Originally posted by: Aegon
Virat - the hero chose family over Pakhi
Very Good
But did he?
I'm not supporting Virat here. But my whole point was about Pakhi not getting any emotional support. From what I see, she was emotionally weak and no one helped her see the reality. On top of it, Virat's promise worsened the situation.
I am choosing my family over love means not marrying my love, I won't force him to marry my sister
Completely agree with u. But why did she even come to the Sangeet? Was it not clear that Virat chose his family over her? He didnt even value her love, her happiness. Was it not clear from her actions that she went there to meet Virat? Even after that, who is Virat to ask her to do anything? He showed her place in his life and she should do the same, too. All I'm saying is, both are matured individuals and are responsible for their actions.
Virat emotionally manipulated with fake promises of loving her forever as a condition for her to marry his brother, Didn't Pakhi try to break her wedding? Didn't she understand that it will ruin 3 lives? She was thinking very clearly before Virat started manipulating her
Exactly! What Virat did is completely wrong. Does that mean she is correct? What is she going to get if Virat loves her or not? After all of this, he would be her devar. So instead of just listening to his words, had she thought practically, she would understand the situation. Shailesh did try to explain her but that was not enough. I expected more from him as a father, a sensible one (that's what they showed him as initially). Also, she did understand that she's ruining 3 lives? But where did that go when she was ready for marriage just to stay close to Virat? From what I see, Virat's reasons and Pakhi's reasons are different. Pakhi did inform her parents that she's getting married just so that she can stay close to him. Was that correct? That's why I said, there's no one to being her back to reality.
Virat should have refused to marry her but he forced her to marry his brother
He keeps telling her that he loves her
Correct. That's when I expect Pakhi to tell him clearly that he has no rights on her life. You took the decision of choosing your family above me, so now I take the decision of choosing myself over you. But why did she even believe him? How can she trust him? Has she ever seen him keeping his promises, that she just believed what he said. If his family forces him to get married, would he stay truthful to the promise he made her or would he chose his family, again? Wasnt she supposed to think that? All in all, both of them together ruined Samrat's life, who is no where involved in all this stupidity.
Just a comparison, situations are different but would help understand the state of mind -
Sai told her father today that she'll marry Jagtap, isn't she an adult? She is under emotional duress and is being forced, she knows Jagtap is wrong, but Virat turned her savior
I request you not to compare Sai and Pakhi as the situations are completely different. She was always under the fear that something might happen to her aaba because of her. She had no support . She had been fighting for herself and her aaba for 3 years.
Also, Pakhi did get time to think over it and she was going to ruin Samrat's life too. But for Sai, she didnt even had 1 hour before taking that decision. Irrespective of Virat turning her savior or not, she didnt ruin anyone's life there. It was her life that she was gonna ruin, just to see her aaba alive. Whereas Pakhi did it her for her own motives of staying near Virat and completely forgot about the guy she's going to get married to.
He was arresting Jagtap for marrying a woman forcefully ,On the other hand, In Pakhi's case Virat is the one forcing her, She doesn't hate him and doesn't think he is the wrong one
Like I said, my topic was about Pakhi and not Virat. Virat disappointed me high time. I honestly have nothing to talk about whatever he did. I've said this in other topic too, he's more emotionally connected to Kamal Sir's daughter than to Pakhi.
Just because he is doing it nicely doesn't mean the woman is willing
It is Pakhi and Samrat who will have to spend their lives in a loveless marriage, Virat will be in love with his teenage wife in no time and will have a happy ending too.
Again, Pakhi and Samrat are not in the same situation. Samrat did ask Pakhi's consent. Time and again, he kept asking her if she's happy or not. Leave about Virat's brother, treat him as an individual who is much more genuine (and gentleman) than Virat was. He had no clue about what's happening with him. I really want him to ask her all the right questions. Loving someone doesn't mean that you agree to whatever he/she says. I don't want to talk about Virat's love life as that's not yet shown.
Virat didn’t choose his family above her, He forced her to do what he thought was good for his image because clearly his brother and family won't have a happy life in this sham of a marriage
Yes, Virat is wrong. Whatever forcing he did was during the sangeet. But why did she come for it as Samrat's fiance? If Virat was not ready to disclose the truth, why didnt she do it? I see her emotional state but she is also responsible for ruining her life and Samrat's life too.
I agree with you, Pakhi has none to guide her
Channel and Promos were pretty clear with who is at fault
"Ek farz poora karne me hongi Kitni zindagiyan barbad?"
If it wasn't Indian drama with audience expecting nothing but silly nok-jhok of love hate relationship, the story would have been actually good with everyone growing up and realizing their mistakes
I am not someone who enjoys the nok-jhok without any base. But I see where you are coming from. The execution of Virat-Pakhi fiasco was bad, very bad,. They could've handled this in a better way.
To answer your question, Pakhi would have been a human who made error in judgement and took a wrong decision, if she wasn’t in love with the hero and in competition with the heroine because she is in some competition where female lead has to be above her, she is a she devil who deserves nothing good
Agree that she is a human who made an error in judgment. But I'm not sure about the competition yet. I hope she soon realizes that Virat or his promises are not above her life. She deserves to be happy, be it with Samrat or anyone else. Let's see.
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