Originally posted by: Bluegrass
Things that, I think, Aru will remember and by default Imlie will realise:
She knows that she isn't actually a daughter of the T-psychos; that she doesn't have any haq or equality in that family.
What she doesn't realise is how transactional her notions of love are. I was traumatised by her words to Malini. Aru will help her break this cycle of abuse, manipulation and entrapment. She'd have to chose and give unconditional love with him
I miss you three
Jumping in right here cause Iâve come in after days and youâve tagged me (thank you!!!) so might be missing some context but thought Iâd share some thoughts as well.
I agree - to this point love in Imlieâs life has been largely transactional. She doesnât see the toxic relationships within the T house. She said it today - the Tâs are the only ones whoâve ever accepted her outside of her mother and SK. It doesnât even register what she had to do to both gain that âloveâ and keep that âloveâ now.
Thatâs why she cannot fathom how someone could just do something for her without any expectations (you know the fight from a few days ago). Aryanâs every little action shows how he values her without needing or wanting anything in return (although you know a thank you might be nice lol). Loving him, receiving love from him, is going to truly show her what real love is.
I loved todayâs episode - there were couple vibes all over the place. It was beautiful. But that phone call at the end, has my whole heart tonight. The other moments were great and I can gush to no end about them, but that moment there was proper couple vibes. Him calling her to complain about something she does, her wanting to know if thatâs why heâs called her, him telling her he got hurt, her being worried, but then instantly teasing him when she realizes heâs fine. His making sure she knows sheâs got safe transportation home. His sulky-ness. If he wanted comfort heâs got a mother and sister who love him, but they didnât even know heâd been hurt until the morning. He called her. Her smiling thinking about their conversation, because itâs just natural with him. This switching between serious and vulnerable to joking around and trying to get a reaction from the other.
I thought Iâd be annoyed when (inevitably) Imlie ended up staying at the Tâs because Aparna was ill but Iâm not. I think thisâll create some great Arylie moments. Theyâre going to miss each other, theyâve gotten used to each other, and who knows what routines they have that we havenât seen. Already weâve seen how itâs just a given that Aryan and Imlie have breakfast together as a family and go to work together. Plus, sheâs never had someone like Aryan in her corner when going up against Malini, and that alone should show her the difference between whatâs sheâs put up with in the past and what she actually deserves.
Okay, enough of my rambling - that went on longer than anticipated lol! Miss you too!! There just donât seem to be enough hours in the day.