting any popularity :P ...

i absolutely agree with what u said about sanjeeda...she looks rigid and very expressionless ,just delivering the dialogues is what she does that too the way she speaks sounds as if a foreigner talking in hindi...she looks too firangi, definitely a total mismatch for dhaani...even the neutral viewers who were not misha fans won't be able to connect her as dhaani...

as for mishal's disconnect i think he too is not interested in the turn the show has taken...he started off as young naughty viplav but within 9months they turned him to a father of 5yr old who actually looks like 8yr old...if the show continues longer he too may get typecasted for such roles...i think like us even mishal would be happier if the show shuts soon 😆

Edited by -JaZ- - 9 years ago

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anjaliiii

@anjaliiii

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: -JaZ-
the hurt n pain will not go away coz we liked misha as vidha and let it not go away also coz it's natural...after sometime we ourselves may laugh at how distressed we were for something which was actually nothing... at the moment just look at the positive side that the show will anyway not lost longer :P so this duplicate vidha won't be getting any popularity :P ...

i absolutely agree with what u said about sanjeeda...she looks rigid and very expressionless ,just delivering the dialogues is what she does that too the way she speaks sounds as if a foreigner talking in hindi...she looks too firangi, definitely a total mismatch for dhaani...even the neutral viewers who were not misha fans won't be able to connect her as dhaani...

as for disconnect i think he too is not interested in the turn the show has taken...he started off as young naughty viplav but within 9months they turned him to a father of 5yr old who actually looks like 8yr old...if the show continues longer he too may get typecasted for such roles...i think like us even mishal would be happier if the show shuts soon 😆

jaz completely agree😆😆..

exactly she sounds like a foreigner..i dont think he is going to renew his contract..may be if any miracle happens and if the show continues..then mishal will be probably replaced by sanjeeda's real husband.😆...just my opinion..

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mehraan

@mehraan

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Yes its not so easy n im still stuck behind...Now I get it wat HEARTBREKs cos I hadnot experienced it or felt it...One ofthe mmost tortuous n horrible phase n im thru it...i feel betrayed n cheated with their unfinished lovestory..I wont be able to watch their old scenes or go bac to their memory filled journey cos I would be knowing they never had tat proper end,n it eould be hurting!

Though the show is exactly goin the way I wanted to see but my heart isnot in it ...cos The gal who was brutully tortured,insulted ,maligned,kicked out of the house is not THIS NEW Dhani.. I wanted to see That Dhani to get justice where Kt kicked her out of the house,I wanted to see That Dhanis truth to be revealed infront of Vipu of her innocence,I want to see TAT dhanis pain be levelled down when she saw her hubby in the arms of Kt,I want to see that Dhani when Vipu will be guilty enough of not trusting her,more with his kid n his wife...I want to see That Dhasnis win over AN people who mercilessly trampled her,plan to murder her...They r many... n the list goes on...

FOR me this stands incomplete even if the new step in cos I cnt relate nor connect ...I still cnt forget the way dhani cried hugging her mom she wont come back,as she lost everything...TAT DHANI NEEDS JUSTICE! A Closure n so We as audience too!!

So how will I accept this?

Just yest n today I.voiced my friends on twitter im goin bac to my paki shows atleast I wont end up hurting myself,Thy r to the point, logical n satisfactory...U get a closure!im even planning to watch humsafar again with the hope I replace Vidha with them in my mind,find solace n peace atleast thy got a proper ending...

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REVATHI RADHAKRISHNAN

@revathirk

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#16

D prblm with us was that misha became a part n parcel of our life v use to live with der dreams...v use to feel n njoy each n every emotions with dem...!!v wer mentally n emotionally attached to it...!!!! N now suddey its like everything shattered !!!! Trying to make myself understand that it was a beautiful dream n v to move on...but miserably failing at d end...I miss our golden days of our forum n our ikrs !!!!

Thinking kash hum bhi barbie ke tarah hote toh itna pain bhi nahi hota na...!!!

No doubt sanjeeda is a wellknwn n established actor...

But for misha fans like us eisha as dhaani left a foot print on us...n its very hard to erase...!!!

Getting very very difficult to move on with d fact...!!

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-JollyJabeen-JB

@-JollyJabeen-JB

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#17

I agree with all the posts.. this seriously sucks 🥺 I think this void of Eisha will never get full.. along with the safed gang!

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Dolly-heart

@Dolly-heart

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#18

It is completely understandable to be feeling hurt and depressed after losing someone that we

spent so much time with everyday.

For every half hour Vidha was part of our family. We talked about them, we hoped for them,

we went through the pain with them and then all of a sudden one of them is snatched away from us.

It would be odd if we did not feel these emotions but the harsh reality eventually has to sink in and we do have to move on from this grief period. The old saying stands true ...Time will heal.

And I wish for you to feel better and remember the good days and soon you will feel see that memories that Misha left with us were good and that will help you move on.

This industry has and will hurt the audience again because they do not invest in emotional ties like us to anyone, but to the bottom line for them is to make money.

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Nuttyme

@Nuttyme

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

#19

After reading all the posts... i only feel.. let sanjeeda and mishal create a magic... let the ph and cv show a closure to tbe love story and shut the shop.

Its for this indefinite period ... that makes indian soaps very unwatchable at times. Very few can carry on with continuously good scripts...

I just wish indian soaps also go back to gud old finite series... so that every story gets a proper closure. The actirs get space and the ph and cv dont have to make amends on the basis of trps from a few trp aunties.

BTW.. tomm is trp day... guardian angels anyone??

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Mishfan

@Mishfan

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Dazzling, I so am with you & echo many of the comments made here.

Also wanted to add...for me, not just the show but being on the forum, discussing endlessly about the show, characters, the ifs & buts...all have made it so much more real than what it actually is. Hence the pain is deeper. But again thank goodness for the forum & all of you, I feel I'm not alone.

It's a relief we can talk about how we feel.

To me the saddest part is ViDha's incomplete story. I wish they had communicated before Eisha's (dhani) exit & Vip apologized for pushing her away. I would have been content even if they never met.

I cannot connect to the show now... it's not part 2 for me & no Viplav either. I only watch it for Mishal's sake. I just want the show to end soon, & Mishal take up a different show with a different role.

He has so much versatility... Just needs the right script & a good PH & probably a finite show with a definite ending.

Oh, You are right there is no connection not only betn. SS & Mishal , but also with Garima ji.

If the PH had made up their mind about the leap, wish they had given this a little more thought & finished Dhani's character with Eisha's exit & SS could have come is as a difft. Character helping to find ViDha's father & the cute dad- daughter bonding...this could have still been a cute love story (Vip- Vidha) of a difft. Kind with Eisha- Mishal's memories as ViDha for us.

But no... Anyway it's their loss if the show goes down now.

Thank you for this post, it allowed me to rant ...which I have been doing a lot lately.

It makes me feel better. We all need to do this at some point & try to move on/ away.

Sorry for this very long comment...