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3 Songs : Describing 3 stages of Journey in Akshan's relationship
Stage 1: Two Strangers Coming Together, disliking each other's surface characteristics & antics
Lakeerien: His & Her Doubt about compatibility of two opposite people coming and binding in Holy Martrimonial Bond of Marriage. Yin& Yang coming together and completing eachother and filling the gap what eachother was missing and making eachother complete. ☯️
- She is younger than him, He is Uncle
- She has no direction where her future is ahead, she is Hawa Ka Jhoka
- He is grounded, he has identity, knows his past, present & where his future was headed
- He is Uncle, He is Khadus, has 3 sons & 3 Bahus that are older than her
Guddan Gupta because she agreed and promised, made a deal with AJ for saving her Sister Revati from Cassonva Kamina Inspector Perv Singh. It's a deal
Stage 2: Two Individual who are bonded in the Unwanted Marriage, but both are willingly to fulfill the rituals and nibhao the marriage just for namesake. They are eachother Namesake Associate, barely tolerating eachother.
Ishq Nahi Asan: The Jounery of married couple, whoses marital life are not always filled with Bed of Roses! Learning to accept that they are married, starting to learn about each other, trying to talk to eachother and solve their problems, learning to share problems and talk to eachother n clear their doubts.
Guddan is learning her new house rules, trying to bring some of her aspect, learning about each of her family member, trying to please everyone. It's Adjustment
Even in their Misunderstanng of Why Spouse Married Eachother, Fnding a Common Ground: Of Dard Ka RIshta
- Saru Chori Kand: Akshat Jindal Learned about his wife's Mistake Wall that is her deepest darkest Daag that she is writting since young age thanks to her evil step mum Kaushaliya Gupta ki "Guddan Tumse Na Ho Payega Also thanks to Durga Jindal directly bringing it and indirectly to Saru Jindal who made the Chori happen.
- Guddan Akshat Jindal learned her Sarvgun Sampan Husband, guilt of not saving his beloved wife Antara Jindal which is haunting him and was slowly killing him from within before he met GUddan.
- Both know the meaning of loosing their love one, for Akshat Jindal loosing his beloved wife Antara Jindal and for Guddan Jindal loosing her mum due to her mistake that happened in her childhood. They both know the Dard Ka RIshta that eachother has gone and is going through.
- Sacrfing her Suhaag Ke Nishani for his beloved posseion his painting of his decease wife Antara Jindal
- AJ learning his wife valuable posseison is her mums locket
Stage 3: Misunderstanding Cleared, Accepting Their Spouse with + & -, realizing the Goodness of eachother. They are each other's companion
Tum Ho: Akshat Jindal realizing that Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal is his destiny and final destination, realizing that he cannot live without her. The pull of Dhaaga the Dor from their Gathbhandan that has secured their relationship. Both Husband and Wife want to live with eachother for the rest of their life, is willingly to adjust, they respect, support and care for eachother.
foundation has been set
- His Side 2nd Gharparvesh,: AKshat Jindal the husband without questioning his wife what and where she is going to use the money, securely placing the money in his wife Duppta and tighting the knot- another sign of Gathbandhan showing its always AJ first who is safe guarding his relationship & bond with Guddan he is setting up the premise and foundation. He is guiding her, he trusts her with his money because she is his Ghar Ke Lakshmi and the keeper & safeguard of his House, His Life and His Family- His Dahaal.
- Her Side 2nd Gharparvesh: Guddan Jindal filling the lates Antara's Jindal hand imprints with sindoor. Indicating that her Sindoor Akshat Jindal is the Gift from Deceased Anatra Jindal to Guddan Akshat Jindal which she will be forever grateful to her for. No matter what Guddan''s Maang Ka sindoor is always shared, Akshat Jindal will always have 2 wife's, both in the future will have equal love from him, the hand imprints are side by side not one top of eachother, both have places next to eachother in his heart. Guddan Akshat Jindal will always give space to Akashat Jindal to preserve the memory of Antara, not interfer in his monologues with her, if he is willingly to reveal some memories she will always be there to listen, respect and comfort and support him.
- Guddan Akshat Jinal told her husband AKshat Jindal what does she clearly want: She wants to create a space right next to Late Antara AKshat Jindal in the Jindal Family, & most importantly in Jindal Saab's heart and she doesn't want to replace anyone.
My Rant
3 Songs : Describing 3 stages of Journey in Akshan's relationship: strangers, associate & Friends & Companion
Each song starts form Akshat Jindal POV👏👏👏
- its important because the songs are proving his doubt regarding how Alag he and Guddan are they don't have anything in common wrong.
- It's important because the lyrics shows the depth of AJ's thought regarding his relationship with his future & present Wife Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal
- The Marital Bond and the thread of Gathband are bidding and securing their relationship tighter. From the weddding day it was always Mr. Akshat Jindal the reluctant Groom holding, safe guarding and securing the bond of their Gathband while his Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal found it easier to walk away, but he made sure that she is always with him and him with her "Saath-Saath
- No matter how much he dislikes some of his Wife antics, he is going to "Jhelo her for the rest of his life, there is no "Divorce and he told her during their Mehendi& Sangeet ceremony.
Bravo to the Creative Team, Writers of Guddan Tumse Na Ho Payega, showing the reality of real life through Akshan when two strangers are binded together in the Gathbhandan of Marriage. Even with our real life partners we are strangers, associate friend, doubting decision, learning to adjust, an then understanding and accepting them with their plus & minus and not changing them.
I am sorry the Analysis in me couldn't help it 😭😆
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