The Kameej Conundrum

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Posted: 3 years ago
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She looked amazing in the kameej and her makeup was done so well. But still many of us wondered why she was trying to explain her choice for nightwear to him. Especially, since he didn't ask for one. It looked like a forced dialogue and out of place.

But we Arylieans cannot rest till we have dissected every second of the episode. And I don't think the makers write random dialogues like that, without a cause.

I have 2 theories about it.

1. Its simplest of explanation that she has only worn new saris since wedding even at night and was awkward about going back to kameez, and didn't know how to start a conversation with him.

2. But again I like to endow the makers with more depth than probably they have so I have long winded theory too. Buckle up.

Imlie has been fighting the marriage since he strong armed her into it. Whenever she didn't have to pretend being the bride, she would go back to her simple kapaas ka kameez. During engagement when he comes to her to hurry her up she tells him, "jo bhi hai yahi hai". No one would have said she looked like a bride when they saw her. Aryan still tells her she looks beautiful because to him what she wears doesn't matter. But when Imlie overhears Narpita's excitement about her getting dolled up for her wedding, she realizes how much hope and dreams are entwined not just in the rituals itself, but with the bride and her appearance as well. After that, for every ritual she decks up in the best finery without a fight. Aryan doesn't care what she wears but cannot help being enamored by her beauty as his bride as well. But after each ritual she would go back to her kameez.

She made a point at their reception about her 'pehchaan' and her clothes, when Aryan unintentionally pushed the wrong buttons by calling her Mrs Aryan Singh Rathore. We were subjected to a long winded episode about her not giving in to the expectations of being the wife of Aryan Singh Rathore, a billionaire and just being herself. She refused to bow down to Narpita's expectation, as well, at the time. Aryan rightly understood the subtext behind her actions and supported her in front of the guests, because again he couldn't care less about her choice of clothes. But another major thing is that, that was the last time she wore that kameez "her kapas ki pehchaan". She felt wearing her kameez was a protest against Aryan's forcefully marrying her and taking away her choices, her rights and her identity. But he took away that victory as well by supporting her in her choice of dress. So she wore what a new bride is "supposed" to wear after that. All decked up to the nines.

But today, when Aryan gave her choices back. Asked her, in fact, not to come back to him. To not be in the forced marriage. She is confused about what signals she would be sending him, by her actions. She doesn't feel comfortable going back to her old 'pehchaan' anymore. She had proclaimed herself Aryan's wife few hours back to gang of murderers fearlessly. And the next moment Aryan was asking her to go back to being just Imlie. Like she said, she had wanted a choice for so long that now she doesn't even know what to do with it. Or what exactly her choices are. She wants to be his wife, but more than that she wants him to want her to be his wife. Whereas for Aryan her clothes were never part of her pehchaan as his wife or not. For Imlie, that had been the case. She didn't want him to think that by wearing that kameez she was going back to being just Imlie, and was choosing not to be his wife. Hence, the unwanted explanation.


Gosh Ye to essay ban gaya. Hope I make sense! It was long ramble.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I also thought d second one.....it was her assuring aryan that me phirse jhadoo armour nai dharan karegi.....🤣 Tu darne ka nai....Bechare ka trauma na wapas aa jaye or should I say hum audience ka trauma.....me bus comfort ke liye pehni he aur koi reason nai he....😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Maybe nothing even like that. Maybe the new wardrobe is not quite as extensive as we would want or expect due to budgetary constraints.... so they have her occasionally wearing her old outfits along with the new ones but the target audience, trp aunties, would wonder why as a married woman she is not adorned in saris and thus the need for an explanation. Meaning she wasn't excusing herself to Aryan but to trp aunties.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Aryan : lekin tum sarees mei jyada sundar dekti ho mujhe..

Le imli : aaj ke badh hum kabhie yeh suit wapas nhi pehnege in her mind.. 🤣🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Lol itv is more about audiences than the plot so i feel they killed 2 birds with 1 stone trp audiences as well as plot demanders like us...

But the real dilemma for Imlie is because they are from 2 poles of society. 1 is from adivasi village the other is of high society. It was easy for her to jump to middle class as we middle class people has touch of both the worlds but the high society is totally a different game even for middle class. That's why to assure herself that she is not losing her life and identity till date to the new identity she keeps on going back to her old self.

Now my special words: TRP AUNTIES WERE VERY DEMANDING 10 YEARS BACK. ARE THEY STILL SAME AFTER SO MUCH TECHNOLOGY APPEARED IN OUR LIVES IN LAST FEW YEARS? MIGHT BE NOW THEY DON'T CARE WHAT A NEW MARRIED WOMAN WEARS❓🤔

Edited by MiuniS - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bea1

Maybe nothing even like that. Maybe the new wardrobe is not quite as extensive as we would want or expect due to budgetary constraints.... so they have her occasionally wearing her old outfits along with the new ones but the target audience, trp aunties, would wonder why as a married woman she is not adorned in saris and thus the need for an explanation. Meaning she wasn't excusing herself to Aryan but to trp aunties.


Chalo practical and logical.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Why blame TRP aunties. I have seen enough tweets and post here in IF where people demand different clothes or looks for the FL. Personally, I find her pretty in everything like Aryan

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: MiuniS

Lol itv is more about audiences than the plot so i feel they killed 2 birds with 1 stone trp audiences as well as plot demanders like us...

But the real dilemma for Imlie is because they are from 2 poles of society. 1 is from adivasi village the other is of high society. It was easy for her to jump to middle class as we middle class people has touch of both the worlds but the high society is totally a different game even for middle class. That's why to assure herself that she is not losing her life and identity till date to the new identity she keeps on going back to her old self.

Now my special words: TRP AUNTIES WERE VERY DEMANDING 10 YEARS BACK. ARE THEY STILL SAME AFTER SO MUCH TECHNOLOGY APPEARED IN OUR LIVES IN LAST FEW YEARS? MIGHT BE NOW THEY DON'T CARE WHAT A NEW MARRIED WOMAN WEARS❓🤔

Bold: No need to shout. I don't take kindly to it and I would rather you didn't. 😡 You can't deny your post was directed at me coz noone else had posted about saris, trp aunties and dressing up according to said trp aunties other than me.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bea1

Bold: No need to shout. I don't take kindly to it and I would rather you didn't. 😡 You can't deny your post was directed at me coz noone else had posted about saris, trp aunties and dressing up according to said trp aunties other than me.

Lol I am not shouting I am just generally putting this question and in caps so that people gives attention to it. I need an answer coz from last 10 years I am not into itv. I saw the demand of sarees 10 years back but I am not sure of this era. We were ok with KKGSR wearing Anarkalis even after marriage coz they had an odd one but never spared her sister Payel as she wore Sarees always.

This was not a targeted post to you but an extension of question to your post. Does people still prefer the same things what they wanted 10 years back?

I guess the mocking of each other in this forum had become so high that people are misinterpreting many emotions of writings. I am genuinely sorry if you felt I targeted you but it was my question for everyone coming across my words. Neither I am here to question nor target I am here for healthy discussion and understanding how other people view things.

Once again I AM SORRY

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Also Special Mention: I thought about this issue when I came across your reply and it bugged me so asked for others views too.

Edited by MiuniS - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: MiuniS

Lol I am not shouting I am just generally putting this question and in caps so that people gives attention to it. I need an answer coz from last 10 years I am not into itv. I saw the demand of sarees 10 years back but I am not sure of this era. We were ok with KKGSR wearing Anarkalis even after marriage coz they had an odd one but never spared her sister Payel as she wore Sarees always.

This was not a targeted post to you but an extension of question to your post. Does people still prefer the same things what they wanted 10 years back?

I guess the mocking of each other in this forum had become so high that people are misinterpreting many emotions of writings. I am genuinely sorry if you felt I targeted you but it was my question for everyone coming across my words. Neither I am here to question nor target I am here for healthy discussion and understanding how other people view things.

Once again I AM SORRY

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Also Special Mention: I thought about this issue when I came across your reply and it bugged me so asked for others views too.

I'm sorry too. Maybe I was over-sensitive. Caps is internet speak for shouting and the part you put in caps was all that I had mentioned so thought it was addressed to me. That's not a real excuse though.

Sorry again.

I will just go sit my sensitive ass down and give it a telling off.

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