Originally posted by: TaranaGeet
Don't talk about women supression and early marriage... my blood boils listining ti the hypocrite ways of our society.
I wonder when this will end
My best friend and two of my close cousin who are same age to me 3 of them got married in same year it was a shock to me...
And I've cried so much before Zakia's wedding we both had even my mother could not stop crying but her own parents behaved like enemy..her has been so unplanned force able I don't know how she got agreed after so many things I would have eloped from house I've never seen a girl like her having so much patience so much good natured ...no one ever could accept her wedding never...
It was so sudden like not even 20 days at hand her parents fixed her marriage without telling her anything not a single discussion ...
they never from childhood had said they will get their girls married soon at least that might had prepared them mentally but they showed dreams to pursue higher study and just when she was in college they do something like this...
that to marrying someone who is double the age unbelievable their choice is...
just because the Man has Money and good natured that doesn't mean to marry off their daughter...
they send proposal you could have refused but no you got her married and ruined her life...
So many people protested so much trying of everyone nothing helped what can anyone do when your own parents are behaving like nut case...
She was so broken I had to stay in her house for 3 days if I'm there she somehow manage herself but if I leave she start crying again...
I've never felt so helpless for anyone seeing her broken made me so vulnerable...
I was already struggling then with hospitals reports but could not missed to be with her...
Every single person feel pity for her so beautiful girl and got a husband like this...
but people's sympathy doesn't help the people...
Her husband is really good really helpful in all phase of her life encouraged her to keep her going to study but still getting married changes everything in life...
even just before our exam she was saying to me never ever Marry Marium that finish your life responsibilities making try to make people happy become your life but you are happy or not no body will care...
still people will have problems with you...so whenever your parents try to make you marry run away from house still never marry 😆
Since married she's still suffering...
Handing home in laws baby studies really tough...
other who got married their state is not this much devastating how she's suffering on that note since pregnant her life is like fully tortured always health issues then after Mihirima born my cutiepie troubles her mom a lot like hell 😆
not eating not sleeping always crying still it's impossible to do a single work she always want her mother all the time doing households work and study seems like impossible still in laws not much happy...
Huh ...life sometimes is so cruel to some people... 🥱
Still we all try to be happy with whatever we had in our life 😃
Mihirima is like my life now feel so much for that little girl well 1st thing I'm gonna do after going to my city after getting little well is to rush her house... missing them like hell 😊
Edited by MariumChoudhary - 7 years ago
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