Originally posted by: friends_4dream
Wowww
So fast updates , really making us very happy
Well sorry for not commenting earlier, was busy with my graduation and all
Abiut the parts well it was as usual amazing
Loving each and every aspect of it.
Rahuls protectiveness for armaan ...
Ur story is amazing but just i wanted to ask, like these 7 years bought changes in armaan
But so does in ridhima, how come no one specially armaan notice it, i know arman went through many things many pain but so did ridhima but for armaan he had his friends his sister , but ridhima was all alone all these years, separated fromfamily, society taunts , no friends except sid this should have taken a toll on her,...
I know arman is sad hurt because of ridz behaviour but thinking that she has given him only pain is also not right..ridhimas love for family, her sacrificing nature all these small things were the only one which attracted armaan and he fell in love with her, so i cannot say she was absolutely wrong in doing on what she did except the canteen part..
She even tried to commit suicide,does anyone knows of it.. she did all this for her family, then how come everyone expected her to leave her husband when armaan came back, how can she become so selfish..
Why no one understood her miseries..everyones did wrong with her also, shashank to stop armaan and tell him to help ger married life , armaan and sid in asking her to make a choice..how come she can make a choice when one side it was her love and one side her morals, her values, her family..if she would have choosen armaan then everyone would have blamed him tagged him as a home wrecker, stealing someone's wife..
I loved that everyone cared anout armaan , became angry with ridz but it was also not right that everyone forgot that how much ridz loved armaan, and how much all these would have affected her the most..common yr she almost gave up her life for him ..i feel bad for her too and armaan also..
It was a bad destiny for both of them
Wish they would come back together soon, armaan should now know the truth atleast
Thank you so much! I hope your graduation was awesome!
I'm glad you're loving the chapters.
About your questions, Armaan hasn't noticed any changes in Riddhima because he has actively avoided interaction with her till now . As he spends time with her, he'll realize that she's changed a lot.
Armaan had people who loved him , but Riddhima wasn't alone either . She had Anjy, Sid & Abhi . Muskaan too. Just because Muskaan was mad at Riddhima doesn't mean she didn't understand Riddhima's perspective . It was only Atul & Nikki who were so harsh. And, after Atul & Anjali's wedding, Atul started talking to her again . It wasn't like they were close like before , but he didn't shun Riddhima either.
On the family front, she had her mom and Nani. It was only Shashank who was against her decision to leave Sid .
Armaan doesn't think that Riddhima has only given him pain . He has always acknowledged that those 2 years with her were some of the best times of his life. He's just wary of talking to her because their last interactions , after she was married to Sid always ended badly because she was so rude to him. And, he remembers the pain he went through in those few months very clearly . He doesn't want to give Riddhima an opportunity to snap at him again.
No one knows Riddhima tried to commit suicide apart from Sid . Riddhima did that in a moment of desperation and Sid understood that it wasn't something that should be common knowledge in their circle , so he never told anyone. And, since none of them were present for the first few months of their marriage and only came back to Mumbai after Armaan had left and saw Riddhima leading a happy life with Sid (according to them because Sid & Ridz always behaved like a normal married couple in front of others and never let anyone know about their issues) they were pissed . Because everyone knew that Armaan must have suffered a lot when he found out that Riddhima was married , but she didn't seem to care at all.
But, Sid & Armaan were never wrong in making her choose. They never tried to influence her choice and always insisted that they would not contest her decision. She couldn't just string them both along for the rest of their lives. Sid told her that he wouldn't begrudge her Armaan and his love and would happily divorce her if that was what she wanted. And Armaan told her that if she decided to give her marriage a chance , he wouldn't stand in the way. Yes, if Riddhima would have chosen Armaan at that point of time, people would have labelled him as a home wrecker, but had Riddhima chosen him, he would have been over the moon and dealt with society and whatever they said. And everyone knew that too .
I have never tried to say that what Riddhima did in the past was wrong . It's just that her choice hurt her , Sid & Armaan in the long run. But, she was doing the right thing or what she believed was right, anyway . But , because her choices were what caused all this, Atul & Nikki were quick to place blame on her . What they did was never right. But, they love Armaan dearly and for them Riddhima was the reason he suffered , so that was enough. And, as I'll explain in the coming chapters, Atul was never mad at Riddhima because she married Sid. He was there when it happened and he knows she didn't have another choice. He's mad at her because he saw her go about her life happily after Armaan left because he was in so much pain. And that didn't sit well with him .
Hope that satisfies your questions for now ! :)
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