Part 1I am Nirmala Bharatwaj...
Eldest member of Bharatwaj family...
I always feel proud of my only son Rajender Bharatwaj & my daughter in law Sujatha...
Why not.. who can get such affectionate son & equally competing daughter in law...
I always felt proud of my daughter in law & of course towards me who selected such daughter in law for my son...
I didn't found that hard to find such a girl as daughter in law before 30 years when i was searching for girl for my son...
But now.. its not the case...
Yes.. now a days.. searching for daughter in law is not so easy as those days...
One way.. our expectation towards the girl is widely increased...
Other way... the expectation from girl side is more widely increased towards their son in law...
It was not such case on those days...
They give their daughter get married when they get alliance from good family...
Now a days how many expectation.. conditions... OMG.. its not easy task...
Yes.. i realised that since i started searching alliance recently...
Not for my son.. instead for my grandson... Siddhant Rajender Bharatwaj...
Is it so hard task to get bride for him??? Yes it is... This is my answer...
Is it because.. he is not handsome??? No No.. he is handsome which will make other girl to turn towards him atleast once for sure...
Is it because.. he is not qualified??? No.. No.. he did his Post graduation & Secured first mark too...
Is it because.. he is not on job??? What to tell... We got our own company Bharatwaj Industries...
Then what is the worry is about...
It is there.. because he is not taking care of Bharatwaj Industries...
Then what is he doing??? There starts the problem...
Yes.. since childhood not sure which Cinema he saw or who influenced him...
No No.. not in bad terms.. i mean.. he got influenced to that profession which none of our family members even think of it...
What is such profession to which he got attracted??? What to tell... He wanted to become Military man...
We tried our best to leave that idea and handle our biz..
Only our energy wasted.. but no reaction from him...
What all we didn't tried... We tried to do counselling like lecture going individuallly to his room...
No use... He strictly told us not to come to his room if they want to talk about changing his interested profession...
We didn't give up... we engaged his close friends to convince him...
What to say??? we thought he will change his mind and take care of biz...
Instead he changed his friends itself...
What other option we were left with other than accepted the way he wanted to go...
FInally he did what he wanted...
Yes.. he joined in Military...
He went to border of the nation to take care of country leaving his family...
It was very hard phase for us to accept that separation...
But he shut our mouth with his valid point...
Yes.. he just asked a simple question and we all were shut...
'If i might have told that i got job in aborad.. you all might have sent me with a broad smile on your face... to work for other nation... Even in that case.. i will be away from family only... but now i am just going to be in India and you all got objection for that... remember i am only going to be away from family & not from nation.. i feel proud of it... be patriotic instead of being selfish...'
Can anyone talk anything more after hearing this big lecture...
We just wave bye to him and sent to border to guard our nation...
Now he is in senior position and he is very happy about his position...
But we never thought this same profession may turn against him when we look for a girl...
We are thinking people in city are well educated and forward thinking...
But its not the fact... We got answer from most of the family we approached for him with the same reply...
'Military man... wont work out for our daughter... how can she be away from him for so many months and wait for him to come for holidays to even look his face... We dont think our daughter deserve such punishment in life of being away from husband...'
This is somewhat acceptable as they feel bad that their daughter will be away from her husband for most of the months...
But above this.. it hurts when few tells us crossing their ethics...
'What if something happens to your son in the border.. we dont want to see our daughter as widow...'
It really shock us when hearing this.. how can they say abruptly looking at us about death chances of our son...
Wont they even think how hurting it will be when we hear that...
Is death is in our hand??? it can happen to anyone anytime.. the person who just depart from home to office may even die in an accident... Does this mean they only need to get their daughter married to someone who just stay inside kitchen holding her saree...
We are now fed up to hear such comments...
Keeping all these aside... When few come forward to see his photo... the next comment comes...
Then what.. this Siddhant too is so stupid...
He took a photo in his military uniform with a strict & rude face and gave us when we asked for photo to give to girl side...
'Its obvious seeing that photo the comment automatically comes that he seems to be so rude... so strict.. so harsh... Our daughter may not suit to your son...'
Now this is the problem we end up with...
Oh God.. show us our daughter in law who join hands of our Siddhant and love him forever...
This is the prayer i am keeping in front of God day & night...
Wish he hear my prayer and show us that girl who is our Siddhant's life partner...
Hope he hears... and give us way soon...
We got only few more days left with to do that...
Yes.. our Siddhant is coming in few days on holidays and will be here for his holidays...
We wish to get him married when he comes this time for sure...
If we miss and once he go back then it may take one more year for us to get that opportunity...
And i am getting old day by day...
Wont i wish to see my grand son's marriage...
Going some extra length wont i wish to see our grandchildren...
Is my wish not reasonable???
Now also i am in the temple with such wish only praying to God to show the way...
I closed my eyes and offer my prayer sincerely to God...
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