My thoughts on pakhi

If the makers handled scenes better, we may have been able to sympathize with pakhi. If you just think of the premise- circumstances forced pakhi to get married to the brother of who she loves, now husband is gone and she has to watch her love being married to another girl and their growing closeness, anyone would feel bad for her. But then when you go back and look at the story closely you see that

1. She decided to get married in a fit of rage. She made assumptions. And ahe agreed to the veey first rishta that came her way, never once thinking about the guy shes going to marry n how it'd be fair to him if she was clearly not in the frame of mind to get married.

2. She had opportunities before and after she knew samrat was virats brother to come clean. Even if she was worried about izzat n all she could have spoken to samrat. In any case pakhi's parents know the truth....

3. She made a conscious decision to get married to Samrat but she decided to keep pining after Virat and calling him without respecting her boundary.

4. She is projecting her anger about virat and her failed relationship on Sai. That girl has nothing to do with any of this. Even without Sai in the picture, Pakhi doesn't have any claim over virat. She is his sister in law. Infact she should thank Sai for making it easier for her to see the truth snd define boundaries clearly. Because if pakhi was struggling to keep herself away from her brother in kaw,now hes also somebody else's husband. That definitely ahould help.

5. She made one good decision for herself- to go home to her parents who are supportive and to focus on her career atleast till samrat comes back but diluted that by coming back because shes focused on Sai n Virat rather than herself.

So shes made a string of bad decisions deliberately and fully aware of the consequences , not to mention her unecessary taunts to Sai and participation in kitchen politics and family drama. I know Pakhi will always harbor some dislike towards Sai because its only human ....but if shes really as mature and dignified as Virat and kaku think she is, she woukd atleast distance herself from the petty fights and just keep to herself.

As much as I want to feel bad for her situation because she just got married but her husband is missing....its hard to do that when she has put herself in that situation due to her own bad decisions. And now that she has time to reflect on her decisions instead of maturely handling it shes still focusing on all the wrong things.

Why cant she realize that even if Sai were to leave right now or she didn't exist at all, she still has no place or future with virat. She is married to samrat!

Does she want to have an EMA or is she hoping that if Samrat is assumed to be dead so everyone would look at virat to marry his brothers widow (which is a very twisted ITV trope which mskes no sense, dusri shaadi karani hai toh husband ke bhai se hi kyun?!)

And if she is wishing for Samrat to be dead just so she can fulfil her dreams of being with Virat, then thats just tragic!

Wake up and smell the coffee woman! Dont torture youself and others by wallowing in self pity. Learn to love yourself and make the best of the situation you're in. She herself said jodiyaan bhagwan banata hai. So if your jodi was Samrat, then voh bhi bhagwan ne soch samajh ke banayi hogi. Think about that.

It would be nice if Samrat comes back at some point so that he can confront pakhi/virat and maybe atleast that may force pakhi to see the truth- take a chance at a life with samrat or to leave and focus on her own dreams and life without any of these 2 men.

I lost compassion for her when she choose to marry someone to be close to that person's brother

I lost respect for her when she asked a married man what's her place in his life, when she knocked on the door of a married man on his wedding night, when she barged into the room of a couple in a fight.

I lost empathy in her character when she left the house to empasize her importance and manipulated things so that an 18 could be humiliated.

The remaining hope that I have will be lost when she, as an educated woman, will stop a girl from fulfilling her dreams.

To be honest firstly I never understood the two days love story of Pakhi and Virat. It was way too shallow and lacked the depth to show whatever promises and tales of love these two are singing right now. Plus I don't know how does Pakhi wanting Virat to stay single makes sense when she herself married his brother knowingly. Looks like its only Sai who is sane here.

Pakhi's problem mainly is that Virat saamne hai par haath me nahi aaya.

Her fall was the day when she was angry on Virat not recognizing her voice and blocked his number. If she just spoke to him instead of jumping to conclusion and agree to marry Samrat, this would not have happened. If she truly loved Virat, she wouldn't have had this ego to block his number. It was her fault and not Virat's at this point.

Uske baad ka har decision was hers and hers alone, including her return to circus this week. For once she let go everything to resume her old life, but she couldn't hold on to that decision.

What she is doing now is totally despicable. Her true anger should be with Virat for breaking the stupid vaada and not Sai. He has broken the vaada. Period. So she can just tell him to go to hell and go back home, but no. She can't handle his rejection.

When we see a loved one smile and laugh, we automatically smile coz we want them to always see them happy. But in yesterday's episode, she was not happy to see him laugh and smile and instead had this sad face for entire duration. That itself shows its not love, but like a desire to win him for herself.

I have no sympathy or respect for her character.

Pakhi - Agar Virat tera hota, vo tere pas fight marke aye hota, har roz use pane ki khwahish na kar.

Set him free and free yourself too.

Completely agree.

Their 2 day love is just an infatuation. Unfortunately they both don't see it that way. They barely know anything about each other. I think once a forum member had pointed out that virat didn't even know pakhi was short for patralekha! And this best friend best friend thing is even more ridiculous.

Its hard to find compassion for someone who despite all her maturity, intelligence and samajhdaari doesn't face the truth. Thats exactly why despite virat being equally guilty in the virat-pakhi relationship the audience is forgiving of him because you see him making an effort to draw a line....

Also it's the same with Sai. She was initially sympathetic towards pakhi. Her first reaction nire than once was- aap pakhi Didi ko kya kahenge. But as she sees more of PP, obviously she has no respect/regard for her. She knows PP is important to virat and so she was always civil but PP unecessarily provoked Sai by interfering between her and Virat. Even now she chose to be the bigger person and apologized to her when infact she had nothing to apologise for. She had simply stated facts, there was no insult that she needed to say sorry for. But she did. And today she even bent to take her ashirwaad but pakhi refused her. Not only that in response to Sai's dil se dua thing, instead of maybe staying quiet, she spitefully said- kaash aisa kabhi na ho! Why?! And virat and kaku think that this lady is samajhdaar, mature, suljhi! Like seriously?!

And we see in precap the epitome of selfishness and stupidity- unecessarily involving herself with supporting bhavani in restricting Sais education. That is a new low. Ok you aren't fond of Sai, and you dont want to lose your "place" in Virats life....but what does Sai's education have to do with anything.

Its frustrating to think that we have to put up with the pskhi character for a LONG time.

Mai uske baare mein baat hi nahi karna chahta hu

I hope aap log meri bhavnaon ko samjhe😡😡😡

I badly want hum sabka pyaara samrat to come back and divorce her so that she can't stay here anymore

I wonder what Sai and Ashwinis reaction would be if they heard the most ridiculous story of the 2-day yoga camp love, the relationship breaking because virat didn't save her number and recignize her voice, blocked his number and then decided to MARRY someone else and eventually when yhey both clarified the truth- virat asks pakhi ti marry his brother but promises to be her "best friend" and not allow any other woman a place in his "heart or life" and pakhi believing in this promise and holding him to that. She thinks that husband na sahi, atleast he will be (my devar!) in front of my eyes! What the heck does that mean? Is she a fricking lunatic? If any of us had a bad breakup would we try to avoid the person or torture ourselves like this....

Half the promise is slready broken because he has a let another woman into his life. Even if he claims its a samjhauta, farz, deal...point is hes broken half the promise. Remaining half also will need to be btoken eventually. Because the promise makes no sense!

This girl needs someone to scold her right left and centre. I really don't understand her love story matlab u fall in love in 2days so deeply. Then blocked his number n decided to marry another guy. Iski amarprem katha 1week puri ho gai.

But still assume she luvs Virat more than anything then why did she marry samrat.

If because of stupid "vaada" then she is obsessed with Virat not in love with Virat. she wanted to be near with Virat by hook or crook. 🤗

N what can I say about vaada boy. If he really wanted Pakhi to move on, he would never gave her stupid promise .matlab I won't love someone else but you should marry my brother. May be I am not mature enough to understand their promise 😆

Hahaha very true, none of us are "mature" enough to understand their amar pram katha and their best-friendship and this vaada!

Whatever u just said I agree

If pakhi didn't try to humiliate sai

If pakhi did not ask virat about her place in his life

If pakhi has shown 1% emotion toward samrat

If she didn't tried to bhadkao virat against sai

I would have felt sorry for the girl