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Posted: 11 years ago
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We want him to be devastated. But he is not.

We want him to be deeply regretful but he is not.

We want him to be in mourning. But he is not.

We want him to pine for her. But he does not.

His behavior reminds of me of a aphorism from the tale of two cities. Whatever is, is right. He is marinating himself in whatever is' and accepting of whatever has transpired.

He is trying to reconcile himself with his loss, his hurt, and most importantly the one inflicted by him.

He is trying to move on.

Any regrets regarding her he will relegate to the background. And for now, the real world, which he is back to, is his forefront.

Their love will not be the tumultuous storm of passion that will blow them off their feet. Their raw feelings will ripen over time because they both touched each other at some visceral level.

This story is like a gentle brook that is meandering at its own pace governed by no desire to be a certain place but just the desire to flow. I think it best even as viewers to just enjoy the flow.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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its nice post I agree ,actually one needs to re see episodes to see Nikhil's reaction, he has reacted to Laajo's going in his own way which is neither intense nor dismissive, it has its own pace and definition ,every day the PH is increasing its intensity, I too have decided to let the flow guide me to this path of self realization and commitment for both Laajo and Nikhil
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post, Nikhil is still a confused soul, he doesn't know what to feel. And no one is helping him with his confused feelings, everyone says different things to him and poor soul believes them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: paljay

Nice post, Nikhil is still a confused soul, he doesn't know what to feel. And no one is helping him with his confused feelings, everyone says different things to him and poor soul believes them.

jes told me bit about original series, I was hoping for grand downfall of Ishaana,I was hoping Nikhil's trust in her would shatter soon, would it happen what is everyone's guess
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree that he is moving on . But is there any need for him to move on ?
On this i want to say he never stopped at laajo to move on friend . He never ever
stopped at laajo . SO there is no need of moving on for him. There was no love
no feelings for laajo . As u said they touched each other somewhere i dont agree .
He never ever touched her nor viscerally nor anyway.

So love ripening and all that first thing my friend love is not at all there feelings not at all
there so where comes the point of ripening ?

If love is there then it will ripen if raw feelings there then there will be a chance
but here in nikhi's case i repeat there was never love to ripen with time nor raw feelings
which he eventually realises .


Actually what ever u have said it fits laajo because she is the one who fell for him
she is the one who has to deal with hurt , rejection , she is the onewho has to forget
and move on . DOn't u think ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ziks

I agree that he is moving on . But is there any need for him to move on ?
On this i want to say he never stopped at laajo to move on friend . He never ever
stopped at laajo . SO there is no need of moving on for him. There was no love
no feelings for laajo . As u said they touched each other somewhere i dont agree .
He never ever touched her nor viscerally nor anyway.

So love ripening and all that first thing my friend love is not at all there feelings not at all
there so where comes the point of ripening ?

If love is there then it will ripen if raw feelings there then there will be a chance
but here in nikhi's case i repeat there was never love to ripen with time nor raw feelings
which he eventually realises .


Actually what ever u have said it fits laajo because she is the one who fell for him
she is the one who has to deal with hurt , rejection , she is the onewho has to forget
and move on . DOn't u think ?

sorry dear ..everyone is frustrated here .. but it is not right ..single handedly attacking Nikhil(i mean character) .. why and how he can show so many emotions for Laajo when she has always been a burden for him? u might miss this point ..but it is true ..he never wanted Laajo to be in his life .. and Laajo too agreed to it but then she fell for him ..love is like this ..u can't be certain abt it anytime ..like laajo was sure she wld never feel anything fro him , but she felt .. and same with Nikhil ..u are not getting the process ..Nikhil didn't torture her at any level ..it is Laajo who took all upon her ..Laajo had many chances to talk to him directly and stand for her respect .. but she didn't ..Nikhil is not responsible for it ..one needs to fight for own respect and rights ..other won't fight it for you!

and another thing,He is very much confused ..he just is trying to assume his old normal life back but he is not able to do so .. of course his mind thinks like Ishana is the one .. but somewhere he is still not convinced with this idea ..and more of it ,Nikhil doesn't have any single support in this huge family ..he can only share with Ishana but she is also talking advantage of him and misguiding his feelings ..again why we r not thinking that Laajo should have stayed back there to fight other than crying and carving???if Laajo is facing pain,it is her choice .. u can't blame Nikhil for that ..i feel for her as a woman but that doesn't mean the men r always wrong .. she never spoke up and never even tried to claim anything ..then how come things just will fall in her lap??? if u r concerned abt tortures happened to her,it is her choice ..like if i love someone n don't tell him,instead keep crying n craving ..is it his fault??? NO,it is only my fault ..!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post.
I like the progression of show & the way Nikhil is shown to react to Laajo leaving, everyone expecting him to move on. It seems very natural to me. He believes he is in love with Ishaana. Doesn't know Laajo's fallen in love with him. He thinks Laajo was mistreated in his home, wasn't happy & she has left for him but that's what is good for her too. Well at least that's what his logical mind & people around him are trying to convince & he is trying hard to accept it.

But deep down this doesn't seem right. He feels he is breaking a promise, a special bond.

For me it would have been odd if he had expressed his longing for Laajo right away & very obviously. He is brooding, sad which everyone including himself thinks is guilt but its begining of love, a tender feelings in his mind for Laajo.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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actually brooding, lost Nikhil is more appropriate that totally crying. He had sheen of tears in his eyes while reading her letter ,he is affected ,just doesn't know how much though...so I think patience is the key here
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

actually brooding, lost Nikhil is more appropriate that totally crying. He had sheen of tears in his eyes while reading her letter ,he is affected ,just doesn't know how much though...so I think patience is the key here

sami I agree with you 100%
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Hanna...

sami I agree with you 100%

today it was simply so well done,the scene with gunja...aww Nikhil is slowly being pulled ...😭

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