Does Aryan hv to be all perfect? - Page 3

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

Someone raised few good questions sometime back. One of them was why would any healthy couple especially male partner get medical exam to rule out infertility unless the couple are trying for a child and unable to conceive for sometime. So what makes asr get this test. If they show imlie and asr as a couple are trying for a child for few years after they start living together and asr has poor report (low sperm count, poor motility, abnormal sperm or blockage) its still no guarantee imlie cannot conceive since need just 1 healthy sperm to travel to fertilize to form embryo. If its abnormal sperm it will result in birth defects. If its blockage it will need surgery to clear but 1 sperm can easily travel and make through. Many male with low sperm count or poor motility easily become father.

So if imlie conceives it will be asr child without any doubt and asr is shown as smart intelligent guy who would not rely on sperm count report to doubt his beloved wife. Instead he should be happy they didnt need artificial insemination:)

Regarding infidelity no one talks about emotional infidelity. It is more common than adultery or physical infidelity in our society. And seen between both partners.

I hated the reference of white kapda with daag. Unfortunately i realized not many here thought of the context but i felt it was an indirect hint on virginity especially as imlie was shown to be married in past. First, physical intimacy is natural in marriage, it is different that imlie didnt spend time with her ex. Second and most importantly in 2022 why is virginity still linked to good character and women need character certificate, why do husbands expect their wives to be virgin when they marry while they themselves had multiple affairs. This mentality needs to be changed.

Seriously its high time we need to stop judging female based on their dressing sense, virginity or past relations. If 2 people decide to be together they made a choice because of their love for each other, compatability and attraction. Their relation is their private affair that needs to be respected.

I guess the show producers are todays world females and they are independent confident women? They need to break stereotype image of abla bechari type woman who needs to prove her innocence. Ladies, we need badass types characters who can not only stand for self but others. I find it hypocrisy when they show female leads stand against injustice for others but when comes to self, they need male lead to help or protect them. Only who can, in truly sense, respect self and stand for oneself can do same for others.

I love Imlie as she is not bechaari types and asr because he is a genuine partner. Imlie can have low moments but rebounds back in no time. Asr love for Imlie is true, that can stand time and will increase with time.

We dont need separation and longing to show love. Love can be shown by being together and with sweet nokjhoks.

Hey, nice topic.👍🏼

I've been really busy for quite some time hence couldn't actively participate in the forum. 😊

Coming to the topic, ofcourse we're humans. We are bound to make mistakes. But according to me, mistakes are gradable. Most are easy to forgive while a few are really difficult if not impossible to forgive. Because even when you forgive, you'll find it hard to forget. And the bad taste will remain.

And it may vary from person to person. For me, a mistake of doubting my character is bigger than any other mistake. I may forgive but will never forget. So this mistake will negate all other small stands you took for me. Because for some people, it's the small things that count while for other it's the bigger trial like doubt on character no matter there is evidence presence.

As for Aryan, I don't know how the promo will play out, but I expect better from him in this matter just like others. He's not perfect, doesn't have to be. But there are certain mistakes we don't expect this character to make because he's supposed to be different than any other character we have watched so far.

Now, matter is not about Aryan's character being perfect. What's going to happen is that even if Aryan fails, CVs will use Imlie to whitewash him. There will be no proper character progression for any of them; instead character digression will happen in ffwd mode and Imlie will continue to be mahaan as she is the only one who think of families with some Arylie lollipops in aesthetic backgrounds (exclusively for online viewers). I have again started doubting on whether the show is going to be pulled off soon. 2days back, I was completely optimistic with Fahmaan liking Chandni's tweet which said CVs will not butcher Aryan's character as it's their own baby. But, the way they have turned Narmada completely black (especially with the precap) has affected my mood & optimism completely. Pregnancy twist will help me decide whether to stick on or not.😔