Where there is love, there is life

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Posted: 14 years ago
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"Is a life worth living, without no one to love and to be loved in return?":Zena Joy Pym

Arpita waited till the police left before hurrying to the trapdoor, her actions urgent....In the room below, surrounded by her husband's gang members, she tried to take care of his wound. The thick flow of blood proclaimed it was no ordinary wound. Arpita hastily wiped her tears away and tried to revive Avdesh, her hands lightly patting his cheek, stroking his forehead all the while begging him to open his eyes.

Bhauji rushes in her eyes wide with unshed tears at seeing Avdesh so injured and weak. She brushes away the gang members and sits next to Arpita, both now trying to revive him. Bhauji on hearing Arpi's cries responds caustically, that her tears were not that special for him to wake up to..... She then tries to wake him pleading with Panditji to do something....he replied saying that there are police guards at the gate, so they cannot take Avdesh to the hospital. Bhauji then leaves to come up with a plan.

"Live the life you've dreamed": Henry David Thoreau

Left alone with her husband, Arpita ineffectually tries to get him to open his eyes, her own streaming....a few drops fall on Avdesh's cheeks and he finally opens his eyes...There was a world of regret and sorrow in his eyes and then his voice as he tells her that by falling in love with him, her life isn't any better...he then indicates her tears – between them lay the memory if how much her tears hurt him – and Arpita hastily wipes them away. She follows Avdesh's direction and gets a knife for him to take the bullet out...he couldn't so she tries but gives up when he is in agony.....Bhauji comes again, this time brushing Arpita aside she takes Avdesh's head in her lap and offers comfort. Avdesh turns to her and tells her he would rather die than be jailed...Arpita looks on in shock at his words.... he then slides into unconsciousness again.

Determination fills Arpita she will let her husband die nor will she let him get caught by the police. She makes Bhauji listen to her plan, even when the other woman was dismissive.....the plan of decoy worked beautifully, as the police guard follow Bhauji...RV getting a call hotfoots it to the hospital Bhauji goes to.....meanwhile Arpita and Sarvan in a burka disguise leave for the nearest hospital...Avdesh cradled in Arpita's lap...throughout the journey, she does not stop in her effort to revive her husband, once in her panic she even attempts to pump his heart....At the other hospital, RV realises they have been fooled and he redirects the search for Avdesh Singh Thakur.

"What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate": Bible

At the hospital Arpita is in, the doctors refuse to operate on the basis that it's a police matter...Arpita begs and speaks eloquently of being in their debt for the rest of her life, but her husband must be saved....even when Sarvan loses his temper and brandishes a gun, Arpita speaks softly and pleadingly, her heartache clear for the world to see. At last the doctors agree and Avdesh is wheeled into the operating theatre.....Arpita's and Avdesh's hand cling for a moment, fingers reluctant to let go of each other....

My thoughts:

This is an emotional time for Arpita and Bhauji. They both love Avdesh and want to see him well and so work together, but the undercurrents of hostility is still there...Bhauji is able to brush away the gang but she could not Arpita, without it looking very strange so kept quiet...yet her words and the caustic tone of her voice, when Arpita pleads with Avdesh to open his eyes, showed that the lid on her real feeling is rattling...why should Arpita matter more to Avdesh than herself?...she was not there, later, to see that Avdesh did indeed react to his wife's pain and tears, that they brought him back from the edge of unconsciousness. Then later when Bhauji seems almost helpless and lost as to what could be done, it is Arpita who took the initiative, as she always does when it comes to Avdesh. His wellbeing and safety is first and foremost in her mind and so it is here. Police guards did not matter to her, her husband would receive medical care one way or another.

I have always said that Avdesh looks upon Bhauji as a maternal figure or as an older sister and he proved it in this episode. When Bhauji see's Arpita with the knife, she rushes forward and take Avdesh's head in her lap (making Arpita move as well by the way)...Avdesh looks at her and said bhauji, I would rather die than go to jail....it is like a child telling it's mother something so that she could remember or help him with it because she understood....Avdesh could not tell this to Arpita because she had made it clear she would save her husband no matter what, because of her love....he also understood that. These two women play a very important part in his life, both fulfil a role.

As for Avdesh, regret is eating in him...regret for what he has reduced Arpita to...the dream they saw remained unfulfilled when they fell in love.....instead of love and laughter filling their time, it has been tears and pain.....instead of proudly holding each other's hand in open, they are now reduced to hiding in the dark, lying and cheating to save his life....I think Arpita's response to that would be 'where there is love, there is life'....that is the strength of her love.

I am hoping when he recovers he makes some changes in his life, to give back something to Arpita.....he may not be able to change overnight, but just enough to give her some hope.... She has courage, enough to walk side by side with him, if he lets her. She was a tigress tonight protecting her own, and she will continue to do so for the rest of their lives together....most importantly, she is using her strength and courage to guide him back to the path he left at 14yrs of age....to show him another way of living.... It is a slow process but to my thinking, she has cracked his wall already....

I would love to hear your thoughts on this.😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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dreamy a big hug to u
first of all hows ur son now? hope he is better


and second i knew u wud come up with beautiful words to describe the scene

update was not put up yday as jaz wasnt able to do so and decoy word was missing from my highlights

u hv written everything which shud hv been in update.


and tell me now after seeing the episode what was your first thought
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi Dreamy love what you have written... And Arpita has definitely cracked the wall..If Avdesh does not react to her voice now he's not human at all and we all know that he is more than human with her!! I also agree that Avdesh sees a mother figure in Bahuji,he did mention it earlier..But hs wife is his wife ,everything in his life,the woman who brough meaning to his life and stood with him thru thick & thin even within this short spa of married lifet and he proved it beyond doubt yesterday..Now I feel Arpita & Avdesh would go away to some place away from the police and Bahuji and his gang and other influences and therein would begin the reformation of Bhaiyaji...The return of Bhaiyaji to the haveli would mean the beginning of Arpita's Avdesh Singh Thakur..
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amazingly written di.. 👏 👏 👏 i was actually waiting for this analysis of yours!!! as far as the epi is concerned...i really liked it!! i've liked the romantic Avita epis...dhagadham bahubali epis but surprisingly i really loved yest's epi..fully packed with emotions..n feelings!! though there was much of crying n all...it was perfect to the situation not a bit overdone!! the way Arpita tried to revive her husband was so good...even though she herself was shocked n emotionally shattered inside...she consoled her husband...trying to fill in hopes n promising that she'll never let anything happen to him...the way she was caressing him..patting him..franticallty asking him to wake up..it was very good!! n whether bhauji agrees or not love does have an upperhand n surpasses all barriers n is really powerful...Avita love was so deep that her tears were enough to bring him back to senses for quite a time!! Avdesh did realise that how much it hurt Arpi to see him in this condition!! sorrow filled his eyes along with guilt that he cud not keep her haapy n he himself was the reason for her tears!! the way he wanted to wipe her tears off was an indication that in what ever worst condition he is in...more than his own physical pain...her tears hurt him a lot!! i loved(loved it to the core!!) his lines...he says that as long as your love is with me nothing/none can harm me!! it was like he was trying to say our love is so powerful and we are binded together that even death cannot do us apart!! wen he was trying to remove the bullet n had a gag in his mouth i was like God!! how terribly paininng it must have been...n even then he held her one hand with his one...trying to get support n feeling her presence..he neded to survive...survive for his love..he cudn leave her n break all his promises to her!! n to my surprise when bhauji has Avi in her lap not a second did she have those lustful feelings of her...at that moment she was more like a elder figure to him...a sister..a mother...she franticaaly wanted to save him!! n for the first time she relented to Arpi's words n agreed to her plan!! she's already seen her husband n DIL die n she does not want history to be repeated!! bhauji's n Arpi's efforts together did help a lot!! wish she cud curb her lust feelings for Avi n try to be nice to arpi as she is now!! n as u said Avdesh knew that he cud never tell Arpi dat it's far better to be dead...he knew that she wud never ever agree to this...she wud never let anything happen to him!! if she believed in self-respect than love she wud never have gone to RV in the first place..so he knew that she wud never allow anything like that to happen!! being with bhauji for 14yrs he knows that she wud understand his view..he wud rather die than get himself handcuffed!! overall i rate the epi 10/10 for the tremendous acting by all the three....n for the depiction of feelings!!
pheww...i meant to write it short but it's come quite long...hope no one gets bored by this!!LOL!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatterbox

dreamy a big hug to u
first of all hows ur son now? hope he is better - Hi Di, thanks he is still unwell but hopefully on the mend. Hugs back to ya,🤗🤗


and second i knew u wud come up with beautiful words to describe the scene

update was not put up yday as jaz wasnt able to do so and decoy word was missing from my highlights

u hv written everything which shud hv been in update. Thank you.😊


and tell me now after seeing the episode what was your first thought

My first thought was happiness! that he and arpi are back together...even through his pain he tried to offer her comfort about being ok, nothing is gonna happen - I realised it was more for her than himself....that is how much he loves her. I also felt his regret at constantly giving her reasons to cry, not the happiness that should have been theirs by right....
But I also felt sad, Di and that has stayed with me a bit. The reality of his life is this. I hated seeing him all bloody and tired and weak..in that cellar room. He should be in a big airy room with lots of air and sunlight, getting the best medical care....but I also was filled with hope because of Arpi - the look on her face at his words about dying, I knew then that she would give her own life if needed to make sure he is alive and well. So her words at the hospital I was cheering her and thought Avdesh is so, so lucky to have her in his life and his bhauji..because he needed a mother figure at this time and she didn't disappoint. As Arpi and bhauji tended to him, I thought does he know that he is so lucky?...to be loved so much?...He needs to know, because that will be one moe push towards the right path for him.
Overall, it was a fast paced episode and full of beautiful emotions...sad, happy, uplifting and wonderful all encompassing love.....I know Arpi will save him once again, will look after him even if he growls at her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: laxmi73

Hi Dreamy love what you have written... And Arpita has definitely cracked the wall..If Avdesh does not react to her voice now he's not human at all and we all know that he is more than human with her!! I also agree that Avdesh sees a mother figure in Bahuji,he did mention it earlier..But hs wife is his wife ,everything in his life,the woman who brough meaning to his life and stood with him thru thick & thin even within this short spa of married lifet and he proved it beyond doubt yesterday..Now I feel Arpita & Avdesh would go away to some place away from the police and Bahuji and his gang and other influences and therein would begin the reformation of Bhaiyaji...The return of Bhaiyaji to the haveli would mean the beginning of Arpita's Avdesh Singh Thakur..

Hi Laxmi,🤗
Oh yes, Arpita has cracked the wall!!...he will react but the reality is that once he is better, all those things that had kept them apart will still remain. But now he will have to balance both side of his life otherwise it will not be fair to her.
And yes Avdesh knows how lucky he is, and as you said he provedit beyond doubt.
I loved that last scene, the double shot of their fingers clinging to each other....that is a true reflection of their love. it is quiet and not needed to be shouted out but little things like holding hands, fingers touching, eyes locking...speaks so loud...
I thought Arpi looked beautiful in that burka, while pleading to the doctors....Really I admire her so much, it takes a special courage to watch your beloved get hurt knowing all you can do is hope your love helps him along.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey girls 🤗 how are you all?
@Dreamy 🤗
hope youe sone is feeling better now.
Excellent analysis as usual. Its always worth waiting for your analysis.
Last two episodes were so amazing. Loved Arpita so much. I don't think Avdhesh have expected to be in such situation ever. See how life changes colors? He was the king of Lallanpur few hours ago and now his life is struggling for life and not able to get even a simple medical treatment. Wonder how long he will be on hiding/running spree? RV didn't have any evidence before, why didnt Avi listen to Arpi? He knew RV is keeping an eye on his activited , atleast he could have changed the time/day for delivery. On top of it BJ did all gangajal drama to boost his overconfidence even more.
@Laxmi. Agree with you I think Avi will go away until things settled down a bit but wil bhoaji send Arpi with him? not sure. @\
@sia..loved your post too.
when Arpi went to see Avi through the trapdoor, no one covered it. The door was partly visible and camara focused on it. I think RV will findout about the secret chamber and once again Avita+gang will escape.
I thought BJ and Avi had connection with powerful people, how come RV was able to do so much damage? Why didn't Bhaoji pull some strings to save herself and Avi?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sia-

...he says that as long as your love is with me nothing/none can harm me!! it was like he was trying to say our love is so powerful and we are binded together that even death cannot do us apart!!
Avdesh knew that he cud never tell Arpi dat it's far better to be dead...he knew that she wud never ever agree to this...
pheww...i meant to write it short but it's come quite long...hope no one gets bored by this!!LOL!!

Sia,🤗
👏👏 wonderfully written and I agree!! 👏👏 I think you should do some future analysis of the episodes,!!👏👏
The quotes in red, I adore and agree....it actually encapsulate their love. It is all about hope, redemption and the happily after they can only dream about...
Which is why death does not even enter in it, hence Avdesh telling bhauji....I think it was also a message...should he ever get captured, he wants to die...at that precise moment I had a flash that if RV is taking Avdesh away, Bhauji will shoot Avi - to release him from being in prison. It made me sad, but it is the reality. But in this case, we also have Arpita and something tells me that this is just the beginning of her taking courage in her hand, using her brains brillantly to save her husband.....I can see her being like Bhauji in the future, just kinder and more humane and certainly not involved in illegal stuff....
I am so excited and cannot wait for monday....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MonyP

Hey girls 🤗 how are you all?

@Dreamy 🤗 Mony, how r u? feeling better now?🤗
hope youe sone is feeling better now. Slowly getting better.😊
Excellent analysis as usual. Its always worth waiting for your analysis. Thank you.
Last two episodes were so amazing. Loved Arpita so much. I don't think Avdhesh have expected to be in such situation ever. See how life changes colors? He was the king of Lallanpur few hours ago and now his life is struggling for life and not able to get even a simple medical treatment. I know, M, that made me so sad...but shows life is uncertain....Wonder how long he will be on hiding/running spree? Once the bullet is out, I don't think he will run...RV has no evidence, that bullet would have been proof (I think!).... RV didn't have any evidence before, why didnt Avi listen to Arpi? He knew RV is keeping an eye on his activited , atleast he could have changed the time/day for delivery. On top of it BJ did all gangajal drama to boost his overconfidence even more. I agree, also I think he wanted to get this oath thing over and done with but this is the repercussion of his lifestyle..RV did tell Arpi his need for revenge will be his downfall....Avi's pratigya will still continue and bring more drama....but I really hope it is now tempered with the need maybe he needs to change his life now, make a life with Arpi....
@Laxmi. Agree with you I think Avi will go away until things settled down a bit but wil bhoaji send Arpi with him? not sure. Do you think so?..where would the go? I think the haveli is the best place for them now......@\
@sia..loved your post too.
when Arpi went to see Avi through the trapdoor, no one covered it. The door was partly visible and camara focused on it. I think RV will findout about the secret chamber and once again Avita+gang will escape.
I thought BJ and Avi had connection with powerful people, how come RV was able to do so much damage? Why didn't Bhaoji pull some strings to save herself and Avi? Yes, bhauji just fell apart and couldn't think of a thing, which was unusual but I guess Arpi needs to shine now...but you are so right, we are shown BJ always bribing people and now nothing...I guess again for us to see that crime really doesn't pay...they were shown as normal criminal tryng to stay one step ahead of the police.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MonyP

Hey girls 🤗 how are you all?

@Dreamy 🤗
hope youe sone is feeling better now.
Excellent analysis as usual. Its always worth waiting for your analysis.
Last two episodes were so amazing. Loved Arpita so much. I don't think Avdhesh have expected to be in such situation ever. See how life changes colors? He was the king of Lallanpur few hours ago and now his life is struggling for life and not able to get even a simple medical treatment. Wonder how long he will be on hiding/running spree? RV didn't have any evidence before, why didnt Avi listen to Arpi? He knew RV is keeping an eye on his activited , atleast he could have changed the time/day for delivery. On top of it BJ did all gangajal drama to boost his overconfidence even more.
@Laxmi. Agree with you I think Avi will go away until things settled down a bit but wil bhoaji send Arpi with him? not sure. @\
@sia..loved your post too.
when Arpi went to see Avi through the trapdoor, no one covered it. The door was partly visible and camara focused on it. I think RV will findout about the secret chamber and once again Avita+gang will escape.
I thought BJ and Avi had connection with powerful people, how come RV was able to do so much damage? Why didn't Bhaoji pull some strings to save herself and Avi?

But if Avdesh goes off alone how does the reformation thing happen??

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