Rishi -- This is What This Man is!!

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: sahmed083
really very nice post and i agree dat even small post can make big difference.

i hope this post go in a right and positive direction.😳

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Pari117
read the below thread for all ur doubts, tc 😃

Piousness Untouched..

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Heema22
HI Pari, nice post! Short but to the point !!! My exact feeling after I watched the episode ,
I always ask one question to my self and I do not let any one or any post influence me or pollute my mind. Why do I like fictional character RISHI ? And why I jump to defend him from many Basher or ill wisher?
I finally found answer I was looking for . And it was stamped by his monologue in today's episode ,
Yes many think that he is lazy ,he is very weak for man and drinks when he cannot bare it any more! He is lawyer but we do not see any mention of his law practiced and he gets butchered, they even think that he is bad father, bad son and bad brother!! He is label as bad husband for Sweta and he was seen lying many times for good reason that evey one overlooks!!!
And I still like this man ! Is something wrong with me? It's not Sumit . Instead I like Rishi first and then Sumit with limited scope in HD his acting was good in various emotional roller coster role !!
I like him because he is very caring!! Optimistic , responsible when needed !! ready to give up every thing if need and selfless in many situatons.He is always ready to help, and he is very honest with his feelings and he loves his wife just the I want to be loved. He gave up his wealth for love of his life. gave up mansion and lives in SN , The vastu which is cursed !! And today he is ready to give up love for this Zibmedari!! Hats of to this fictional character!!!!!
For any reason they try to change story and prove LW is Indira. He has every right to marry and live happy life wife Zara and look after india ! Why not ? Second love. Second chance he deserves!!! After his marriage to Sweta , which was forced by Indira with her emotional blackmail he has every right to be happy !!! This is what Indira wanted any way!!

Heema, @bold- I find that to be the case with both Rishi and Indira- at the core, despite all their flaws, both are caring people. But I need Rishi to stop being so caring that he gets easily "persuaded" (emotionally blackmailed may be a better choice of words) by every woman in his life. He has to realize that every decision that he has made so far under the influence of these women has ended up badly. First it was marriage with Shweta, then it was hiding Indira's truth from Indu at Shweta's "request," then it was taking LW to the mental asylum at Zara's request and heaven forbid now its going to be marriage with the LW for Indu. He should have listened to his gut which was telling him that all these decisions were wrong! All these women want one thing or the other from him- he needs to figure out what he wants and go with that- he can't please everyone. If Indu wants her mummy, she should get her mummy- no need for him to marry the LW (if Indu is any kind of a daughter, she will understand- if not now, then later). If he thinks that his conscience won't allow him to leave the LW on her own, then thats his decision and Zara can decide to stay or leave (yes she may be heart broken but this is life and these are the absurd circumstances that have been created for Rishi and Zara). As long he makes the decision independently, there's no wrong decision here- just difficult ones which he unfortunately has to make. But he needs to stop trying to be a people pleaser because ultimately he can't be everything to everyone all the time.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: sakshi1

@ bold: Just one question, I wanted to ask, did they prove LW as Indira???? Still story is unfolding, only Gods knows when Illa will revive the truth... she is stretching this plot like rubber band..

it is not even proved that Zara is Indira, DNA and finger prints proofs are shown in case of Zara and even Rishi decided to move on in his life treating Zara as Zara not Indira, I hope for now these are enough proofs to show Zara is mumbaiwali and Indira is LW

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Originally posted by: sakshi1

Again I want to ask same question to you... Did LW is proved that she is Indira only??? Until now we don't know who is real Indira and who is real Zara, still story is unfolding, please do comment this once who is proved Indira.

i feel as per the story going you can present your POV when the story unfolds we can change our POV as this is reel not real 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Pari117
read the below thread for all ur doubts, tc 😃

Piousness Untouched..

thanks for your effort to present the link to me 😉

but do you mean love of Rishi happened only just because Zara physically looks like Indira, does his love depends on physical appearance

you said when he needed someone Zara is there with him... that is too funny, for 8 years shweta is there for him in every mode of pain but he didnot want her because her physical appearance is not matching with Indira 😲

all in all i can say one thing CVs done the mistake of allowing Rishi to say and believe Zara as Indira when he had an extra martial affair with Zara but suddenly later they showed Rishi thinking Zara is not Indira 😆

I can say CVs messed up with Rishi character very badly by doing this

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Posted: 12 years ago

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QUOTE Walden

Heema, @bold- I find that to be the case with both Rishi and Indira- at the core, despite all their flaws, both are caring people. But I need Rishi to stop being so caring that he gets easily "persuaded" (emotionally blackmailed may be a better choice of words) by every woman in his life. He has to realize that every decision that he has made so far under the influence of these women has ended up badly. First it was marriage with Shweta, then it was hiding Indira's truth from Indu at Shweta's "request," then it was taking LW to the mental asylum at Zara's request and heaven forbid now its going to be marriage with the LW for Indu. He should have listened to his gut which was telling him that all these decisions were wrong! All these women want one thing or the other from him- he needs to figure out what he wants and go with that- he can't please everyone. If Indu wants her mummy, she should get her mummy- no need for him to marry the LW (if Indu is any kind of a daughter, she will understand- if not now, then later). If he thinks that his conscience won't allow him to leave the LW on her own, then thats his decision and Zara can decide to stay or leave (yes she may be heart broken but this is life and these are the absurd circumstances that have been created for Rishi and Zara). As long he makes the decision independently, there's no wrong decision here- just difficult ones which he unfortunately has to make. But he needs to stop trying to be a people pleaser because ultimately he can't be everything to everyone all the time.

Hi Walden,

Points well taken !! I love to read your posts !!

I want Rishi exactly the way you want him tobe! HD will be very different and we will enjoy strong male figure on this show. Dream come true !!! Just imagine that show !! But reality is different !!!

This character is written with lots of shortcomings !!! Many of his flaws come from deep psychological reasons! And inner conflits !!! personality is made by our life experiences and genes !! I do not want to talk about this genes , but I defiantly wants to talk to you about his personality changed by his Pscychological problem! No way he is normal! He is suffering from untreated depression from many years !!! Guilt . Rejection , fear of loosing love ones , loneliness . Lack of success in professional life and Bad luck !!! He thinks that he looses every one he loves!! Horrible fear . So he has fears!it is very difficult to live our life in fear of loosing love ones !!

Every one needs mother's love and mother guidance to develop our confidence, self respect and strong mind .our insecurities are developed during our child hood experiences . He was raised by servants . He was very lonely . Hoping for moms attention. So all his life he is looking for female attention .He is rejected by his mom for his brother and father and rejection and confidence plays big role in our life . Vidhits accidant and guilt played big role in his life, that has scarred him deeply. Hence poor confidence !! Afraid to make decisions on his own .Loss of Indira and his mother make him weak and worried about loosing love ones and he appears to be unsure of him self and he has big in for fear of loosing his love one . So he appears to be very weak and ambivalent !! So his behavior towards Indu is very justified , he is worried about loosing her !! Every women in his life has successfully manipulating him and he lets then because of fearless loosing them and poor confidence !! I tired to understand him and tried not to see my Ideal man in Rishi . He is bashed as Rishi because most of us cannot see weak man . We think that every man should be strong .. Another point proven for your post of gender stereotype!!!! .

I have only hope for his character. Depression is inverted anger. I think we will see when last straw Breaks camels back and he freaks out and becomes angery young man !!

I want to see him this way, not because I want strong man but I want him to come out his psychological struggles !!! Come out of hurdles And face reality !!!

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Posted: 12 years ago

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@all: i will be replying u all soon, need to board train for college, so might b bit late 😊

wouldnt rewrite same points, kindly dont repeat the same issues which i already cleared to keep this discussion fresh.

adios

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Thanks pari for such a positive post for rishi.

Truly agree with you.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: -warz-
sis, great post👏...i wanna say the same thing.😳 That Rishi is the only character that i can trust blindly. He never disappoints me...ever...

For an example if he does something..without giving any reason, i wait for upcoming episodes and don't take him as a bad character in HD. He is the only one character...jo starting se same hai. kuch change nahin hua. Where as in HD...sare ke sare character..sab barbaad hain..😆

@bold: same with me..Rishi is the only person i can blindly believe & trust..he never ever disappointed me till now..he is a gem of a person..hats off to this man..He is a pure soul for me in HD. Let him take any decision i will stand for him because for me Rishi is always right

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