slaps are below standard - Page 2

Originally posted by: ramya567

these days again this slaps started.I dnt understand why Ph and cv's have so much love for slaps.Is it not below standard to slap some one whatever the situation may be.If mistake is done by outsiders and damage is caused,police and law is there.If a family member does something wrong,issues can be sorted with some scoldings,warnings and discussions.Indira and her slaps have now become difficult to tolerate really.

Slaps for everything is not right.Indira too does mistakes.Will she allow anyone to slap her for her mistakes?She too does mistakes,hurts others sometimes even without their mistakes .For all tht will she accept slaps?Then comes her self respect in the picture.Why can't Indira think about Self respect of others?

People say that this is the negative point of Indira.But Cv's and Ph should not show these as heroism or heroineism.

Originally posted by: n7genius

I initially thought her slaps are OK, but nowadays they are becoming too much. You cannot raise your hand for every small mistake someone makes. Slap == violence. She should learn to restrain her hand. Her slapping Mandira was fine, but slapping Jhumpa was a little too much. What Mandira did effected her education and career and as a concerned sister she was super angry. How much ever Jhumpa is she is elder to her and she should have scolded her and handed to the police. Accidentally slapping Rishi is no excuse and I hope she makes up for it.

Originally posted by: nikki1591

theses are not mistakes, these are people who dont want to take responsibility for their action. for how long will indira try to reason with these people. some pple need the slapping for them to starighten their act together. mandira especially needs this. how many times has mandira been disrespectful to indira. when indira lived at the neighboring house mandira expected her to help her but when she first saw indira she was liek "we can't get rid of her." when indira refused the marriage propasal mandira called her selfish. mandira has showed nothing but disdain to a sister who without her mandira would not be alive. at least the others know that they need indira but mandira thinks shes above her. and just bc one is an elder does not mean one gets respect. jhumpa is nothing to indira. legally may be a stepmother but indira considers her worse than nothing. being an elder does not mean that u can seperate a family, spread rumors to ruin ur reputation(indira being pregnant out of wedlock pre vivek), have ur mother humilated bc u decided to spoil the food, and not expect someone to get revenge on u bc u r an elder. if u want to be treated with respect liek an elder u act liek one. wat is the diff b/t mandira and jhumpa? nothing besides age and if that is the only reason we treat people differently we need to seriously take a look at our priorities as a society bc the respect we are given by someone should matter more than age

Originally posted by: Malayraj

@Bold: it was by mistake, that doesn't mean that she doesn't care for her husband..

In my view, it is the mistake of our hero. Why is he jumping between two sisters ?

Originally posted by: ramya567

Rishi is stopping Indira,if not no doubt she would make Mandira situation horrible with that beating.For everything she uses her hand.She dnt think for a while.Can't she listen for while what mandira is saying.She bearting and beating her.Mandira did a mistake.Her future is spoiled but it doesnt mean she hits her like that.I wish Rishi slaps her back to make her understand that slapping is not always right

apart from our favouritism for a character in the show,if we see from the reality point of view slapping is wrong.Do we like to get slapped ? No na.

cv's are showing these slaps as hitler giri.But they are forgetting the fact tht Hitler is the worst person ever in the history.And thy want to ruin Indira's character too.

Originally posted by: Malayraj

mera wo matlab nahi tha, actully I want more and more slaps for mandira and if indira beat her with a steel rod, i don't mind coz... she deserves it but Rishi ko bech mai nahi bolna chahiya tha, uske beech mai aane se sara maza kharab ho gya... I want raining of slaps for each and every member of SF...

Originally posted by: n7genius

Hey, you are right. Age should not matter. For a sec thr, i think i forgot Jhumpa not just ruined the reputation of her mom but their entire life because their father left them and she was planning against her family so that they can lose whatever they have. To rethink about it, I think if someone does that to my family, I will not spare them either. I always think that things need to be sorted out coolly, but u r right. sometimes only slaps work. Mandira... as I said earlier, she totally deserves it. Indira did so much for her, stood against her family during the whole rape fiasco and that girl is like an ungrateful b****. Neither did she stand for her sister, instead she insulted her whenever possible.

Originally posted by: ramya567

c'mon yaar.wht did mandira do to u?she was trapped in that question paper case.I do have a soft corner for Mandira.bcoz she never had any father love.Not evn tht much what indira had.her bro,mom all are irresponsible.Indira she always angry and dictating with her.Indira showing lovve on mandira was very rare .All these developed mandira like that.

A person behaves according to his family environment only na. we all are supporting Indira 's angry saying she became like that bcoz of her family.Why can't ppl think the same for mandira.?

She is a girl who had been insulted very badly by sameer diwan.He did that to her to take revenge on Indira.

Mandira never had any proper care or love from her family including from Indira.thats why she became like that.I dnt understand why forum ppl think so negtive abt her.She is def after money bcoz she is always restricted for things which she wish to buy.

i wish that ppl see other side of mandira and indira also.Indira is not devta totally and mandira is not dayaan.both sisiters have their negtive points.The only thing needed is sisterly love.