Neil's best: K, G& Champa: This too shall pass!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Gulaal can't get over the baseless taunts that the family meted out to her. What hit her hard was when they have made her believe that she was instrumental in bringing about the downfall of the sons of this house. She wants to help Kesar. She does care for him. So she wants herself out of his life. What is lovely about this scene is that instead of the usual"bahus" crying their heart out scenes, they in fact showed Gulaal's frustration in the way she pulled out her clothes and threw them on the bed. Out flew her Champa. She glances at her favorite doll. She clutches to it like it was her lifeline. She had mentioned that she used to feel good when Champa was with her. Today, more than Champa, I guess the guy who brought her Champa to her mattered more.

Kesar comes into the room, watches her in pain and is pained too. He calls out to her softly. Gulaal tries to wipe off her tears but is so depressed that she can't hide them any longer. Kesar requests her in the most earnest way to stop crying over what happened and gives her a practical advice that her crying would not make things better.

Kesar is surprised first as to why she is moving out but more astonished when he hears her reasoning. He quashes her reasoning as baseless. Gulaal is totally shattered now that after remaining devoted to her dead husband in body and soul, she has been called deceitful. The more she recollects JK and Rewa, that she ruined two brothers lives, she does not want any harm for Kesar. She decides to stay away from him. The best part about Kesar and Gulaal is that each time they claim that they would stay out of each other's lives; fate has a different plan for them.
Kesar rubbishes aside her claims of being the ill omen to him and this family. He sounded like an elder reprimanding a nave child about the bad things she has learnt from elsewhere. He reminds her that she had no qualms about being considered as his wife till their DV breaks and hence uses those husbandly rights to assert that she would stay in their room. He is using those rights yet giving her the promise that if required he can stay out of this room and insists that she stays. Gulaal like a little girl just abides by his decision. It looked so sweet in the way she came back and sat down on the bed, a sign of total resignation. She has come to doubt her own decisions of the past that she has learnt to listen to Kesar.

Kesar notices Champa, decides to use it for cheering her up. He glances at Gulaal once and then strikes a conversation with Champa. Kesar's mono-acting was endearing. Kesar can befriend an inanimate object if it is for Gulaal, or to put it differently he can treat even a doll as a living being if that can bring a smile to Gulaal's face. We could see Gulaal slowly melting away to that conversation between Kesar and Champa. Of course she is a bit surprised when Kesar says "Ab yeh din dekhne ko rahe, Waise bhi I can't find any of my things in this room, and to add to this your Gulaal has completely messed up this room. Ab mei kya karoon"

Kesar and Gulaal look at each other. Kesar waits for her reaction and Gulaal has no option but to smile, at least she did because subconsciously she appreciates the effort he is taking to cheer her up. She picks up on his last sentence but that is reality based. "Mei kya karoon Kesar??" My heart went out to Gulaal because the taunts from her so called dear family have left her in such a state of depression and low self-esteem. It is really good to see her bond with Kesar who has shown her his support during this tough time. She has become so emotionally dependant on him that she is willing to look out for his reasoning and actually expects that he could find a solution. Again, sub consciously she has placed so much trust and faith on this man who has time and again proven that he means well for her and she too has come to accept that this is his way of showing his love.

Sensing her yearn for issues to be sorted, to mend things at home and to mend hearts, he tells her the best solution is to wait until this dark cloud passes by. The analogy to the eclipse was just too good. Kesar has so much maturity in him now. It is not that Gulaal does not understand the eclipsed phase of this house, but at such a low phase in her life, she needs Kesar who can reason out with her to just go with the flow and wait until the dark clouds pass by. Like everyone points out, it is such a role reversal when Kesar takes care of Gulaal. This is what it takes for a relationship to thrive. To pull each other up when the other feels low, comes in any relationship, be it friends, parents but specifically in a couple. It is heart-warming to see Gulaal's appreciative and indebted look when Kesar explains to her to let this time pass.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MeySimi

Sensing her yearn for issues to be sorted, to mend things at home and to mend hearts, he tells her the best solution is to wait until this dark cloud passes by. The analogy to the eclipse was just too good. Kesar has so much maturity in him now. It is not that Gulaal does not understand the eclipsed phase of this house, but at such a low phase in her life, she needs Kesar who can reason out with her to just go with the flow and wait until the dark clouds pass by. Like everyone points out, it is such a role reversal when Kesar takes care of Gulaal. This is what it takes for a relationship to thrive. To pull each other up when the other feels low, comes in any relationship, be it friends, parents but specifically in a couple. It is heart-warming to see Gulaal's appreciative and indebted look when Kesar explains to her to let this time pass.



Heyy Ganga! You made the post late today, haan? But lovely analysis as always👏

Especially this last paragraph...totally agree...Kesar showed amazing maturity in that bit especially with that analogy...usually that's the kind of philosophical analogy you'd expect Gulaal to spout...I'm reminded of the half filled pitcher of water analogy she used a few weeks back to explain to Kesar how he needs to work on his anger...but to hear Kesar say something like this today was amazing...makes you wonder if Gulaal has rubbed off on him in the long run or this is just a man coming of age anyways😊

I also thought that the 'sooraj' in that analogy was a very interesting way of referring to Gulaal in a sense as well...she has been the light, the source of sustenance if we view it especially from Kesar's eyes...to him she is as great, as awe-inspiring as the sun...but like the sun too can be briefly eclipsed, so is she while going through this phase.

And yes, I also loved her expression as she listened to Kesar saying this...like you said, it's not like she wouldn't think of something like this on her own but she's hit such rock bottom right now that she's reached a stage for the first time in her life where her CONFIDENCE, her belief in her herself, and even her self-esteem has taken a beating in some ways...and at THIS juncture it is Kesar and only Kesar who is her steadfast support trying all he can to reinforce that confidence, to repair the shattered pieces...renewing her faith in herself...through the faith that HE has in her.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MeySimi

Today, more than Champa, I guess the guy who brought her Champa to her mattered more. Very deeep insight in her mind...I really felt that she was not crying looking at Champa but at the loss of happiness that Champa brought along with her in form of Kesar's unconditional love.

Kesar and Gulaal look at each other. Kesar waits for her reaction and Gulaal has no option but to smile, at least she did because subconsciously she appreciates the effort he is taking to cheer her up. She picks up on his last sentence but that is reality based. "Mei kya karoon Kesar??" My heart went out to Gulaal because the taunts from her so called dear family have left her in such a state of depression and low self-esteem. It is really good to see her bond with Kesar who has shown her his support during this tough time. She has become so emotionally dependant on him that she is willing to look out for his reasoning and actually expects that he could find a solution. Again, sub consciously she has placed so much trust and faith on this man who has time and again proven that he means well for her and she too has come to accept that this is his way of showing his love. As i said on other threads also that this is the ultimate epitome of role reversals...The all knowing Gulaal is at a total loss and the wild and tantrumy guy is now calm and cool and logical and patient...and seems to have all the answers she needs...Epic scene that was 👏

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dont know how but it showed msg not posted so wrote the whole thing again😕 and now it is double posting😕😕😕😕😕😕 weird..sorry for that Ganga😳
Edited by -Srushti- - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I only just saw this! 😲 Great analysis Ganga 👏 - I wont add much here cause we already have the new episode at hand ... which btw I missed live and can't find HD uploads of now... ohhh I hate missing out on prompt discussions!

Be back in a while!

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