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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

People who are blessed with a family and extended family could never understand Sai’s feeling of loneliness that happened after her father’s death. It is too hard for a 19 year old girl to survive with that feeling. Here she got a family through Virat most of whom loved to hate her and harass her. At one point when she was vexed being thrown out of the house,she decided to live by herself in hostel without any relationship with Virat and Chavan Nivas.

But destiny again brought her back to Virat and his family because of Virat ‘s hospitalisation. She again tried to leave CN but he did not allow .He asked her to adjust and I won’t blame him completely because he had chosen a lifelong relationship with her and to make it possible Sai has to get along and coexist with his family. Now she was left with no option.

Sai wanted the whole family to watch her performance. She adopted wierd method to call them which she knew is wrong. She apologised...with a good heart.

If she calls Bhavani on stage that is not to prove herself mahan but to please Bhavani who was hurt due to the way she handled the challenge.

Ayesha understood Sai. That is why she is playing the part so well without making herself look like Mahan.

Exactly 🤗 I know what it feels to not have someone who is responsible for your growth.. The growth seems baseless... Unse nahi mila toh kya faayda is growth ka..

The only issue is that the CNs do not deserve that much respect from her.. not Kaku.. But she is doing it for Virat and knows how much Virat loves and respects Kaku..

Mahan was something that I brought up in the thread... ANd hence had to explain.. Sai forgets and forgives, but does not put people who are not good on pedestal.. Just the other day when she gets gifts for everyone , she did mention how she loves Kaku as much as Kaku loves her and hence no gift. I love that Sai.. She is fine with her, but does not hold her on pedestal. This Sai and this definition of FL for ITV is not something that I agree with.. Sai is Mahan in the making, if they dont stop here and not Mahan already. To me it looked like she is trying to adjust and get accepted by the CN bade, as suggested by Virat. SHe has a heart of gold...thats undebatable and hence her forgiving nature..

Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Honestly speaking, I cringed - so much that I fast-forwarded the whole scene. I'm in even more horror of what is coming tomorrow - Sai getting her award from Bhavani. I know such things are shoved down our throats - as the heroine being very sweet - standard ITV formula. But IMO, it is pukeworthy.

Sai has been shown to be gracious to her enemies. That felt to be an authentic and endearing part of her character. But this whole thanking Pakhi and getting award from Bhavani is so unrealistic that it is cringy.

Sai was never the one to keep grudges - but she was also pretty clear-headed about people's intentions towards her. In the chilli grinding scene - she recognised the lack of humanity in the Chavan elders and was unapologetic about not trying to win their favour. That was the Sai I loved.

I know Ayesha spoke about Sai's character undergoing a development, but IMO it is character butchering that is going on.

It's time ITV stopped glorifying 'forgiving the abusive in-laws' type heroine. Not only is it unrealistic, it is regressive and insincere.

Yes, one reason which made Sai unique among ITV FL is her behaviour. I agree CV's changing it, but I feel in this scenario it is different. If Sai has not done any drama to bring trimurthi here, her thanks giving will be different. Since she did wrong she accepted it openly and thanked to put a full stop for the issue. Otherwise think one more week in ZA doing drama for this drama.

On a whole, she can be a rebel queen for the cause but not for creating a cause.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivanya.SRats

Sai is trying to keep everyone together in her quirky way... she will hopefully prove that she in the true sense is the right girl for Virat... I hope the elders see that and not be brainwashed by KBA

True.

By the way what is KBA?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

@bold Sapne mei rehne ki bhi hadd hoti hai behen 🤣

Honestly I am not okay with Sai being so gracious towards CN and Paapi people..SHe did take Virat's adjust karo too seriously.. 😆

@bold: Forum side effect😉

@red: 😆 yes

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Beautifully written ❤️.

I agree with you completely. The main problem here is if the Chavans are worthy of her love. If it had been a family who were orthodox people who disliked her or were petty, or even slightly selfish, I can understand. But the Chavans are criminals. They bullied her, abused her, instigated Virat against her, caused her to breakdown out of sheer mental torture. As you said - they loved to harass her. One can only try to win the hearts of those who have a heart - only then is it worth it. Trying to win the heart of those who cause you harm is unrealistic. Which makes me think it was for the sole purpose of whitewashing the Chavans and to show Hum Saath Saath Hain.

Bold ...I agree which is the way people respond and operate. Here Sai’s situation is different. Like I said she has no option since Virat went to the extent of using police force if she tried to move out. She is not angry but she has a slight smile on her face which revealed where her heart lies.

Chavans are inhuman and abusive but Sai has reasons to try and win their hearts. She is not sure but she want to give it a trial to see not only because Virat said so but also she desired a peaceful life ahead. So we can’t generalise and apply the rule that one should not try to win worthless people. Sai’s magnanimity also enables her to forgive and forget.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

I loved how she talked about aai first. Good she asked sorry on stage itself otherwise a big drama would have happened in zillent area. From aaba to harini she covered every person in her thank u speech 😂. Her excitement & happiness shows more than the award she loves the idea that she has whole family infront of her eyes to cheer for her. Overall whole family except pakhi enjoyed her college function as she wanted.

@bold: So true. I also felt the same.

@bold: I have a feel she missed Sonali kaku🤪

@green : poor girl happiness

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

People who are blessed with a family and extended family could never understand Sai’s feeling of loneliness that happened after her father’s death. It is too hard for a 19 year old girl to survive with that feeling. Here she got a family through Virat most of whom loved to hate her and harass her. At one point when she was vexed being thrown out of the house,she decided to live by herself in hostel without any relationship with Virat and Chavan Nivas.

But destiny again brought her back to Virat and his family because of Virat ‘s hospitalisation. She again tried to leave CN but he did not allow .He asked her to adjust and I won’t blame him completely because he had chosen a lifelong relationship with her and to make it possible Sai has to get along and coexist with his family. Now she was left with no option.

Sai wanted the whole family to watch her performance. She adopted wierd method to call them which she knew is wrong. She apologised...with a good heart.

If she calls Bhavani on stage that is not to prove herself mahan but to please Bhavani who was hurt due to the way she handled the challenge.

Ayesha understood Sai. That is why she is playing the part so well without making herself look like Mahan.

Wow. I just loved it. 👏

Yes, she is not mahan but she definitely don't want to stretch any issues.

I think you understood the character Sai more than the creative heads.😊

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Posted: 4 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9


Bold : I agree on this with little correction forum is definitely toxic coz people r not allowed to say word against FL if they do then they will mock stalk , called names & ur morals would be questioned etc but praised & encouraged to bash ML mercilessly make daily topics to bash him , it's really pathetic kya kare I complained also 😭 I can sympathize with u coz I know how it feels . Many members left d forum also coz of this biasness

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You and your sarcasm

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ramyalaxmi

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You and your sarcasm


Sarcasm nhi tha , forum ki reality batayi or ye bhi jhoot nhi bola ki members do left d forum , it's ur wish to consider it as sarcasm.


Sorry if u feel so.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9


Sarcasm nhi tha , forum ki reality batayi or ye bhi jhoot nhi bola ki members do left d forum , it's ur wish to consider it as sarcasm.


Sorry if u feel so.

Even I left the forum for a while. Just return after knowing about current college scenes. If not the show at least forum should be for entertainment not stress inducer.

@bold: Not at all😊

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