Off screen / on - screen

I know it’s none of our business what happens off screen. But why does it affect us so much ?

I get influenced so easily so I tend to not watch BTS segments. Just want to gather everyone’s thoughts on the same

It's not only you. It's so many people who get effect by offscreen and I am one of them.

I hate offscreen but I love them onscreen.

Disliking offscreen is just because of one or two.

It’s because we see off screen segments of everyone except Sai .. we only saw her in Utrayan ..

also in sbs the background person tlking is also blaming and saying terrible things abt Sai

Subconsciously bc we want to ship Sai and Virat we are keen to see Neil and Ayesha but these people either show Pakhi Virat and Sai or Pakhi and Virat .. so that drives us nuts bc show mein bhi it drives us nuts .. so we start to form opinions and stuff when we really don’t know reality of it all .. people start arguing saying Ayesha is bullied blah blah when the reality maybe that she is busy w her work bc she has the most screen space and time and dialogues. Keeping in min these people get the dialogues the day of .. so there’s no prep time. Us mein if she does have the time, she won’t go around giving interviews .. it’s exhausting esp bc she’s new and getting used to working late hours etc

I also saw her post where she said if I had to party or stay here (she was in a closet) I choose to stay here so she seems introverted as well. Which is not a bad thing but they take time in opening up ..

Also if you are new you want to focus on work not segments that take away your concentration from work ..

that’s what I have thought of

So in order to avoid unnecessary drama or stress outside of the show, I’ve decided to filter and ignore all that .. what they do outside is not my concern .. I’m only concerned w the happiness I get from watching Sai and hoping they take the show in a good direction w SaiRat (not like kusum dola)

When I started watching the show, I continued bc it made me happy - if I stress too much abt the show or outside of the show, what’s the point of watching? Nothing else should take up so much of my energy.. we should do things bc enjoy it and that’s all!

In sais words, be happy in choti choti cheezein ❤️

As a sairat shippers most of us expect to see them together in bts too...but When we are in our work place we don't get along well with everyone even though we have to work with them everyday...So its same in the set too...We can't expect to see them together in bts every time..I think Neil and Aish are good friends now...I heard even Ayesha mentioned once Jagthap is her very good friend...they make friends with villain .. But hope to see them together at least in SBS/SBB as a ML and FL even after sairat fell in love...

Originally posted by: nilmi

As a sairat shippers most of us expect to see them together in bts too...but When we are in our work place we don't get along well with everyone even though we have to work with them everyday...So its same in the set too...We can't expect to see them together in bts every time..I think Neil and Aish are good friends now...I heard even Ayesha mentioned once Jagthap is her very good friend...they make friends with villain .. But hope to see them together at least in SBS/SBB as a ML and FL even after sairat fell in love...

Totally agree with you and I said same things to my friends that just like we go to office and work in same department but sometime we feel close to other departments people even we hardly spare time.

Here only difference is that they are on set and we can watch them on TV but this is same like our professional life.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

I know it’s none of our business what happens off screen. But why does it affect us so much ?

I get influenced so easily so I tend to not watch BTS segments. Just want to gather everyone’s thoughts on the same

It affects because we want main lead to be same close as on screen.

There was time when I used to watch off screen and wish on screen couple become real life couple but later I learn that TV show is for our entertainment but for them this is work just like we do our work

Even I ignore bts for any show I watch because sometimes off screen lack of bonding affects for to watch on screen. As a fans become biased towards particular character and off screen hatred affect on screen characters. Thin line cross between on and off line character and person

Come this show whatever I saw no idea about trio lead but others are close to each other and they hang out with each other

If you watch off screen segments then watch how they describe their characters. I avoid their personal ID because what they do outside show that's not our business

It is also getting irritating if fans investigate each and every move or act.

Simple Funda social media do not describe your friendship or relationship

There are so many happy post on Instagram but that person going through depression and suddenly news come that person committed suicide

There are so many people did the same in 2020

So better learn to ignore it.

If you follow then criticize or appreciate but don't bashed and don't hate actor or actress because of their on screen character and don't hate on screen characters just because you don't like off screen that person