Thought of the day ....The best proof of love is trust !!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whether its relationship or friendship, all the bonds are built on trust...without it you have nothing. Trust and communication are one of the most important parts of the relationship...When you put your trust in someone we are sure that they won't hurt you, cheat you, or harm you.

Its simply the foundation of any relationship the way a house cant be built without foundation similarly, love and happiness cannot be achieved without trust.

With trust comes loyalty...with trust we develop faith, belief, confidence in someone or something. When you trust someone you don't feel the need to hide things from them, and you can tell them everything such is the power of trust...it may take a while to feel safe and to trust someone.

The saying holds true...When it takes years to built up trust, it takes only suspicion not any proof to destroy it. Suspicion is cancer of any relationship...the moment one suspects another of their motives then everything they do become tainted.

When one is suspicious then one will imagine all kind of things going on in the worst way possible. There is always a better way to handle things.

We should not let our hearts be filled with doubts, we should clear it as soon as we can...over suspicion can break or even kill any relationship and leave us alone and sad.

Communication is another important part of any relationship, a person when calm can have a talk and get to the root of the matter to get the things settled and make the right decision. The choice of words and timings are important as well.

Viplav and dhani's have immense trust in each other, they have faced many hurdles so many times together. They have the faith, trust which is required for any relationship to last for a long time...the way they communicated with each other and shared their fears with each other is only due to the belief and trust.

They always get to the matter and sort out the issue without any further delay which is the best part regarding them...having doubts for a long time may eventually end the relationship.

For them there is no space nor place for suspicion at all, hopefully they continue to do so...this belief has come after they passed different tests in flying colors...it just wasn't built in a day.

They share their worries, fears everything with each other without any hesitance at all. This built of trust can be applied anywhere in our lives with anyone or anything as well.

Do share your views.😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Viplav and Dhani has gone thru a lot to build that trust and I am sure in any given situation it will remain unshaken.

But there is something as jealousy which can creep into this trust . Not that Dhani think Viplav will leave her what she lacks is confidence in herself. The Tripathi's have not accepted her she does not come from a rich family and today she voiced it herself that the other girl is educated versus her. Such insecurities tend to come in between a trsut of a couple when you feel inferior .

The day Dhani realizes that Viplavs love empowers her to fight for her position on his life she will become more confident.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Ratna 😊...thank you for reading and sharing your view...firstly i couldn't watch the episode properly net bahut slow tha...jaise kaise hi dekhliya tha...yes true dhani's insecurities will take time to subdue...they did go through a lot and yea a day will come where she will be confident in fighting for her position.

Now neither that kamini or bua can do any damage to them...that lady kamini itself looks fake enough.Till then take care.😃


Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well said dear.kitna sochti ho, soch sochke acche post banati ho.loved it.ye thoughts hi hain jo hamara life hain ,bad baki serial to fiction hain.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awsum post pearl...👏👏
Well said...perfect title...n I luved ur ending para...😊😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello there Dr Joy 😃 haan jyada sochna acchi baat hai na Dr Sahiba 😆😆 Thanks for reading and commenting.Till then take care.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Revathi 😃 thank you for reading and commenting dear 😃 Till then take care.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hi swathi just logged in had lots of work related to home affairs..dealing with engineers.. service ones..
loved your thoughts, totally agree that trust is the crux of relationships.. apart from a pair.. trust in self is vital too..and then trust in a wider group of people. It true trust can be shaken if doubt creeps in ,but your rightly say so that talking things is a great problem solver that clarifies doubts and regains lost trust.. the last section in the episode was endearing.. dhani throwing a but natural strop.. with a simple statement from viplav just trust me... validates your lovely post.. thanks so much for yet another thought provoking post..looking forward to next one..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Hammie 😃 no problem at all, work comes first 😊 thank you for reading and sharing your view...true dear lack of communication leads to mistrust among people and creates further problems...you have righly classified trust under 3 categories...without trust in one self you cant just trust anyone...being clear with one's doubts asap can save lot of problems from creeping up...Till the take care.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am late for this one, but Better late than never.
Trust is a very strong bond for any kind of relationship (friends or family) to flourish.
As you said, it can takes years or even a lifetime to build a relationship of trust.
But sometimes even a tiny mistake can destroy it.
First learn to trust oneself & then in others.

Dhani & Viplav's relationship is so pure, sincere, full of love. They share a strong bond becoz of the trust in each other. Nothing or nobody can break that.
Love watching their married life & romance blossom.


Enjoy reading your thoughts everyday
Thank you


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