Originally posted by: asmi_joya
The other day I spoke about how she just does not want Virat to fail as a husband, because he is her son..She wants him to be her son..so everytime he makes a mistake, abuses Sai, its not the abuse that she is shamed about, but how he became Ninad's son.. She has always been like that. For her Sairat marriage is also important because she wants to show that a Chavan man can respect his wife, love his wife, give wings to her and also keep her at equal.. The moment he fails she calls him Ninad's son..
So beautifully worded. I can't blame ashwini for wanting so badly for her son to be a better husband than his own father. Imagine how much better a place this world would be for women if every mother-in-law behaved like ashwini.
I remember I used to watch a show where the mother-in-law was always ridiculed and abused by her husband and she once asked her son to be a better husband when he marries. What did she do to her own daughter-in-law? She was an awful mother-in-law for no reason at all. She bad mouthed her DIL, and even lied to her son that his wife insulted his dad when her DIL had saved her from being slapped by the male lead's dad. It made no sense why on earth she did that.
Ashwini has a similar husband, but she actually turned out a great mother-in-law as a result of how her husband treated her.