Imlie Written Updates & Episode Discussions 11 Nov 2021 - Page 12

As random as today's episode was, I really liked this dialog of Imlie's "aap kare to faisla, hum kare toh zidd". Reminded me of this cartoon I saw a while back and it stuck with me. This dialog is so true on how decisions made by men vs.women are perceived in general.

https://www.facebook.com/aauwbg/photos/a.1431055767140973/2383233815256492/

Exactly my point. Writers say they don't have contro, Actors say they have no say, channel says we don't have any control..and TRP aren't so great but even they aren't pushing anyone for better script less DD awesome PF of DD or for so buddhi to the 'only' smart looking babushaib.

Aapne Kitne dilo ki BAAT ki..Sach if we get some episodes without DD truly it would be param Shanti 🤩

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Please note this is nothing personal. Just that somethings are really not right in my opinion. Again this is directed to the characters and not the actors.

Well, here is the problematic part then.

1. She came into the Tripathi houdehold as a maid while she was well, married and continued to stay that way hiding the truth from everybody. She even got Malini and Aditya married and what happened on their (Aditya-Malini) first wedding night?

Sorry, but what was she expecting that they would be married but not stay married?

2. Imlie knew of every conversation between Aditya-Malini. She would mysteriously know everything happening, conversations in other's life.

Example:

https://youtu.be/yV4YdFCyV7M

3. Both Aditya and Imlie progressed their relationship while Aditya was much married to Malini and still continued hiding the truth. When Aditya forced her to reveal the truth, she refused on the pretext of "Malini did ka kaa hoie?"". Really? What was she expecting? Just because Aditya had this sudden realisation that a 7 year relation was "just" very deep friendship, Malini also should start loving someone else? I mean really? Firstly, Aditya was downright betraying and Imlie was an accomplice in this.

None of this was unintentional or circumstantial but in full consciousness.

I can only say this: Imlie and Adi have made their fair share of mistakes, that cannot be denied, but they never did anything out of a place of malice for Malini. These two were tied to each other against their will and while they both grappled with the circumstances the best they could, they also did everything possible not to let MC be hurt by it. Imlie even chose to live as a servant in Adi's house because she was an 18 year old girl who had nowhere else to go. The one time Adi revealed the truth to Malini, she fainted and didn't even bother to follow up with him, choosing to take his ridiculous excuses at face value. He was backed into a corner, worried about her mental state if he revealed the truth a second time. Even still, he tried to reveal the truth again on their wedding day, but it was Imlie who stopped him this time. Even though she's young and she was trying to make that sacrifice from a place of selflessness, she was wrong to do that, I completely agree with that. However, I don't believe that they betrayed Malini after the wedding, because Imlie's Adi's first wife, they each had a lot of respect for Malini to ever think of crossing that line, and Adi was constantly looking for avenues to tell Malini the truth from the moment he realized he loves Imlie. There was no ambiguity and looking back for him from that point on.

What MC is doing now, as a so-called mature and well-established professor, is not just condemnable, it's completely wrong. She's malicious to her core at this point. She has destroyed her self-respect and committed unpardonable crimes, all to gain the love of a man who is not the least bit interested in her. Why? We can argue day and night about how wrong Imlie and Adi were, but the fact remains - two wrongs don't make a right. What MC feels for Adi is nothing but resentment and obsession. Resentment, I can still understand given what he did, but obsession is only going to destroy her and whatever little friendship she still has left with Adi when he finds out the truth. She should not be spared, that is a fact.

Imlie's intentions have never been to hurt anyone but Malini cares for no one....not her own parents either.

Imlie and Adi have suffered and are still suffering but Malini chose all the wrong actions. Adi never got physical with Malini and avoided even the slightest touch after realizing his love for Imlie. Malini on other hand RAPED Adi.

Malini doesn't care about her pregnancy or the child! Imlie and Malini are incomparable.

And YES people stay in a relationship for many things less than love and friendship. And Finally realizing his love he wanted to free Malini so she can have better life.

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

Imlie's intentions have never been to hurt anyone but Malini cares for no one....not her own parents either.

Imlie and Adi have suffered and are still suffering but Malini chose all the wrong actions. Adi never got physical with Malini and avoided even the slightest touch after realizing his love for Imlie. Malini on other hand RAPED Adi.

Malini doesn't care about her pregnancy or the child! Imlie and Malini are incomparable.

And YES people stay in a relationship for many things less than love and friendship. And Finally realizing his love he wanted to free Malini so she can have better life.

Ok this is probably going to be a looooooong post and hopefully the last set of charcha from my end on this thread.

1. Imlie's intentions:

What were Imlie's intentions?

To get Aditya and Malini married and then not allow for them to be in a relation by coming in their way (excerpt link shared previously)? She expected none to doubt her, call her betrayal out and not be hurt?

To forcefully search a groom for Malini without her knowledge and get married? Was it to satisfy her own guilt or was it to push the blame of having an extra-marital affair on Malini?

The argument to ALL this being her immaturity? Alright, but what were Aditya, Mithi, Satyakam doing? Did anyone try to make her understand?

And now ALL of a sudden in less than a year she has become mature to say, "Mera pati sirf mera hain"? He is no toy right?

What was Aditya's intentions?

To marry Malini while still being married to Imlie and in full consciousness? To give in to Imlie's demand to hide the truth? To continue to betray Malini because of her weak Mental health?

How conveniently did Dev ask Malini to give everything up? To satisfy his own guilt? What about how he has treated Anu Chaturvedi and cheated on her?

Yes Malini not caring her Pregnancy is wrong, absolutely wrong. Now her hurt, the betrayals she has faced has psyched her and Aditya has become her obsession, I guess. Hope she realises for her own good.

2. Imlie-Aditya's sufferings:

Imlie-Aditya's sufferings are their own creation. They are solely responsible for their actions and subsequent consequences.

The only incorrect thing that happened to Imlie and Aditya was a forced marriage. (Even in that, why did Aditya not tell the villagers that he was engaged to be married?). I believe a marriage under force is not a legal marriage. Regardless, why did she get Malini and Aditya Married and is now claiming being the first wife?

The complications that occurred thereon is a consequence of Hiding their marriage, betraying everyone, adultery.

What Malini did is not pardonable. No doubts about it.

Hence, Malini should certainly be convicted, Aditya and Imlie should be convicted for bigamy (Aditya only) and adultery amd Dev should be convicted for adultery.

3. Imlie-Malini comparison:

Sure, Malini and Imlie are incomparable.

Malini took her under her wing when Imlie stayed at the Tripathi's. Encouraged her studies. During ALL this time, only Imlie and Aditya knew the truth but betrayed her emotions, care. Not just her, they betrayed 2 families.

Tripathi's and Dev (he is guilty of adultery himself) are nothing short of hypocrites. How else do you explain that Rupi and Nishant showed no empathy or support towards Malini and never confronted Aditya.

On the other hand, when Imlie knew of Malini's intentions, she asked for Malini to be sent to the Chaturvedi's. So, she was insecure of her souring relations and being manipulated, right? What happened when Malini and Aditya were married and Imlie was known to everyone as a "maid" at their house? May be right from the beginning, (i guess as initially suggested by Anu Chaturvedi initially) Malini should have asked for Imlie to be admitted to the college hostel. This would have been good both for Malini's relations and for Imlie's career.

Malini wanted Imlie to get justice thinking she was a victim. She also got the divorce proceedings started thinking Aditya fell out of love.

(At this point, the makers realised that a parallel will become holier than the leads and she will become more popular and to retain the leads' interest, they made a 180 degree turn on Malini.)

Malini turned evil not because Aditya and Imlie fell in love. She turned evil due to the betrayal of Imlie who took her relation further right under her nose and due to her 7 year old relationship which everyone (including Aditya) knew as "love". She brought out the truth of Dev-Mithi and how her mothering is suffering a betrayal from so many years.

How Malini can love a person like Aditya is something I guess none can explain.

4. Aditya-Malini divorce:

Aditya treated his marriage as a stop-gap arrangement or what? He did not intend to free Malini, he only freed himself. The divorce was initiated by Malini. Aditya did not even have it in him to accept his relation with Imlie infront of everyone after his so called "realization".

Regardless, I cannot understand how we can justify what Imlie-Aditya did, hiding their marriage, going ahead in their relation while being wedded to someone else. Even after that, they did not confess to Malini and the families. The truth was brought out by Anu Chaturvedi. It is called adultery and that is punishable too. Both of them (Aditya and Imlie) are equally responsible.

I rest my case🙂.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Ok this is probably going to be a looooooong post and hopefully the last set of charcha from my end on this thread.

1. Imlie's intentions:

What were Imlie's intentions?

To get Aditya and Malini married and then not allow for them to be in a relation by coming in their way (excerpt link shared previously)? She expected none to doubt her, call her betrayal out and not be hurt? Imli a young girl with no intentions to marry at all, coming from the village in her belief that once married forcibly or otherwise Adi was her husband for life and she was fine with that, but not interfere in his marriage with Malini. She was 18, it took Rupi to explain to her that marriage was more than wearing sindoor and mangalsutra, you need your husband with you.

To forcefully search a groom for Malini without her knowledge and get married? Was it to satisfy her own guilt or was it to push the blame of having an extra-marital affair on Malini? Malini cooked up the story she had another man in her life before Aditya during college days to save face at the hospital when she slit her wrist. Imlie never tried to find another man for Malini. In fact, when Adi tells her Malini told him she was in love with a guy from her college days Imli didn’t believe it and said until she was convinced after meeting them together that Malini had moved on with her old college mate she wouldn’t move on in her relationship with Adi.

The argument to ALL this being her immaturity? Alright, but what were Aditya, Mithi, Satyakam doing? Did anyone try to make her understand?

And now ALL of a sudden in less than a year she has become mature to say, "Mera pati sirf mera hain"? He is no toy right? Adi being at least a decade older than Imli always knew Malini loved him and he even told Aparna he was okay to settle marrying his best friend. It was only after PD3 both Adi realized the difference between deep friendship and labeling in love. Imli was confused about what she was feeling too and took a while before she realized they were in love. There is no timeline and not everybody realizes if it is true love on cue.

What was Aditya's intentions?

To marry Malini while still being married to Imlie and in full consciousness? To give in to Imlie's demand to hide the truth? To continue to betray Malini because of her weak Mental health? This has been a point raised often. His intentions were honest, he did tell Malini the truth. She fainted and the doctor warned Adi to not tell her what she may not want to hear it would be dangerous (his actual words)as she’s mentally weak. Fear for his friend’s life he backtracked. He could have told his parents or Chaturvedis but didn’t. Malini made him swear he would tell no one she was hospitalized. He respected her wishes. Had they intervened she would still have fallen apart. Malini has never been told NO to anything hence the weak woman that she is. Pampered and having it her today we see her treat Adi as her personal toy that she went so far as to force herself on a man she claimed to love. If she really loved Adi she would put his happiness ahead of her own and not want to forcibly keep him in her life. She claims she loves him yet only wants to own him and doesn’t care about the baby either (her own words). She uses her so called pregnancy real or fake as a weapon and bargain8ng chip to force Adi to give in to her demands. She is just a selfish self-absorbed girl at 30. Educated Professor but emotionally immaturity is well below her age.

How conveniently did Dev ask Malini to give everything up? To satisfy his own guilt? What about how he has treated Anu Chaturvedi and cheated on her?Dev is a coward an emotionally weak man and the most useless character on the show. Within days of making verbal promises he does just the opposite. In fact he does nothing. Malini is weak like Dev except when she gets stubborn she becomes a clone of her mommy dearest shrieking and shouting to have it her way tantruming like a toddler.

Yes Malini not caring her Pregnancy is wrong, absolutely wrong. Now her hurt, the betrayals she has faced has psyched her and Aditya has become her obsession, I guess. Hope she realises for her own good.

2. Imlie-Aditya's sufferings:

Imlie-Aditya's sufferings are their own creation. They are solely responsible for their actions and subsequent consequences.

The only incorrect thing that happened to Imlie and Aditya was a forced marriage. (Even in that, why did Aditya not tell the villagers that he was engaged to be married?). I believe a marriage under force is not a legal marriage. Regardless, why did she get Malini and Aditya Married and is now claiming being the first wife?

The complications that occurred thereon is a consequence of Hiding their marriage, betraying everyone, adultery. Don’t th8nk villagers would’ve cared he was engaged. To them a girl who spends a night away from home must be married to him. They both swore nothing happened and yet the villagers refused to believe egged on by Nakli Nani.

What Malini did is not pardonable. No doubts about it.

Hence, Malini should certainly be convicted, Aditya and Imlie should be convicted for bigamy (Aditya only) and adultery amd Dev should be convicted for adultery. Adi should have called off the wedding and faced AC’s wrath and Sr T’s disappointment so Cs could get Malini some psychiatric help. But at that time Adi blamed Imli for the situation, he was livid and vented his frustration on her. Until Imli would use every opportunity to remind him the reality of how things were for him and how her life had been turned on it’s head. He felt guilt and feared calling off the wedding would do serious harm to his best friend. Slowly he realized his mistakes but by then he was already married to her too. Malini should have filed a case for bigamy against him once he told her the truth. But were the writers keeping it fuzzy with the state of marriage by claiming Malini was the legally registered wife though Imli was married first forcibly but with witnesses and rituals performed. One huge blunder on Adi part was to not follow through on the divorce and expecting Malini to do the work. Maybe him not taking active action to get it done gave her hope to get back in his life even if he didn’t love her. That’s desperation, a path emotionally weak person pursues not to face reality of the situation. KC counseled her but she in her stubborn nature refused to listen. Question is why would any self respecting woman want to hold onto to a man who clearly stated he is in love with another woman and always would. He will only see her as a dear friend and nothing more?

3. Imlie-Malini comparison:

Sure, Malini and Imlie are incomparable.

Malini took her under her wing when Imlie stayed at the Tripathi's. Encouraged her studies. During ALL this time, only Imlie and Aditya knew the truth but betrayed her emotions, care. Not just her, they betrayed 2 families.True, All the Tripathis cared for her and loved her before Malini Adi wedding. Imli reciprocated the love she received too. But Malini choosing to care for Imli was her choice. Adi is responsible for not telling the family the truth when Imli came with him from PD for the first time. Clouded by his emotions he blamed her for his plight not seeing it was not Imli’s choice to marry him or her fault either. Adi created the mess and he still hasn’t cleared it. To appease his guilt for betraying Malini’s trust he brought her back to his house. He continues to blunder having kept her there long enough she forced herself on him pretending to be Imli and now claims a pregnancy fake or otherwise. He takes her word for it based on 7yr friendship and never bothered to accompany her to the doctor to know more. The serious patrakar’s investigative skills has no place in his personal life.

Tripathi's and Dev (he is guilty of adultery himself) are nothing short of hypocrites. How else do you explain that Rupi and Nishant showed no empathy or support towards Malini and never confronted Aditya. Rupi and Nishant fawned over their Malini babhi in the early days after the wedding. Once they both knew the truth about Imli being Adi’s first wife through no fault of hers they switched their allegiance to Imli and supported her every way they could. Nishant did confront Adi about his treatment of Malini before he learned the truth about Imli being Adi’s wife.

On the other hand, when Imlie knew of Malini's intentions, she asked for Malini to be sent to the Chaturvedi's. So, she was insecure of her souring relations and being manipulated, right? What happened when Malini and Aditya were married and Imlie was known to everyone as a "maid" at their house? May be right from the beginning, (i guess as initially suggested by Anu Chaturvedi initially) Malini should have asked for Imlie to be admitted to the college hostel. This would have been good both for Malini's relations and for Imlie's career. Sooner or later Adi would have figured out Malini was always only going to be a friend. Even after forcibly being married to Imli he couldn’t leave her at the NGO. Have always felt from the first time he met Imli Adi noticed her attitude, her spirit and her confidence. It may not have meant much to him early on but once she was at T house he began to notice her selfless actions towards his family and gradually his feelings for Imli changed.

Malini wanted Imlie to get justice thinking she was a victim. She also got the divorce proceedings started thinking Aditya fell out of love.

(At this point, the makers realised that a parallel will become holier than the leads and she will become more popular and to retain the leads' interest, they made a 180 degree turn on Malini.)

Malini turned evil not because Aditya and Imlie fell in love. She turned evil due to the betrayal of Imlie who took her relation further right under her nose and due to her 7 year old relationship which everyone (including Aditya) knew as "love". She brought out the truth of Dev-Mithi and how her mothering is suffering a betrayal from so many years. She found out the truth but she never disclosed it to Imli. She told her father she knew and her mother overheard her conversation with Dev, who then decided to tell Imli. MC only admitted to knowing Imli was her half sister when she showed up at Ts house when Adi fainted and Imli asked her about it.

How Malini can love a person like Aditya is something I guess none can explain. Malini calls what she feels for Adi love, not buying it, her actions don’t match. If it’s love it’s selfish and no one loves a person would treat the the way she does Adi, the way she drugged him and forced herself on him being as terrible as it gets. She’s needy and clingy. Most men shy from women who are too needy, Adi is easily manipulated and like her mother she likes a man she can manipulate. KC was a straight shooter and she couldn’t play games with him. He’s the kind of guy she needs, who will call her out on her pretense and refusal to face reality. Men like Adi need a strong woman who will challenge him to grow. Imli is that kind of person. He’s stubborn as a mule letting his ego now get in the way to face reality about who MC has become, that way he’s much like this soon to be ex-friend.

4. Aditya-Malini divorce:

Aditya treated his marriage as a stop-gap arrangement or what? He did not intend to free Malini, he only freed himself. The divorce was initiated by Malini. Aditya did not even have it in him to accept his relation with Imlie infront of everyone after his so called "realization".

Regardless, I cannot understand how we can justify what Imlie-Aditya did, hiding their marriage, going ahead in their relation while being wedded to someone else. Even after that, they did not confess to Malini and the families. The truth was brought out by Anu Chaturvedi. It is called adultery and that is punishable too. Both of them (Aditya and Imlie) are equally responsible.

Adi later on admitted to Imli his fault marrying both her and MC and his failure to tell the truth to his family the day he came back home with Imli. Admitting to ones mistake is the first step to fixing the situation. He may have committed bigamy by marrying two women within days of each other, once forced and one voluntary. But he never two-timed either women or maintain intimate relations with either one. He had a few stolen moments of being around Imli and trying to convince her to tell the truth to the family. MC forced herself on him pretending to be Imli knowing he is in love with Imli and married to her….a disgusting conscious choice from an older educated woman. Adi hid the truth from the family. Once he knew he loved Imli he wanted both of them to reveal it willingly to the family. Imli was scared about family’s rejection (which did happen). It took him time to convince her but by then MC had blurted the truth to AC who used it as a way to hurt Imli. But then MC has a knack for blurting the truth to the wrong person at the wrong time.

Now Adi is back to letting his ego run the show and so Imli has left him. Sooner or later he has to grow up and face the truth about MC real face and when it hits him like a 2 by 4 between the eyes it’s going to be a doozie. Like he said the truth can’t be hidden for long, it has a way of finding its way forward.

I rest my case🙂.

My responses in ……Bold and Italics😊

An (A) version of the (B) Underscore Production Music track also on Saaith 2 is used in Imlie and Saaith on a more regular basis again wonder if it's that same West One library as the Krishna part of Diwali festival feat. Imlie or a different one. Lol

Candle one

Did Dev rent out or sell the apartment he bought for Imli. How does she have to live in a hostel now? Maybe to appease MC he’s backtracked as usual, say something do the opposite.

Now Imli is going to face a warden who’s supposedly nasty to her like Cinderella’s stepmother

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

Exactly my point. Writers say they don't have contro, Actors say they have no say, channel says we don't have any control..and TRP aren't so great but even they aren't pushing anyone for better script less DD awesome PF of DD or for so buddhi to the 'only' smart looking babushaib.

if writers, actors and networks all say they lack control then no wonder the show’s tracks are like an out of control speeding car on a highway.

Someone ought to reign it in.