Hate of Pakhi towards sai - Page 2

Originally posted by: maahi11

I think her agitation started when she saw lipstick mark on Virats night dress And assumed Sairat of spending romantic times

Yes exactly and just before Sai was pretty rude to her. 😆 She said it's late and she won't let her husband go outside that late. 😆 From that night she went mad. 🤣

Even in reality also same thing happens... If husband is having affair with other women... Wife's tend to blame the lady that she snatched her husband...even some people worst believe and audacity to saw, if go girl is showing signals how can a man control himself, then he is not at fault... Remember amey case where his sister and wife defended him and blamed Shivani at first saying the same..... We came across long away and developed a lot in technology but hamara society ga dhimag aaj bhi bahuth purani hai infact it is like rusted iron piece.... when max people think lady is at fault in extramarital affair either the legal wife for not making her husband happy or the second lady for snatching the men... But men are god🤢

I really don't want to put it this way or don't want to use this words for sai.... But according to papi Didi, in her delusional world virat is her husband and sai is snatching him from her by doing some magic🤢🤢

I have mentioned this in other posts.

For Pakhi Sai is a constant reminder that Virat took a stand against his family and married her and supports her in pursuing her medicine degree. Even though Virat calls Sai a zamindari.

When it came to Pakhi he point blank refused to take a stand against his family for her love and said NO when she asked him to marry her.

So Sai is a constant reminder of Virat’s refusal of Pakhi’s love and it’s her way of demeaning Sai and indirectly getting back at Virat conveying that he is married to a immature! 😉 girl.

Exactly, I have always thought about it. Well, that is how some people work. Though I read your entire post, these two paragraphs were enough to understand where you are getting to.

"We have seen how Pakhi never leaves an opportunity of insulting, taunting and showcasing her in bad light. Why such anguish for sai,

Shouldn’t this anguish be more for Virat. He married sai. He gave promise to Pakhi what was sai’s fault. But she clearly shows her hatered/dislike towards sai. "

Well, that is her love, she thinks it is. She is blinded, not just blinded, crazy of Virat.

First of all, forget Virat, this was her doing. Only if she can see how, she herself was responsible for this mess, will she be able to to see that Sai is not at all fault.

She misunderstood him when he couldn't recognise her voice and also thinking he didn't save her number. There is one more story to this number itself.

If whatever she thought about Virat, that he was only doing a timepass with her, why will he offer to share his number with her? She was the one who said that she doesn't need his number. Anyway she agreed to get married and landed up in this situation.

What if Virat wasn't Samrat's brother at all? She would have just got married and now she is expecting that Virat should not move on. Whatever promise he made was again due to the position he was in. He was only worried if someone from his house shouldn't come to know about them and also so that she doesn't try to convince him to reconsider his decision. Virat had already said that he will not be able to accept her in his life and that he cannot hurt his brother.

What can be expected from a person who is expecting that he doesn't move on? Is that how love works? If she truly loved Virat, she will wish him a happy life, not expect that no one else should enter his life.

And about Sai, she will not be able to see that Sai is innocent in all these until her delusion dies out.

She doesn't even know that Sai tried to commit suicide, imagine what will happen if she comes to know. I have thought about this many times. Right now, she is thinking he had to take her responsibility and so married her, she even says on the day of grihapravesh when Kaku asked her how did she agree to this and she replied saying that even she couldn't understand his pressure or the need to get married.

If she even comes to know that Virat considered marrying Sai only after she tried to commit suicide, not sure what she will do.

Her hatred for Sai

It started with hurt/anguish first which then turned to envy then to restlessness, then frustration, then anger and then agitation.

The first time she noticed concern in Virat for Sai, she got hurt. It kept growing, both his concern for Sai and her hurt.

She doesn't see it as Virat moving on, she sees it as Sai getting what she should have got. She still thinks that only she has rights over Virat. She wants Virat to only think about her, to consider only her as 'the one', the love of his life.

It is like if it was not for Sai

- Virat wouldn't have got married

- Virat wouldn't have moved on in his life

- Virat wouldn't be giving the position he once planned to give to Pakhi to anyone else in his life.

She is actually true, for the person that Virat is, it is highly unlikely that he would have moved on, or got married to someone. He would never have agreed to get married in his life if it wasn't for these circumstances.

And these circumstances revolve around Sai.

And that's exactly why she loathes Sai and not Virat.

In addition to this, Sai has got and is getting what she always wanted. Virat, his love, care, affection, support, trust and faith.

pakhi has single child syndrome! Only good parenting can help a single child to share and care for others. Sai is also single child and pampered but she knows how to be happy for others and respect others choices. Pakhis parents support her for all wrong decisions. Her dad is little better. But mom is too selfish. so she ended up expecting happiness from others and not giving.

She doesn’t consider virat as an individual who can make choices according to his life circumstances. For her he is an object of her desire which she can’t possess. The same objectification she projects for sai and thinks she got something that she can’t have. She doesn’t understand that people can be connected by heart and you can never separate them! So she stresses out when sai comes physically Close to virat. This closeness being inevitable in a Marriage , sai’s physical presence in the relationship is indigestible for her and hence her open hatred. She doesn’t realize yet that they share emotional bond too. If she realizes that she will slowly accept that she cannot remove sai ever from virat’s mind. This inability will cause her to mellow down and accept reality.

But I read somewhere that she causes accident to sai in other version. Then she is clearly Deranged obsessive sociopath. I hope they don’t show that. She is a great character to explore and reform. So I hope writers bring her realization to give a proper closure in a positive way.

Originally posted by: laksh

Exactly, I have always thought about it. Well, that is how some people work. Though I read your entire post, these two paragraphs were enough to understand where you are getting to.

"We have seen how Pakhi never leaves an opportunity of insulting, taunting and showcasing her in bad light. Why such anguish for sai,

Shouldn’t this anguish be more for Virat. He married sai. He gave promise to Pakhi what was sai’s fault. But she clearly shows her hatered/dislike towards sai. "

Well, that is her love, she thinks it is. She is blinded, not just blinded, crazy of Virat.

First of all, forget Virat, this was her doing. Only if she can see how, she herself was responsible for this mess, will she be able to to see that Sai is not at all fault.

She misunderstood him when he couldn't recognise her voice and also thinking he didn't save her number. There is one more story to this number itself.

If whatever she thought about Virat, that he was only doing a timepass with her, why will he offer to share his number with her? She was the one who said that she doesn't need his number. Anyway she agreed to get married and landed up in this situation.

What if Virat wasn't Samrat's brother at all? She would have just got married and now she is expecting that Virat should not move on. Whatever promise he made was again due to the position he was in. He was only worried if someone from his house shouldn't come to know about them and also so that she doesn't try to convince him to reconsider his decision. Virat had already said that he will not be able to accept her in his life and that he cannot hurt his brother.

What can be expected from a person who is expecting that he move on? Is that how love works? If she truly loved Virat, she will wish him a happy life, not expect that no one else should enter his life.

And about Sai, she will not be able to see that Sai is innocent in all these until her delusion dies out.

She doesn't even know that Sai tried to commit suicide, imagine what will happen if she comes to know. I have thought about this many times. Right now, she is thinking he had to take her responsibility and so married her, she even says on the day of grihapravesh when Kaku asked her how did she agree to this and she replied saying that even she couldn't understand his pressure or the need to get married.

If she even comes to know that Virat considered marrying Sai only after she tried to commit suicide, not sure what she will do.

Her hatred for Sai

It started with hurt/anguish first which then turned to envy then to restlessness, then frustration, then anger and then agitation.

The first time she noticed concern in Virat for Sai, she got hurt. It kept growing, both his concern for Sai and her hurt.

She doesn't see it as Virat moving on, she sees it as Sai getting what she should have got. She still thinks that only she has rights over Virat. She wants Virat to only think about her, to consider only her as 'the one', the love of his life.

It is like if it was not for Sai

- Virat wouldn't have got married

- Virat wouldn't have moved on in his life

- Virat wouldn't be giving the position he once planned to give to Pakhi to anyone else in his life.

She is actually true, for the person that Virat is, it is highly unlikely that he would have moved on, or get married to someone. He would never have agreed to get married in his life if it wasn't for these circumstances.

And these circumstances revolve around Sai.

And that's exactly why she loathes Sai and not Virat.

In addition to this, Sai has got and is getting what she always wanted. Virat, his love, care, affection, support, trust and faith.

@bold this is first point that triggered my hatered towards pakhi.... Even we don't want our enemies to suffer life long without a partner, live in hell and here she claims she loves virat but she want him to suffered... She really wanted to see virat to grow old seeing her and her kids , himself rotting in lonliness.... For a moment if we consider that promise happened in a moment of heat... Even virat is trying to overcome and forget that promise but pakhi even now she is hung to that promise like bheethal.... She don't have any empathy towards others not even for virat...

I want Sai to completely stop giving attention to Pakhi. Let her do/say whatever she wants, be silent & indifferent. Treat Pakhi like a mentally ill patient (that’s what she is tbvh) who doesn’t know what she’s doing.

For Sai’s own mental health, this is best

Originally posted by: maahi11

We have seen how Pakhi never leaves an opportunity of insulting, taunting and showcasing her in bad light. Why such anguish for sai,

Shouldn’t this anguish be more for Virat. He married sai. He gave promise to Pakhi what was sai’s fault. But she clearly shows her hatered/dislike towards sai.

Her problem started the day she saw lipstick mark on viru’s kurta. Her problem enhanced when viru took sai’s side.

For ones shouldn’t she be questioned abt her behavior for sai? Is she right in behaving so bad with sai? Shouldn’t this anguish for viru and wait a Sec why foe viru also, she didn’t stop and said yes for the 1st guy she meet after coming from camp. If viru wanst Sammy brother today she would be living a married life. Where viru would have been a memory to her.

And lastly she is the one who herself had brought the marriage on herself an unwanted relationship. She is an educated girl who asked her to Marry on promise made by her ex lover/current brother in law. And the burnt of the same is bared by sai

Just a thought

My opinion is that Pakhi feels that Sai has taken her position in Virat's life. If not for Sai, Pakhi feels Virat would have given more importance to her at least as a friend. What other plans she had I am not sure so I am not commenting on that. But the truth is that Virat could move on easily because of Sai. Right from the beginning even before Virat Sai marriage Pakhi did not like Virat talking about Sai. This was because she felt he was giving a lot of importance to Sai. And now she knows that Virat loves Sai. This is the reason for all the anger and insults directed at Sai.

pakhi didi ke bharemin baath karna hi bekhar hai..logic ho ya na ho she will hate sai always and forever...show ke end thak after spoiling sairat's life to the fullest thab didi ki aatma jaagutegi saying 'am sorry' woh bhi humari kismat aur didi ke mood pe depend karta hai😆

She is purely living in a delusional world... She somewhere knows Sai entered Virat heart and slowly making her own place there.. that irks Pakhi, how can a girl/woman other than herself can make place Virat heart... Her jealousy towards Sai and denial to come out of her own comfortable delusional world changed to much hatered towards Sai.. she is seeing Sai as threat to break her imaginary world...

Pakhi is not aware if she would have been able to come out of that delusional world her life won't be this miserable...

In other versions, Pakhi till end of the show will have that jealousy towards Sai being happy with Virat if am not wrong...