Originally posted by: ucompleteme
Hope you don't mind, but I have to favor the guy. I mean he went in his pyjamas to get married, signed the papers because she said, even signed NT's abortion papers with his name, gets up and gets a flower every day, drops her back and forth to work/college, tattoos her name on his chest, shows up to her every night and controls himself because he does not want to tick her off, I mean do we even know husbands who do that. Guy is too cute. He does consider himself married to her but he does not do anything because he does not want her upset with him. I mean if he is at fault here so should Geet be, hai na?
😊 open forums should always be open for debates... i don't mind at all... healthy discussion always welcome ...you may not agree to me and thats perfectly alright... and i never said Geet is not at fault...
We are all looking at it from a third party standpoint where we know what all he does for her but does that make her clearly realize that he is head over heals for her... infact forget her does he himself realize that...
Indeed he is done a lot for her... but the moment she feels it is love he does something that makes her wonder if its really love or is jts just attraction... She knows she loves him but does he know that...
He does not want to trick her off but ultimately always turns up doing that... he feels guilty for the way he treated her all along and misunderstood her but never mustered the courage to tell her a sorry for his misunderstandings... In my mind he is just impulsive... and i did not say Geet is not at fault but atleast she is clear... she knows she loves him... but she does need to draw a line...
muskan to answer your point indeed the families wouldn't mind them together... i guess yash would be the most happiest in that case... but think about this... yash realizes Maan is married to someone and the world knows about it but him or his family... what would be his reaction?
Maan knows that Geets family thinks of him to be Prachi's BF... and thus once Rano indirectly ended up accusing her own daughter and chides her for having feelings for Maan... if she or the handa's realize this? what should be their obvious reaction...
We saw how Maan was impulsive when Yash tried to push him to join KC ... tomorrow if he families try to push them for a legal marriage whats the gurantee that he would not be impulsive to move out of it not clearing knowing his feelings for her... in his confused state of mind...
I side by Geet because atleast she is clear and has nothing to hide... She has feelings for Maan her mom knows it... She was intimate with Maan rano knows it... (not that it was maan but still knows that it was someone she loved)... She loved Maan she knows it... but you cannot deny she is undecided because of his behaviour... indeed she knows that somewhere he loves her thats the only reason she gives into him... but imagine Maan going away from her after this point in their relationship for whatever reasons...do you think she will be able to take that rejection...don't you think she would be impulsive to do some thing to harm herself then?
I'm sorry for the long session of blabbering... its just that i feel every relationship grows but i do not see that growth here even after 3-4 years of nearly courtship (lets put it that way) 😳 and i did not like him declaring her as his wife to everyone before even she knowing it or thier families knowing it...
Edited by Azmatazz - 13 years ago
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