indu deserves a whack...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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she deserves to be put down and snubbed by husna/indira as she hurt zara every moment she(zara) tried genuinely to be good to her...she is ek no ka badmaash and battameez ...
husna was right in saying when indu does a mistake someone shud correct her

i agree indu is good by heart and is like this only because of rishi but she crosses her age limit,it was because of her zara became bad-indu as a kid musnt have forced rishi to get intimate with a mad or person without consciousness ...she acted beyond her age...

i also agree as a kid she did a great job by identifying that the lahorewali mad was indira by follying a route -getting her thumbpringt and all where rishi fell by his heart and finally ended up in doing injustice to zara...but humiliating zara and slapping elders is absolutely wrong and all she is getting is what she deserves...i wish indira/Husna cud actually hit her and make her realise her mistakes

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think she is emotionally effected by the recent events, remember this girl needs both her ma/fa together , she never had that in her life as Rishi n Shawta weren't happy together . The fact that now her mom can't be her is taking a toll on her poor thing . She ( Indu ) will fine once her parents are together .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i have never heard that disciplining a child include whacking and hitting. Lucky i didnt have a mom who believes in that.

Discipline teaches a child how to act. Discipline should make sense to a child. It should have something to do with what they have done wrong. Discipline helps a child feel good about themselves. It gives them the chance to correct their mistakes. It puts them in charge of their actions.

Punishment only tells a child that they are bad. It does not tell a child what they should do instead. So punishment may not make sense to the child. Punishment usually has nothing to do with what the child did wrong. (Credit - https://urbanext.illinois.edu/nibbles/challenges-discipline.html)

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Posted: 12 years ago
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first indira was a mad person and saheb enterered her life and she recovered and now she has memory loss. and now she doesn't want to get near saheb. when she was mad she called out ishi when she first saw him now she doesn't know who she is. terrible story writing by the cv's. who agrees?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i feel sorry for indu as she has suffer watching her mom have memory loss and cant remember anything and saheb's daughter calling her mom is just too much for indu as to why she pushed babli down the stairs. any child want her mother to love her as indira aka husna is doing with babli but now with indu. she just wanted to teach saheb a lesson but it didnt work and husna wanted to slap indu and rishi didn't the right thing by protecting his daughter.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhanya.r

i have never heard that disciplining a child include whacking and hitting. Lucky i didnt have a mom who believes in that.


Discipline teaches a child how to act. Discipline should make sense to a child. It should have something to do with what they have done wrong. Discipline helps a child feel good about themselves. It gives them the chance to correct their mistakes. It puts them in charge of their actions.

Punishment only tells a child that they are bad. It does not tell a child what they should do instead. So punishment may not make sense to the child. Punishment usually has nothing to do with what the child did wrong. (Credit - https://urbanext.illinois.edu/nibbles/challenges-discipline.html)

Agree and coming to the story line I must say being a very stubborn child as she's described she did lots for ndira which her mother should have done for her...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: afghan33

i feel sorry for indu as she has suffer watching her mom have memory loss and cant remember anything and saheb's daughter calling her mom is just too much for indu as to why she pushed babli down the stairs. any child want her mother to love her as indira aka husna is doing with babli but now with indu. she just wanted to teach saheb a lesson but it didnt work and husna wanted to slap indu and rishi didn't the right thing by protecting his daughter.


iam not supporting indu's act here,but for one second feel the frustration of the child,even knowing that she is her mom,she can't call her mom,everyday she is watching that her mom is loving another child which is not even her daughter.

In that case,how do you expect a child to behave rationally?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aware92

she deserves to be put down and snubbed by husna/indira as she hurt zara every moment she(zara) tried genuinely to be good to her...she is ek no ka badmaash and battameez ...

husna was right in saying when indu does a mistake someone shud correct her

i agree indu is good by heart and is like this only because of rishi but she crosses her age limit,it was because of her zara became bad-indu as a kid musnt have forced rishi to get intimate with a mad or person without consciousness ...she acted beyond her age...

i also agree as a kid she did a great job by identifying that the lahorewali mad was indira by follying a route -getting her thumbpringt and all where rishi fell by his heart and finally ended up in doing injustice to zara...but humiliating zara and slapping elders is absolutely wrong and all she is getting is what she deserves...i wish indira/Husna cud actually hit her and make her realise her mistakes

@ red first anwer my one question,how will u behave with a lady who is trying to take your mom's place when your mom is still alive?she is very spoilt I agree but before scolding a child,one should understand the condition of that child's mind first and then take necessary actions.Iam not supporting her act but I can't say that she is purely wrong.Just imagine how much frustrated that kid is.So what if anyone tries to be good with you,will u give your mom's place to her?

@blue Indu forced rishi to get intimate with Indira?a child forced her father to get intimate with her mom?now that is the joke of the day😆😆For ur very kind info the doctor asked to do that.Indu didn't get rishi married with zaara,so why should she feel concerned about zaara

@green Can you mention that particular epi where indu slapped her elders?Indira has all the authority to slap indu only when she regains her memory as indira not as husna.Who the hell is Husna to slap other's child?


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhanya.r

i have never heard that disciplining a child include whacking and hitting. Lucky i didnt have a mom whobelievesin that.


<font face="'Times New Roman'">Discipline teaches a child how to act. Discipline should make sense to a child. It should have something to do with what they have done wrong. Discipline helps a child feel good aboutthemselves. It gives them the chance to correct their mistakes. It puts them in charge of their actions.</font>

Punishment only tells a child that they are bad. It does not tell a child what they should do instead. So punishment may not make sense to the child. Punishment usually has nothing to do with what the child did wrong. (Credit -https://urbanext.illinois.edu/nibbles/challenges-discipline.html)




You are lucky! My mom would beat me up, regardless of whether I was good or bad. Me being the shy and quiet kid, didn't know how to defend myself. Grew up seeking approval of others . Shoot! Childhood development stage makes such a huge difference in a person's life!

Wish my mom thought the same as your mom too! :/ funny now standing up for yourself is considered wrong and back talking! Funny how our culture is sometimes! SMH
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: afghan33

first indira was a mad person and saheb enterered her life and she recovered and now she has memory loss. and now shedoesn'twant to get near saheb. when she was mad she called out ishi when she first saw him now shedoesn'tknow who she is. terriblestory writingby the cv's. who agrees?



I DO! Feel bad for the actors too, who has to bear through this mess of a storyline! Whoever is the writer of the show, really thinks writing stories is a joke or game! Where you can keep editing and changing things, even when in realistic sense, which is what this is supposed to be, in realistic sense it doesn't make any sense! Writers have lost it! Period!

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