Keshar Gulal relationship????!!!

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Taha0023

@Taha0023

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: livelygal

He was 12 yr Old and she was around 16-18yrs old!

N he never called Gulaal bhabhi if u notice...he was always authoritative!!
N yeah...Gulaal may have taken care of him etc etc ...but I dun think she wud have done the deeyarvattu with him if she considered him as her son!

I agree with you.

When the drama started , it is written she is 22 years old and at that time Kesar was 12 years old. So gulaal is 32 now and Kesar is 22 years old.

I am originally from London... Trust me...this age gap is really normal in rest of the world. Most of my collegues had younger husband in London... 8 years was really normal matter in west.

We should broaden our mind, in this cybernetics era... Even in prehistoric era, age was not a factor for love , we have many example of marrying younger man to older woman.. I am not sure why this era of Indian subcontinent is so rigid about this matter... It need to br broken soon...

I am talking about other issue here... Sorry I did not address the real question on top here. I am discussing a general issue which is out of this drama story and we need to change our thoughts and limitations. It is just an general discussion, not to hurt anybody...Just it make me sad when I see we are still going through those basic problems of women's age. 😭

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Taha0023

@Taha0023

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Why we are hesitating to say, Gulaal was 22 years old when she married to Vasant...This is what written at front page...Kaser was 12 .. So it is 10 years age difference...

Why in India, a woman more than 30 years old are not considered glamorous, most of the cases...

here in west life starts after 30...

32 is a very smart, beautiful and perfect age...

32 years is a very smart age when a woman know her all existence...a perfect age towards perfection and often very attractive to younger man..

It is only a problem in this subcontinent... Rest of the world is way ahead..We should change our perception by now..already it is too late.

Of course Kaser can fall in love with Gulaal...No problem at all...Very nice couple.

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shadowstreet

@shadowstreet

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

hey frnd😊,

u asked an important question & I hav the simplest answer from my side. my answer is also not to upset ne1😊

I think the relation both Gulal & Kesar hold is simple human relation where there is changes in phases of life. In their case they were never dewar-bhabi. frm the begining they became frnd. Gulal's love Vasant was a matured man. The child dwell inside Gulal at the age of 18+ were fulfilled by Kesar's presence. then after Vasant's deah circumstances made them hubby-wife. They had a communication gap as Kesar was angry with Gulal & misunderstood her & refused to contact or meet her. So he never showed his feelings towards her. but this distance made Kesar's love more intense for gulal & Gulal more lonely. Gulal made a castle of Vasant's memory & started to live in that fairyland where she thinks she is happy. but now the time has come the relationship must change between them. Both Kesar-Gulal need to grow up & return from 10 years back. Gulal has to melt & realize that Vasant's memory is not her full life, its part of her life. So she has to move on. On the other hand Kesar has to establish himself as the man for his lady love. only screaming & crying wont prove anything. He took a big step by accepting his love to Gulal so now he has to fight & win his love. He has to prove that he is perfect for Gulal not only in front of Gulal but also in front of the socitey who will question them many time.

Thats how I feel Gulal-kesar relation is😊

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shadowstreet

@shadowstreet

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: sama0023
Why we are hasitating to say, Gulaal was 22 years old when she merried to Vasant...This is what written at front page...Kesar was 12 .. So it is 10 years age differance...
Why in India, a woman more than 30 years old are not considered glamorous, most of the cases...

here in west life starts after 30...

32 is a very smart, beautiful and perfect age...

32 years is a very smart age when a woman know her all existance...a perfect age towards perfaction and often very attractive to younger man..

It is only a problem in this subcontinent... Rest of the world is way ahead..We should change our perception by now..already it is too late.

Of cource Kesar can fall in love with Gulaal...No problem at all...Very nice couple.

There is nothing to hesitate I gues. Gulal's age is writen 22 in front page in the short description of the show. In one of the old articles I read Gulal is 24. I generally say she 18+ when she was married coz this show is based on rural background so may b 18 was her age. but as u said whats wrong if she is 28 or 32 or 34. the important thing matter is love. a person can start his or her life anytime. Fall in love anytime. Age is never a matter to start a relation.😊

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Taha0023

@Taha0023

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: shadowstreet

There is nothing to hesitate I gues. Gulal's age is writen 22 in front page in the short description of the show. In one of the old articles I read Gulal is 24. I generally say she 18+ when she was married coz this show is based on rural background so may b 18 was her age. but as u said whats wrong if she is 28 or 32 or 34. the important thing matter is love. a person can start his or her life anytime. Fall in love anytime. Age is never a matter to start a relation.😊

I know age is not a matter..This is what I was saying above...even she is 40 years old does not matter..But what I found in this discussion that age is a big factor ..So I wrote about it in general. Not to hurt anybody.Please do not take it offensive and I am deeply sorry if any one of you felt on that way.My intention was just to say why we are discussing her age here.. I was just boldly and proudly saying she is 32..😊.. Age differance is not a factor here... This is all i wanted to say...We should just enjoy the story...😊

This is all I wanted to say

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shadowstreet

@shadowstreet

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sama0023

I know age is not a matter..This is what I was saying above...even she is 40 years old does not matter..But what I found in this discussion that age is a big factor ..So I wrote about it in general. Not to hurt anybody.Please do not take it offensive and I am deeply sorry if any one of you felt on that way.My intention was just to say why we are discussing her age here.. I was just boldly and proudly saying she is 32..😊.. Age differance is not a factor here... This is all i wanted to say...We should just enjoy the story...😊

This is all I wanted to say

heyyy stop saying sorry & I am not at all offended my dear. I completely agree with u & I raise my voice always when age factor or some silly factor count in relationship. I was appreciating u not geting offended. I know diffrent ppl have diffrent thoughts. urs & mine r common in this age issue. may b some will differ who will not like the concept of the show. I find this show unique & promising😊 chilll & no sorry😛

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Nigah

@nigahlad

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

😊 i can't believe that u guys r get that much upset and start telling me all these... everyone has right to wright or to tell how they feel... why everybody get upset and giving me all these explanation...😆

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bintus02

@bintus02

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: nigahlad
😊 i can't believe that u guys r get that much upset and start telling me all these... everyone has right to wright or to tell how they feel... why everybody get upset and giving me all these explanation...😆

You said that everyone has the right to write what feel so why are you upset if people do not agree with your comments or have a different view from yours.