Recycling garbage

Karan never brought his family in till the last moment and Laxmi suffered horribly . Still , the idiotic Garodias marry Jhanvi off without making proper enquiries about his family . Also , if he is such a famous industrialist these enquiries could be made from outside . But even that option isn't explored . Wasn't the fiasco of one daughter .........Laxmi , enough for the Garodias o take a stand that no way , without meeting the family , this shaadi cannot proceed ? Surpisingly , even Laxmi doesnt open her mouth even once to voice this caution !

One would think that these silly girls would learn from each other's mistakes...even if they were desperate to marry Gauri off, they still should have thought it through, same goes for Jhanvi...I've never seen such bewakoofi in my entire life!

Do not expect wisdom or sanity from the serial writer. If any serial will be aired years after years, this will happen.

I am convinced that the writers and the entire concept of this show is developed by, and geared towards, some Taliban-like group. Their idea of "woman power" is a woman who is able to endure all the crap life throws at her. A woman who suffers in silence. That is their idea of a strong woman. Their philosophy is that a weak woman would not be able to handle the kind of injustice and abuse she suffers. She would not have the "strength" to tolerate the kind of out and out nonsense that the betiyaan endure.

They are trying to disguise all of these hideous beliefs and practices as a feminist cause, as if women are so stupid that they will lap it all up and not know the difference. Clearly they are wrong! There are angry and offended voices on this forum every day.

I have finally figured this out after a long time. This show is about the strength and power of women as viewed through the lens of some chauvinistic and fundamentalist men.

OK you are right Thats what the show is about the strength of women and how much they can endure, but the show should not show In Law as monsters cause this gives people who are watching this show wrong ideas.

I totally agree with rainabow. My mom says the same things to me, that woman power is how much they can endure. "Hindustani Naris" are supposed to do anything to keep their marriage together - even suffer abuse and act stupid but never ask for help or use their brains.

Originally posted by: rainabow

I am convinced that the writers and the entire concept of this show is developed by, and geared towards, some Taliban-like group. Their idea of "woman power" is a woman who is able to endure all the crap life throws at her. A woman who suffers in silence. That is their idea of a strong woman. Their philosophy is that a weak woman would not be able to handle the kind of injustice and abuse she suffers. She would not have the "strength" to tolerate the kind of out and out nonsense that the betiyaan endure.

They are trying to disguise all of these hideous beliefs and practices as a feminist cause, as if women are so stupid that they will lap it all up and not know the difference. Clearly they are wrong! There are angry and offended voices on this forum every day.

I have finally figured this out after a long time. This show is about the strength and power of women as viewed through the lens of some chauvinistic and fundamentalist men.

I saw agree why do they never bother to inquire the back ground of their supposedly son in laws. yuv even try to help and gauri knew the way akash and tina worked so why did she kept quiet.