Software Symphony 30 A sorrow I nurtured on 127 - Page 44

Originally posted by: ishruhi

thanks vani and vidya...
i think i m the only one to reply for this wish now...
long time vidya...happy to hear from u...

namru u eat pages...we will also relish every bit...

choti...i know u r a good student...

shev aakhir u and anu taught us the real fangirling na???

nisha,why r you keeping silent mode???

Originally posted by: PriteeMisra

I am single working women. I admire working women who have to manage family and specifically those with Kids. Damn difficult. Being single I don't have to bother much about putting extra hours, if and when need be.

I have no doubt for women it takes a lot more after marriage to keep her job. She has to compromise. The one not compromising will be criticized like Ritu is being criticized now. We wouldn't have questioned so much if some male boss of II would have called her on Friday evening for some update. But since she is female boss we are questioning her that she doesn't have personal life hence she is giving extra hours. There are biases against working women and there always will be. If she works extra for achieving her ambitions she will be alleged of not having personal life or ignoring her family but we will not question men's doing the same.

I know having family is as important as career but I guess one should be allowed to choose one over the other without being judged too much.

Originally posted by: putti77

Noufi Happy Ramzan.
Need to sleep now...

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Oh! No!! U have it all wrong Pritee, thats not true. There is a reason we go home from work. ITS TO SPEND WITH FAMILY. Otherwise we would all be working 24*7. There is a clear line demarcating the two. This is about A EMPLOYEE making bad/good choices by CHOOSING to stay at work past 9 PM on a weeknight. If Spectrum 7th floor was on fire and she called II to rescue her, I GET IT😃

To Ritu: I am all for ambition, aggression and shattering the glass ceiling. DO IT IN YOUR OWN TIME😛.

The ones that choose to go home and spend time with their families should not be indicted or punished for it. Working past 9 is not the law, those who choose to do it make it seem like its an expectation from the company. This has nothing to do with gender sorry... if it was a male boss my feelings would be the same.

Apologies to all for betraying you this morning. I was too caught up in the debate to write the enext chapter, will write a sappy emotional gooey one when I get home

Garima WELCOME.

Anu I love Mammootty and Mohal Lal too, havent watched any Mallu Tamil movie in recent years with a Mallu male lead sorry.

Vani, welcome to the land of milk and honey😆 Was the garden where ur son married the Portland Japanese garden? ITS BEAUTIFUL. The homes near it are to die for... the roads leading to it are windy and treacherous.. so beautiful. How did u reconcile to the fact that ur son did not marry an Iyer😭 I think such a future holds true for every immigrant like me😃 I could use some early lessons

AGAIN I AM TOTALLY SORRY

UNFORGIVABLE I KNOW... will make it up somehow😭