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Posted: 14 years ago

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@zaara25

Well, I guess since I am new here, I don't know many rules! But, yet I haven't offended anyone, not bashed anyone, not abused anyone, not did something to hurt anyone, not shouted on anyone, not hit anyone! So, I guess I can stay here for long!😆

And by the way, it would be your viewpoint, that you want me to be fine with it (slightly of course), and I respect it! But, I am afraid I don;t agree with it!😲

I am not going to remain silent till I get the justice. I remained silent in that thread of mines even after reading so much awkward things! Isn't that enough?

I only asked them to leave. I hope in that way I didn't break the rules!😳

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Posted: 14 years ago

#42

@differs, its your decision to report them.. No way im gonna stop you.. As long as you have a clear conscious mind, its okay go ahead report.. And then what you get at the end of the day? You get the lost peace back? No.. But no im not stopping you.. Go ahead do that.. And yeah, its okay, actually when i came here, i only stalked this place.. i was a newbie till i joined the world's coolest and most positive thread on any forum, called the bumper to bumper thread.. And then rest i say, HISTORY.. I became groupbie, senior member, dazzler and here i stand, the once shy gal is NOW proud owner of 5693 posts and a IF rockerz.. So fyi, even i didnt know the rules.. And maybe while chatting with my b2b members, i could have broken some rules.. But no i don know if i did.. Yes, till now even im not sure about some IF rules.. But i think its logical you know basic ones like not to post degratory stuff or to post something that will hurt another feelings.. So maybe i was logical enough, without knowing the rules of IF, i get to survive in this forum.. Of course i didnt mean that you would break the rules.. Im just reminding you that so that we all can stay together here as one happy family.. Anyways, good to see you here.. This forum can be addictive.. So try your best not to get involved much.. If not bye bye to your studies and job.. I lost my job mainly because of this forum.. And no i love this home and just because i lost my job, its not gonna stop me from coming here.. Atleast for those frens whom have become my family here, i would keep coming back.. Hope you too enjoy your stay here and get as many good frens as possible..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#43

@zaara25

Wow! A nice post! Thanks a lot for it!

And it was shocking to know you lost your job becuase of this forum! Really shocking! I hope I don't have to get to that place ever! I won't. Because now, I can't be addictive to this forum! I am 'different' you know?😆

And about your question that whether I wouls get my lost peace back? Well, I never lost it! I don't ever loose my peace! except for some times, I get angry! Well, it's complicated and even though I don't like complications I can't help this big complication in me! And, at the end of the day, I want the members to see that what can a work like this can give you! You know? Just a message.😳

By the way, thanks again!😳

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Posted: 14 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: differs
@zaara25

Wow! A nice post! Thanks a lot for it!

And it was shocking to know you lost your job becuase of this forum! Really shocking! I hope I don't have to get to that place ever! I won't. Because now, I can't be addictive to this forum! I am 'different' you know?😆

And about your question that whether I wouls get my lost peace back? Well, I never lost it! I don't ever loose my peace! except for some times, I get angry! Well, it's complicated and even though I don't like complications I can't help this big complication in me! And, at the end of the day, I want the members to see that what can a work like this can give you! You know? Just a message.😳

By the way, thanks again!😳

you are welcome.. Glad you are 'different'.. Thanks for liking my post.. I cant believe i write so much of sensible stuff nowadays.. Like i told you, im a forum shy gal.. Ask me talk with people, ill talk all sorts of nonsense.. Somehow typing those same nonsense in words was hard for me.. Yeah but still i made it this far.. Hope you too will.. Hopefully, you don get to anyone's bad side.. And sometimes to do that, its good to be neutral, if you get what i mean! Maybe thats why i didnt get bashed here at all.. Not sure about those who thinks i write alot of things.. 😆 you see, i feel i got a tendacy to make people annoyed or hurt by sarcastic remarks sometimes.. So hope i didnt annoy or hurt you.. About my job, yeah sadly thats the truth.. I can only blame gf.. And not just for the job, i had now grown further apart from my own parents due to this place.. But still you know i love this place so not gonna stop from coming.. Btw just being ignorant and asking you, what prompted you to make that post at first place? And all those replies to the gals who bashed you.. It looked as if you were enjoying replying to them till the intrusion of two members, whom i rather don talk about.. If it was for good purpose, then i got nothing to complain of.. I just hope this forum will be back to being peaceful like the good old times..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: zaara25

you are welcome.. Glad you are 'different'.. Thanks for liking my post.. I cant believe i write so much of sensible stuff nowadays.. Like i told you, im a forum shy gal.. Ask me talk with people, ill talk all sorts of nonsense.. Somehow typing those same nonsense in words was hard for me.. Yeah but still i made it this far.. Hope you too will.. Hopefully, you don get to anyone's bad side.. And sometimes to do that, its good to be neutral, if you get what i mean! Maybe thats why i didnt get bashed here at all.. Not sure about those who thinks i write alot of things.. 😆 you see, i feel i got a tendacy to make people annoyed or hurt by sarcastic remarks sometimes.. So hope i didnt annoy or hurt you.. About my job, yeah sadly thats the truth.. I can only blame gf.. And not just for the job, i had now grown further apart from my own parents due to this place.. But still you know i love this place so not gonna stop from coming.. Btw just being ignorant and asking you, what prompted you to make that post at first place? And all those replies to the gals who bashed you.. It looked as if you were enjoying replying to them till the intrusion of two members, whom i rather don talk about.. If it was for good purpose, then i got nothing to complain of.. I just hope this forum will be back to being peaceful like the good old times..

You see when they started posting like that stuff I first tried to remain calm you know like I wanted them to get silent! I even tried to look idiot! But, of no use ! And after that, it was intolerable!

But, even then I just said them to keep away from my posts! But the whole time they kept on commenting!

And you know, I am a human too. So, I can't tolerate more than that nay? That was my limit! 😳😲

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Posted: 14 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: zaara25
Maanddy, just one thing i would like to say.. I know you are leaving.. No i wont stop you.. Thats your decision.. You have that right.. But then, sometimes you see all these bashing could be a result of another action.. So yes maybe the Fb episode might have angered those who bashed you and differs.. Maybe they wanna show how it feels to be bashed by fellow forum members.. Im not supporting what they did.. Yes they were wrong to bash you and differs because of the font.. But i can feel that they did that because of the fb issue.. Those gals who bashed you and differs on those threads were the victims of that recent fb issue.. Since you were part of that thread, they could have assumed you were in fault as well.. And seeing another member like your writing style, they could have suspected that thats you... And thats why you and differs were accused of something you both don know.. I don care whether you know about it or not.. I just hope that wherever you be, you will choose a fren who is good.. Because of whatever happened, they all assume you are in the bashing as well.. Thats why its good you choose good frens with whom you wont get into trouble.. Hope you forgive and forget this incident.. Its obviously a case of mistaken identity.. And thanks for wishing me that i wont get targeted like this.. Well, im pretty sure i wont be.. Why? Because i don say things which could hurt anyone in any way.. Nor am i partial towards any actor of the show.. Im brought in that way to be respectful to anyone.. Strict parents you see.. I hope i didnt hurt you from my post.. Though hope you stay, its your wish if you want to leave.. And to differs, whatever that has happened, it should not dampen your spirits as well.. If you are truly a different member, then i say, WELCOME ABOARD.. but mind you, hope you adhere to the rules set here, if you wanna stay here for long..

Zaara,

You seem a real nice person ! No problem with you at all ! 😛

But,

Tell me one thing, Who gives them AUTHORITY to assume anything about me ? Just coz i have join some group...I am the bad gal now...is this some kinda joke going on ? You know if that is the case then lemme tell ya...You joined late...You should have been here in august...I did not joined the forum at that time but i was a stalker...I was a outside guest of this GF...and then I joined GF in sept ! But, what I saw was more than this thing...And just coz of you are in contact with such persons does not prove that you are the one...coz if this is the case then till now...each and everyone in this forum is guilty of charge coz somewhere at some point of time...they were FAN of someone who was banned twice ! I don't wanna get into that, too ! Its not my nature at all !

So, this does not make any sense !!!

All in all, I know that she owes an apology to me and differs ( Tell me your name yr ! ) !

This was like blaming/shooting in DARKNESS ! At least they should have DECENCY to apologize, which I don't expect from them ! Ego is something makes you blind !

If they are victims, then why the hell are they making me victim ? Why do they want me to feel how it look like ? Do it to them !! Why me ? Make them feel like they felt, why me ?

And, you know something, you were talking about some thread...I was not even in any other thread...it was just one and i left it !

I was alone here...am alone...and will be alone...I am a writer and I am here for my FF and OS !

That's it ! Screw the show and fan and all this things now ! Coz, I ME and MYSELF is far more important than this show and GC/DD ! I cried last night for this damn stupid things and who cares ? huh ? I was a fool who cried like a small fool girl ! Why ? It is worthless !

I was not partial, it was my choice ! But, now that has gone so personal, I choose not support any of them in public, I like both of them GC and DD ! But, NO NEED to show love ! It will not make any difference now, out of 4000+ fans if i will unjoin them, nothing will change !

This is beyond crazy fan liking and all that ! I was hurt damn it ! Just coz they are hurt, they can't hurt someone blindly ! HURT those who did it ! They have proof then why they are not getting them banned ?

It was me today, tomorrow they will find some other " BAKRA " for that target ! Neither I am blind, nor I am fool ! I can see what is going on ? Instead of punishing those, they are trying to catch innocents here ! And literally wasting time ! And, the one is who is doing this is must be ENJOYING this, laughing at them ! Us ! And me ? I was just a tool ! This is how they released their frustration ?

And, if you wanna know my REAL friends here, I will tell ya, come to my FF and OS threads ! They are my REAL friends ! Just coz we like same guy, it does not mean we are friends ! Misunderstanding and WILD - ASSUMPTION at its BEST or WORST, I would say !

And, of course I will leave, once my FF is over ! I have no more interest in anyone now, just ANY SINGLE PERSON ! Coz, it has come to me now, and I choose, I, Me and Myself over GHSP/GF and just everything !

Consider it as VIRTUAL/OFFICIAL Death of "Maanddy" !

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Posted: 14 years ago

#47

Maandy: I do not know what the issue is here: But, I pay proper attention to writing styles: part of my profession ... 😊 There are very rare who use exclamation point after every sentence. Should I call it co-incidence or just a case of two identities and one soul. 😊

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Posted: 14 years ago

#48

@maanddy

Well, I have to give a very very big hand to you for all this!

And my name is Sanny; Sanny Sharma!

By the way, seems the history of all this was very long! Ancient history you know? And I don't know why the hell I have got stuck in this.

And yes @zaara25 You requested me to forgive and forget.

Well, i am ready to forgive.

But, the question is whom should I forgive? Is there anyone asking for my forgiveness? Or they think I am just a person wandering on here with no conscience or self-respect?

It seems like - 'ulta chor kotwal ko daante'.

Well, I am not such kind (and I don't want to be) that my self-respect is not counted upon! And, one more thing to those people who started it all.

Your ego, is worth admiration and my self-respect is worth negligence? I can't accept it! And I won't ever! And I don't give up ever! That is the most important fact of my till day life and it will always be.

No one can understand the way I felt when I was hurted so much for nothing and that too, in such a wild way.

And I don't give anyone a right to bash me as long as I am right. And I also know that I am right.

I am here talking to everyone. And where are they? Why don't they come here and explain themselves?

Ego is something I guess! Yes, How couldn't I get it. I have got it now.😳

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Posted: 14 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: an12345678
Maandy: I do not know what the issue is here: But, I pay proper attention to writing styles: part of my profession ... 😊 There are very rare who use exclamation point after every sentence. Should I call it co-incidence or just a case of two identities and one soul. 😊

Well, seems this is not gonna get over.

But, I replied just in a post above. Don't like to repeat that again!

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Posted: 14 years ago

#50

differs: It's an open forum, you can reply to anyone without a double thought. Anyway, do not want to get into any argument. Just posted my observation about the similarity between writing styles -- as I said professional hazard. 😊