Peep in for an unbiased opinion.

Shivi.forever thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#1

Hi everyone ryone out here.


Plz don't bash before reading out..



I m an ardent arylie shipper myself a silent reader in this forum but been here for nearly 15 years from d days of ipkknd. 😊😊



Started seeing from d time Malini character was mercilessly butchered.



After ASR entry show was picking up it's potential but then marriage happened n imlie got someone to lean on and she went back to being d selfless young girl that she was.



She fell in love with her man had a fairy tale love for a while say 2 weeks. Got pregnant n was happy till she was told she isn't pregnant n can't conceive she went into misery n upon that d mil torture by narmada n constant taunts was too much for a 19 year old.


Then by some miracle she was actually pregnant n was enjoying her pregnancy but Jo Mata started her drama n she emerged victorious. She was hurt Aryan didn't believe her but u can't fault him here he didn't suspect her but got facts about his infertility double checked with other diagnostic clinic. This his cheeku s not mine jaap. But everyone here s busy bashing him. Great fandon we r.



There again he was cheated by a closed one. When he did start suspecting foul play he was thrust with d idea of madhav being d actual villan n he accepted it happily bcoz it was served in a silver platter with false proofs which he wasn't aware were false.


They moved out of that Issue n khalimali came back with AKT'S baby.



There started all d issues.



Imlie getting unusually obsessed with the baby despite knowing it was malini n AKT'S.



She expected her Aryan to accept gudiya he did it tough with all his heart. Imagine his plight when u see ur pregnant wife rush up d stairs to save gudiya when he was there already n fall right before his eyes n loose his child. However young a woman s she ll never pull such a stunt in pregnancy.. it was wrong on imlies part to do that.

From where Aryan sees it was like she didn't cared for their baby which isn't true i know. She acted out of her impulsive i ll save everyone without anything happening to me attitude which was a very disastrous turn in their lives. N she wasn't showing any signs of atleast recognising her error. I won't call it a mistake but it s a very big error on her part.



Bam she blames Aryan for the miscarriage when it was her plan all along to bring malini to their house n expose her didn't she remember malini running a road roller over her , where was her mother's instinct for cheeku's safety.


She was only focused on getting gudiya for herself. But she forgot she has another life inside her. Aryan kept reminding her but she brushed his worries aside as nothing. I know women get irritated with constant reminder of being pregnant as If a pregnant lady can forget it 😂😂 jokes apart she was irritated as well can understand that but she was careless as well.


Let's accept dis bitterpill guys she ignored her baby for gudiya tough it was unknowingly done but still she s accountable for that.

She goes all d way blaming him for everything not even ready to acknowledge the fact that he supported her all through her madness for gudiya but there s only so much a person can take.


They got separated after an ugly fight agreed. But here too both kept their own egos afloat.. noone tried to contact each other so here too mistake is of both of them. Y blame only Aryan or blame only imlie. They have destroyed the very foundation of their love with their own hands.

D circumstances in which they got separated was ugly I agree but still after 5 years when they met again they kept their egos afloat despite all that Aryan helped her let's accept it he still loved her n so did she. But what about their big fat egos. They won't go down without a battle.

N regarding what Aryan did in these 5 years it s his life his wish he wants to live destroy or do whatever he pleases imlie had no right to be d self proclaimed righteous lady that she s to get involved without being asked to n provoke him. If she wanted to help him she could start by sorting out the mess there love was but no she again made a third person her goal. Her new mission was to expose malini n make Aryan return to office weather he wants it or not she isn't bothered at al..


All that said n done they rescued cheeni n had bhaang n expressed their love after sorting out all their issues.. plz be aware she had a complete recollection of d night even his confession n acceptance of his mistakes n his love for her. But she again chose to keep silent n be d sufferer. She could have talked it out to him he would blow a fuse but would still listen to her didn't she know that about him n also she knows he still loves her as he confessed last night. Such a grave mistake from her part. Plz don't turn blind eye to this.

Later all d unfortunate events played out n she was kicked out of the house.

Despite Aryan asking her about gudiya n telling her that he would trust her without any proof she choose to remain silent tough we saw later that she was zooned out. It was destiny's ploy here i can agree.

She expected Aryan to stand by her but why would he when she broke his trust again n again n again n ridiculed everything they had for some one else always.


Plz go back and see Aryan never allowed her to pity herself n have a pity party when she can fight Aryan n was ready to fight malini mata too why didn't she stand her ground when Khali Mali was threatening her. She didn't do it coz she had a granted feeling Aryan would support her regardless of her errors n mistakes which didn't happen sadly. N bam she was thrown out of the house. She blames Aryan for it n it s correct coz whatever it s malini had no right to throw imlie out of Aryans house that too by dragging her. Aryan standing put was a big blow on their relationship n i m ready to break his head for this. Such a foolish thing to do, weather u trust imlie or no u r wrong to stand n watch someone drag ur wife out of ur house whom u claim to love🤷🤷 in some alternate universe i see such love i tell u.


Now from where Aryan s seeing she hid d truth played him again n again n when asked she upfront she lied to him in d face. She did lie to him in her full senses. Sooner or later cheeni truth would have come out imlie in her immaturity of trying to be s saving grace she thinks herself to be tried to once again save cheeni n let go of her chance at a happy life without even trying.

That was done in full senses..

She wanted Aryan to still take a stand for her n save her like always without knowing anything.


That was Aryan of so long ago, she didn't give him any idea about her immense regret of loosing cheeku. I know few can say she expected him to understand her like always but that s too much to ask after their ego matches n ugly fights in pagdandiya.


N she again goes back to blaming him for not working towards her comfort. But did she give him any reason to do so. No a big no.


Let's forget that as well.


But what about the fact that she deliberately hid her spending time with him from him n also made cheeni hide from him. Cheeni s small agreed but she isn't. Didn't he have d right to know what happened. What about his rights. She knew he was guilty n sorry but he didn't know that if once she could have kept her rosy glasses n ego aside n told him about everything that happened n her apprehension about Khali Mali Aryan would have understood her n also helped her. Even she knew that.


That was d reason she said now u r here everything ll be fine i ll be fine n cheeni also will be with me i know you won't let anyone take her away from me. So much confidence when everything went hayware🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ she didn't even give him time to process d things thrown at him. It wasn't as if he would suspect her but her elephant sized ego didn't even allow her to explain herself to him.

She would have moved d earth for akt if it was him in Aryans place let's accept this fact.


Malini played her both the times n she got played yet again knowing from her past experience of malini creating misunderstanding between a couple she didn't confide in Aryan coz here she didn't trust him, what AKT did to her she did to Aryan. Less severe but d reason s lack of trust here too.

N she also came clean when malini was in the house to take cheeni away, she had all d time in d world to confide in him about cheeni but everytime she deliberately hid it from him. Knowing Aryan would support her even if he disagreed with her.

Her immaturity n his clueless nature destroyed their relationship..





I ll see today's episode n decide to follow through or no.. god such a big post.

Edited by Shivi.forever - 3 years ago

Created

Last reply

Replies

11

Views

1.4k

Users

3

Likes

66

Frequent Posters

LiveLife321 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#2

Bang on... 👌👏👍


Falling in love is easy but staying in love requires trust, respect and open communication from both the sides. Never ever take your love for granted. ❤️

Shivi.forever thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#3

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Bang on... 👌👏👍


Falling in love is easy but staying in love requires trust, respect and open communication from both the sides. Never ever take your love for granted. ❤️


Exactly my point 👍👍

Sana2020 thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#4

Is Imlie really going to choose to let Aryan marry Malini rather than telling him who the father of their child is?


I completely agree both are fundamentally flawed characters with tonnes of emotional baggage and massive egos that will always exacerbate any problems than help solve them. I don't think the characters have been overly butchered recently, they have been like this from their introduction to the show anyone who hasn't acknowledged that is not really understanding the characters or being honest with themselves, besides no one falls in love with perfection. The recent circumstances have just exposed their flaws and insecurities further and they have both equally contributed to the breakdown of their relationship.... Malini as she did with adilie just gave them a bit of a push in that direction.


No relationship is easy, but theirs was always going to be difficult to sustain because they are both so headstrong about what they believe is the right thing to do and they don't listen. As you said their post confession happily married honeymoon period lasted weeks at most, not enough time to build a solid foundation to weather the storms that came their way.


I'm finding rather than judging Arylie and getting wound up about whose to blame after each episode, empathising with them given what they have gone through individually and as a couple is a healthier way to finish watching this show.


To rebuild the relationship from this low point would require serious effort and commitment, that neither the reel characters or the show makers are prepared to make and it can't realistically happen unless they have extended season 1 for at least a couple of months. It's much easier to break something than to make it better..... And as far as I can see we are still in the breaking process in terms of their relationship... The repairing hasn't even started yet, and a one week/episode repair job will be just ridiculous after all this. I've stopped caring about the ending now its Guls choice and fair enough she will need to live with the consequences financially and professionally.


Seriously if you want to watch good creative content watch Korean dramas, where the makers genuinely seem to take pride in their story telling, messaging and execution, 2521 on Netflix is just beautiful. Indian creativity, be it ITV or Bollywood, has long been sacrificed at the alter of money and power, foregoing any claim to being a force for progressive values.

Shivi.forever thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#5

Originally posted by: Sana2020

Is Imlie really going to choose to let Aryan marry Malini rather than telling him who the father of their child is?


I completely agree both are fundamentally flawed characters with tonnes of emotional baggage and massive egos that will always exacerbate any problems than help solve them. I don't think the characters have been overly butchered recently, they have been like this from their introduction to the show anyone who hasn't acknowledged that is not really understanding the characters or being honest with themselves, besides no one falls in love with perfection. The recent circumstances have just exposed their flaws and insecurities further and they have both equally contributed to the breakdown of their relationship.... Malini as she did with adilie just gave them a bit of a push in that direction.


No relationship is easy, but theirs was always going to be difficult to sustain because they are both so headstrong about what they believe is the right thing to do and they don't listen. As you said their post confession happily married honeymoon period lasted weeks at most, not enough time to build a solid foundation to weather the storms that came their way.


I'm finding rather than judging Arylie and getting wound up about whose to blame after each episode, empathising with them given what they have gone through individually and as a couple is a healthier way to finish watching this show.


To rebuild the relationship from this low point would require serious effort and commitment, that neither the reel characters or the show makers are prepared to make and it can't realistically happen unless they have extended season 1 for at least a couple of months. It's much easier to break something than to make it better..... And as far as I can see we are still in the breaking process in terms of their relationship... The repairing hasn't even started yet, and a one week/episode repair job will be just ridiculous after all this. I've stopped caring about the ending now its Guls choice and fair enough she will need to live with the consequences financially and professionally.


Seriously if you want to watch good creative content watch Korean dramas, where the makers genuinely seem to take pride in their story telling, messaging and execution, 2521 on Netflix is just beautiful. Indian creativity, be it ITV or Bollywood, has long been sacrificed at the alter of money and power, foregoing any claim to being a force for progressive values.



Agreed

But i have a sinking feeling that just to boost each other's ego they might as well go ahead with this shitty charade..


The downfall of their relationship was what malini desired n she s getting that in a golden platter all coz they can't see beyond their ego n sufferings..


How can both have different degree of pain of losing their child. 🤷🤷🤷

LiveLife321 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#6

I was never able to connect with imlie, not even now. I said this in my previous posts also that sumbul made imlie bearable for me. I can't understand and relate to mahaan characters. I am just a normal flawed human may be that's why I am only able to connect with Aryan as a character.


The way she fought for Aditya and the way she was begging before cheeni, I really have no words. I feel like all her attitude, arrogance and ego is reserved for Aryan. Just because he tolerate all her tantrums patiently.


Today for the first time, felt bad for imlie for a fraction of second when she felt bad after knowing that he did not search for her because he gave up on her. This is what happens when you take care and concern of your loved ones for granted. We never know when they will get tired of being ignored. It's his mistake that he made her his entire life but when he realised that he is just a chapter in her life and easily disposable anytime then he tried to accept that truth and move on in life. I really appreciate it and that's exactly how one should deal with pain by accepting the reality in life. ❤️

Shivi.forever thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

I was never able to connect with imlie, not even now. I said this in my previous posts also that sumbul made imlie bearable for me. I can't understand and relate to mahaan characters. I am just a normal flawed human may be that's why I am only able to connect with Aryan as a character.


The way she fought for Aditya and the way she was begging before cheeni, I really have no words. I feel like all her attitude, arrogance and ego is reserved for Aryan. Just because he tolerate all her tantrums patiently.


Today for the first time, felt bad for imlie for a fraction of second when she felt bad after knowing that he did not search for her because he gave up on her. This is what happens when you take care and concern of your loved ones for granted. We never know when they will get tired of being ignored. It's his mistake that he made her his entire life but when he realised that he is just a chapter in her life and easily disposable anytime then he tried to accept that truth and move on in life. I really appreciate it and that's exactly how one should deal with pain by accepting the reality in life. ❤️



I don agree with only 1 point in ur post re.

Aryan didn't give up on her on his own. She pushed him beyond measure. N even that s not justified coz he loved her. He should have atleast tried to find about her. Weather to contact her or no was his call.


But i guess d feeling being an option n not a choice pushes u to do things which u by urself ll despise later.


Sadly he made that blunder.

N i don even wanna start on d blunders of Mali n imlie. D biggest of all was hiding about d time in Hut. (I m not even able to say love making ) they both had d right to know if anything did happen. How can she even hope he ll accept the baby when he doesn't remember a shit about that night. 🤷🤷


N also even now she s showing arrogance to say that I don wanna talk about d father like really..


He s an arrogant ass too for even tolerating d thought of marrying Mali n entertaining cheeni.. 😡😡



Rassi jal gayi par dono ka bal nai Gaya.


Dono k dono UNB hai.

LiveLife321 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever



I don agree with only 1 point in ur post re.

Aryan didn't give up on her on his own. She pushed him beyond measure. N even that s not justified coz he loved her. He should have atleast tried to find about her. Weather to contact her or no was his call.


But i guess d feeling being an option n not a choice pushes u to do things which u by urself ll despise later.


Sadly he made that blunder.

N i don even wanna start on d blunders of Mali n imlie. D biggest of all was hiding about d time in Hut. (I m not even able to say love making ) they both had d right to know if anything did happen. How can she even hope he ll accept the baby when he doesn't remember a shit about that night. 🤷🤷


N also even now she s showing arrogance to say that I don wanna talk about d father like really..


He s an arrogant ass too for even tolerating d thought of marrying Mali n entertaining cheeni.. 😡😡



Rassi jal gayi par dono ka bal nai Gaya.


Dono k dono UNB hai.

I too agree with you that he didn't give up on his own, she pushed him to that point. He should have tried to find her going by his character but with all these blunders, loopholes and lapses also I am able to connect with his present state of mind if he didn't try to find her and I call this progression. I really hope he stays like this.❤️


I just want to stay away from these soul sisters yaar. Such a deadly combo, not good for my mental health. 🙏


Arey what are you saying God sent Aryan to earth to serve imlie madam. He should love her, trust her, respect her, care for her, run behind her, always clean the mess that she creates, live for her, die for her UNCONDITIONALLY. Mam will choose from the above check list based on her mood and convenience. No questions should be asked because imlie is always right. Arrogance and attitude comes as extra toppings. Enjoy it.😂


On a serious note, both are very arrogant but the only difference is that he never kept his arrogance above her. Whether he believes it or not, he is always ready to listen to her side of the story. Most importantly, he never hesitated to accept his mistakes. ❤️

LiveLife321 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#9

I don't know why but today I am in full on rant mode. Please excuse me, once and for all I want to finish it.


On the name of women empowerment, the kind of crap star plus is serving is pathetic to the core. In their no 1 show, the FL love to live like a doormat and forever maid in their ex's house. Here imlie madam already completed that maid duty in her ex house, now she wants to become maid cum aaya for her ex's kid. Aryan must be feeling proud after listening that crap. Self respect, my foot. The kind of love and obsession imlie have for Aditya and Malini, now for their kid is just disgusting. Not just Aryan, no one can bring a person out of such kind of mentality.


People need to open their eyes and see the real world. I came from a family where a boy finishing up his degree itself is a great thing. My mom was a teacher, she always taught me that whether you are a boy or a girl, you should always stand up on your feet and financial independence is the key to women empowerment. When you are financially independent only then you can take your own decisions. My most precious life lessons ❤️


In our families, even though I earn more than most of the guys in the family, I am not supposed to say that before relatives for family's respect. How can a girl is more successful and responsible than the guys in the family. We get unlimited taunts in the family gatherings like job is important but relations also very important, you should not miss any family functions just because you are working.etc. etc. I have seen all these phases and with time I have learnt to give it back along with internet too. Now these same people think ten times before saying anything to me. We are still living in the world where we have to fight for equal respect even today.


The point is, when I see Aryan rooting for imlie's professional accomplishments, it really hits hard yaar. I don't know about others but from my POV based on my life experiences, having a husband/support like Aryan is a blessing in the current world. It's like a dream to many women even today. Respect it, cherish it, treasure it if you have such support in your life. Never ever take it for granted. ❤️

Shivi.forever thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

I don't know why but today I am in full on rant mode. Please excuse me, once and for all I want to finish it.


On the name of women empowerment, the kind of crap star plus is serving is pathetic to the core. In their no 1 show, the FL love to live like a doormat and forever maid in their ex's house. Here imlie madam already completed that maid duty in her ex house, now she wants to become maid cum aaya for her ex's kid. Aryan must be feeling proud after listening that crap. Self respect, my foot. The kind of love and obsession imlie have for Aditya and Malini, now for their kid is just disgusting. Not just Aryan, no one can bring a person out of such kind of mentality.


People need to open their eyes and see the real world. I came from a family where a boy finishing up his degree itself is a great thing. My mom was a teacher, she always taught me that whether you are a boy or a girl, you should always stand up on your feet and financial independence is the key to women empowerment. When you are financially independent only then you can take your own decisions. My most precious life lessons ❤️


In our families, even though I earn more than most of the guys in the family, I am not supposed to say that before relatives for family's respect. How can a girl is more successful and responsible than the guys in the family. We get unlimited taunts in the family gatherings like job is important but relations also very important, you should not miss any family functions just because you are working.etc. etc. I have seen all these phases and with time I have learnt to give it back along with internet too. Now these same people think ten times before saying anything to me. We are still living in the world where we have to fight for equal respect even today.


The point is, when I see Aryan rooting for imlie's professional accomplishments, it really hits hard yaar. I don't know about others but from my POV based on my life experiences, having a husband/support like Aryan is a blessing in the current world. It's like a dream to many women even today. Respect it, cherish it, treasure it if you have such support in your life. Never ever take it for granted. ❤️


Agreed dear. My complete support to d words u said. Thankfully i m equally lucky like imlie to have Aryan my hubby s a darling. He takes off or works from home whenever i have a conferance or seminar or a webinar. To take care of our kids. 🤞🤞🤞It's a blessing i m so thankful to my mother in law's upbringing.. 🥰🥰


N regarding Aryan seeing things from imlies point of view he did try to understand her n also support her as much as he could but she doesn't seem to see anything beyond one thing at a time. Earlier it was Aditya. Later it was d tripathi family. Later it was expose malini. In all these she never noticed d unending support system that she had.

She s too small at that to see that I agree but over a period of 5 years she could have accepted d fact n sorted out d shit after he confessed his guilt n his regret but no. Madam still choose to hide d Hut time n go ballistic on him. 🤷🤷


Now even if they white w AA sh everything both of them did the essence of love s lost. It ll just be a formality for d sake of completion..


We don't deserve to be served such shit.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".