Thought of the day...Things arent always what they seem !!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Do not jump to conclusions; things aren't what they seem you must open look closely or they might juts surprise you... Stay open minded, they absolutely might not what you think it to be. The first appearance seems to be deceiving; there is more than you could ever know behind the scenes.

Don't trust everything you see, even salt looks like sugar and vice versa. Appearances to the mind are of four kinds. Things either are what they appear to be, or they neither are ,nor appear to be...or they are and do not appear to be...or they are not and yet appear to be...Rightly to aim in all these cases is the wise man's task (Epictetus).

Things aren't always as bad as they may seem. That's why it's important to calm down, breathe and assess the situation first. The eyes are useless when the mind is blind. You never know exactly what a person is going through in their life or what their whole story is...so before you judge do make sure that you know the truth.

Do not judge people for the choices they make when you don't know the options they had to choose from. Viplav did want to know the truth behind Dhani's lies...he did follow her all the way but somehow due to an obstacle he missed seeing her reaching the destination.

He doesn't know the entire truth, he should have at least asked her again to tell him the truth before coming to the conclusions...At times conversations do help in clearing the misunderstandings between people. If he trusts her he should be aware that Dhani is not the kind of person whom KM wants her to appear in front of his family.

The first appearance may look deceiving in viplav's case as well he almost tracked her down and missed her so the path she chose to reach her school can be taken into consideration by him. It is the hard times the trust issues do crop up in people's mind. It is equally fault of dhani to hide the truth from viplav.

What we might hear or see may not be the entire truth at all...viplav and dhani did experience the same thing...so viplav should ponder over the matter carefully and clearly before concluding without being emotional.

He has trusted her all this while knowing her nature and character well...and if he knows her very well he shall support her throughout the tough times...hopefully he listens to his inner voice and then comes to a conclusion...our inner voice or intuition is very powerful and we do need to listen to it when requires.

Do share your views.😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Do not judge people for the choices they make when you don't know the options they had to choose from. 👏 👏 👏
Loved each n every line u chose but this is my fav
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Dr Joy 😃 good to see you dear...thank you for reading and sharing your view...haan that line was really meant for dhani...pata nahi kal kya hoga ...hopefully viplav thinks calmy before he gets all emotional...bechare ko kitne dushman hain...I want him to stand by Dhani no matter what and hopefully Km gets asap...Till then take care. Hogaya kdrama 😆😆 accha hain kya main dekhu kya ??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Swathi , yes jumping to conclusions without facts .

What happened yesterday and today is very interesting coz if you look at it its a classic case of making assumptions .

Dhani does not want anyone to know about her night school thinking everyone at home will not allow it and most importantly she wishes to surprise Viplav . That and she has confided in the devil itself regarding all details .

It's Kamini who lies to say that Dulaari is ill . Dhani nods her head in confirmation but is determined not to talk to Dulari about lying .

Viplav gets to know that she has lied about Dulaari and directly asks her if everything is ok . She confirms yes ,

He asks are you looking after Ma to which she responds yes and she means Kanak .

According to Vip this is another lie and now it is much more important for him to know why she is lying . He could have asked directly but he is waiting fir her to tell which is fair ... She may have a reason. But then he does not leave it there and baits her further that I will be out tonight .

Dhani agreeing on his outing is a further indication of something not ok and now he wishes to get to the bottom of it . And then yes the phone call asking her where she is.

So the question is Should she have told Vip in the first place of her class - yes

And should Viplav ask a direct question - yes he should

And both are causing a misunderstanding ...

Communication between a couple is key even when there is implicit trust .

Waiting to see the outcome of this mid communication .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Another pearls of wisdom that is so enlightening to read and yes, not jumping into conclusions as things might not be as they appear to be, making haste and regretting later. Rather, analysing the situation through pure intuition that is such a powerful tool which you mentioned and getting the facts right before making conclusions. It is Viplav's turn to show the level of trust he has for Dhani and remain firmly on her side as he has done so many times in different situations. It will definitely be interesting to see how since becoming a husband he is able to support her in this sticky situations that Dhani has landed and save her one more time from the evil eyes that continue to pry on her. After all, he did promise to defend her and anyone who has their evil eyes on her, he will take them off or something along those lines. Can't wait for tomorrow to see the dynamics of Vidha's relationship and careless the accusations or the smirk of the evil lot. Viplav will not disappoint, I am sure.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ratna, Kaju kal ayungi reply dene 😆 spreeti ka dermi cool padh rhi thi ab tak 😆😆 ab tak chal rha hain 😆 hasi ruk hi nahi rahi meri 😆😆
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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viplav knows his wife very well. i hope he understands her well.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great Post!! Well said.👏

I really liked this line: Communication between a couple is key even when there is implicit trust.

There were numerous situations earlier which they have handled really well and hope to see this one clearing soon.😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lovely yet again Swathi!!!
BEAUTIFUL lines about trust n communication..

Viplav had always stood by his dhaani n this time too he will!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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sawthi

Profound and thought provoking post dear
Sometimes our eyes see only what the brain tells it- it's only visual impulse which is translated to sight but a wise person does not remain satisfied with merely what the brain conveys-he uses his mind soul and heart to come to a wholesome conclusion.
This is where faith, trust love and emotions come into play . This is what distinguishes a man from a machine
Viplav must now use his mind's eye to judge whether what he saw or even hears from others is the true picture. I'm sure he will use his good instincts to sift what is real from what is just a visual impression. He should his absolute trust in Dhani and not allow the bond of love and faith to be broken.

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