The quote...A relationship is between you and the person you're with. Stop letting outsiders plant their opinions in something they're not involved in. Focus on the person you're with, not the people trying to tear you all apart ...holds true.
Protect your relationships. Don't let outsiders destroy what took years for you to build. Appearances are often deceiving. A pretty face doesn't mean a pretty heart. Fools take a knife and stab people in the back. The wise take a knife, cut the cord, and set themselves free from the fools.
The art of pleasing is the art of deception. The devil doesn't come dressed in a red cape and pointy horns. He comes as everything you've ever wished for. Pray for wisdom. Deception may give us what we want for the present, but it will always take it away in the end.
Never get too attached to anyone because attachments leads to expectations and expectations lead to disappointments. It is far better to be alone than to be in a bad company. Do not let uninformed outsiders question the choices you've made in your relationship.
Dulari was right in sensing about Kamini's interference in Viplav and Dhani's personal matters. She did point out rightly by saying too much of good is bad itself and what she may look on the outside may not be inside. In case if viplav wanted to speak with Dhani he could have come to the ashram itself rather than asking her to come out.
And what was the need to send kamini in his place ?? In spite of getting warning from Dadi, Raj Lakshmi and Dulari Dhani and didn't have a doubt at all...after all she has known them longer and she knows they are her well wishers...she simply considers a stranger who entered their life some while ago to be good if she considers that she has no enemity with her then there is no reason for her to be good as weill.
She has shared her personal matters with km and indirectly both viplav and dhani have been dependent on her...instead of sorting the matters by themselves they indulge a stranger and a intruder to become a mode of communication to settle their personal matters.
Km is a demon in guise of an angel and she never leaves a chance to destroy their lives, peace of mind. They both should have protected their relationship but strictly setting some healthy boundaries not to welcome outsiders in their life. And when Km was hell bent on forcing viplav why couldn't he ask her to stay out of his personal matters and business ??
He rather focuses on what km has to say rather than spending the same amount of time in listening to what dhani message Dhani had to convey...being in such a bad company did have a negative impact on viplav and he is blind enough not to see who are his well wishers and who are his ill wishers.
The issue is always made complicated by people's choice when they don't choose a simpler method to sort the matter.
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