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Posted: 14 years ago

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Shreya: Where does sympathy come in? What about understanding and respect as to "each their own." Sympathy or lack of it comes only from your subjective evaluation of something based on your own value system as to what is right and what is wrong to your own set of values, principles and guidelines or strictures or stipulations.

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@bDgT

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Brilliant God Help Us :)) Lovely viewpoint and I was glad to read that post of yours

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Posted: 14 years ago

#33

reserved will think and write

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Soapoperasrfun

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Posted: 14 years ago

#34

@ Bri, agree with your point.

The biggest limitation and reality is that we all understand things and perceive things within our bounds. There is always an individual understanding of right and wrong depending on our upbringing and environments. Each one of us has an opinion and hence the saying one man's food is another man's poison. Which was really my first point. My opinion is just my perspective. I have nothing against people who have pre-marital sex. I won't shun them from my life, I won't act indifferently towards them.

Having said that, if I were in Anne's situation, I wouldn't have done it her way. And I don't know anyone who would. So it is hard for me as an individual to accept her actions.

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shadowstreet

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Posted: 14 years ago

#35

Annie Issue: this track is one track in GHSP I never felt interested but it became so vital so have to talk😭

From my POV:

Anie was at fault as she acted iresponsible, played with the trust of her granny & bro, dishonor family reputation. So ya she was at fault. If we give her age as liberty then yes she is 18 but she is from urban society. She spent her life in dormatory. So if her brought up & up bringing was at fault then she wud have made this mistake much earlier, but she didnt. why? bcoz she was not in love. She fall in love with a guy with a very short span of time. This time is not enough to lose virginity. She did the act on the time when she was suppose to be with her bro & would be sis in law. But she spent time with Arjun as she was in love. Love can be displayed manarfully with full romance in crowd too. everyone dont have to get private always in love. She entraped on the time when her family was busy in the biggest ceremony of their life & need her. She very well know how important the day was for her granny & bro. Also she knew it was important for her would be sister in law. but she overlooked everyone & dishonored the trust & freedome her family gave her. So in my opinion she made a serious mistake. every family gave their children some education about moral values, honor of family & respecting family bondage. But she forgot all of them.

Now, another track. what if she gets preggy. I think she should abort. When she will know that Arjun faked with her. She will be shattered at first but her character indicates she will confront Arjun. If Arjun denies or says it was his revange then is there any chance to love him back? I think NO. so why she will keep the baby? unless it is too late to abort she should abort in such case. She is well eduacted urban girl who knows about protection & abortion. So I will go for abortion for her if Arjun finally ditch her.

Here many will compare her with Geet. as both of them were cheated & both are 18. but the case is Geet was cheated but she found it later. She thought she was married & submitted herself to his husband only. Even when she was in love with MSK & about to marry him she never crossed her limit. It happend bcoz she valued her family education which she learnt at early age that human should remain in boundaries in relation. So she maintain it very well. Which Anie failed to maintain.

Geet kept her baby, we know why. After knowing she was preggy she contact Dev, the father of the child. That time she told clearly to her sister that she lost her respect for Dev but she is contacting & meeting him as he is the father of her child. Later when she find out about the whole cheating matter frm NT she was shattered as usual. She was roaming on the road of Amritsar & could not decide what to do. Then she selected what was best she think of. She handover the matter to her God. She asked God to give her solution & God gave her a signal. So she decided to keep the baby. She told her family about her decision. In normal case if her family was polite with her & gave her support to find Dev I think she wud think of the abortion. But what Geet recieve from her family was order after order. At frst they orderd her to marry an NRI & leave country, then when he left her alone her family ordered her to forget him & pretend like an unmarried, they ordered her not to contact law & order & give up the land to MSK. So finally when her family ordered her to abort the child she revolt big time. That was her story. She kept her baby to fight with her family & society & make them understand they were wrong with her. During this period she got emotionally too much attached with her baby as she was alone in her fight. She made the baby as an inspiration of living life & fighting with the society.

So I dont think Geet & Annie's acse is comparable. Geet fought against a system of the society & decided to bring her child in the world. On the other hand Annie made herself entraped to guy whom she was warned too many times & fulfilled her lust in the name of love with him.

So from my POV Annie did wrong. If she gets preggy & Arjun decided to ditch her she should abort. She can also make an example by doing this. once she find out she was trapd she can also show Arjun the door without crying. So the ppl like Arjun will think twice while using a girl as their weapon of revenge.

My last statement is I Love You Bri😛 u always make me proud👏

Edited by shadowstreet - 14 years ago

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Muskan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#36

well written..agree wit the baby part..not a grt idea to have a baby unless u r ready fully to takr the responsibilty

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KrishnaSourav

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Posted: 14 years ago

#37

good topic.
I'll edit soon.
First about geet,
yes , she is also 18 yrs old girl, come from very conservative family. she married as per her family choice and she complete her duty as a daughter of handa family and wife of dev, that time she don't know about that dev is already married and her marriage is illegal.she gave herself to dev.
now geet's decision about kept the child is right or wrong, still I don't know, geet as mother think to keep the child but if we logically think without maan it's very much impossible .

now come to the annie,
I blamed her(Annie) for this situation , I know she is 18 yrs old, love arjun but still , she know arjun only 2weeks or less than but she changed beauty parlor of geet to meet arjun, she deserted geet in the beauty parlor after know the attack going on geet. she lied to maan.she sleep with arjun on the marriage day of her brother.still lying to her brother. after this when she saw true color of arjun she will go back to her brother and bhabi for help.
yes it's 21 st century but still an educated and so called modern girl don't know the consequences and just blindly followed some strangers .

Edited by PrithviSanyo1 - 14 years ago

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@bDgT

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Posted: 14 years ago

#38

Updated PG 1 with Jan 31, 2011

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GodHelpUs

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Posted: 14 years ago

#39

Guess who's been reading Annie's diary ❓????????

Why CV ofcourse!!👏

Else how would one explain the somersault the track has taken. How the pea brained Annie finds a way to confront Arjun with the facts is CV's pain in the ass..I'll kick back, relax and watch it unfold.

Maan and Geet's cutesy moments are on over drive and OT (overhead transmission). Nobody told CV 'paas jitna behtar utna' toothpaste ke ad ka tag line theek hai but familiarity also breeds contempt.

Purely my PoV...Am saturated with the 'near-yet- so- far-barely-making-it lip locks that audience are dying to witness. There won't be one.

I can bet on that.

The last time there was any sembalance to a real time kiss, correct me if I m wrong, was when Maan mouths the 3 most beautiful word to lovebirds on planet Earth-ILU, amidst the fake snowfall...and Geet manages a peck on the cheek.

And I am not counting the 'lip service' on foreheads.

Disallowed.

Disqualified.

If I were Maan, I would have broken into an impromptu jig...

'Are o janeman! bahar nikal.

Aaj Jumme hai...pichle jumme ko ...sumthing sumthing..vada kiya tha...

Aaj Jumme hai.........

Chumma chumma de de...."😃

Meanwhile,I would single out today's "ghaas' as gift for someone 'khaas' stunt as particularly humorous.

With Valentine's day mood catching up in real life too, for all those who have been nasty to me,I will be sending them some 'ghaas', add some pebbles for good measure and effect😆 Serial dekhkar kuch toh changga idea mila..Oh! Geet ke babaji, shukriya.

Dasvidaniya😊

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