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taramira

@taramira

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#651

Originally posted by: NSB7

We all expect mom's to be super women's but look at her as a wife as a lady who loves somebody immensely... I keep saying...look at her like II...would II bear this..??
She has akka Sam tan appa bala amma ranjan to give her strength... She had akka appa amma bala when she heard about Marliese... What happened to her??? For a man she knew for less then Two months I guess..!
Think of MA...she was with ranjan for around 50 years maybe?
Would she bear?
II is matured too...grownup and caring like ma...!

But II would not take the extreme step of taking her life. She could be down and out...severely sick to her heart...but she certainly has the ability to rejuvenate herself UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE.

Savvy had three kids whom she loved to bits...in my understanding almost all suicides are a result of deep mental trauma/extreme low self esteem/ mental health issues/ substance abuse ...FOR SOMETIME BEFORE THE ACT is committed.

Interestingly according to stats while younger people are more prone to attempt suicide older people and especially women plan their suicide for a longer time before committing the act.

Of course exceptions are always there. But SAVVY??? I don't know.

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Seriousreader

@Seriousreader

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#652

R&B should let it all out! God knows how much and how long he's been keeping all his thoughts, emotions and memories to himself. Being an introvert hasn't helped either.

And, who better than II to pour them out to.

I'm looking forward to something like this in the coming updates!

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namratha

@NSB7

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#653

Originally posted by: taramira

But II would not take the extreme step of taking her life. She could be down and out...severely sick to her heart...but she certainly has the ability to rejuvenate herself UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE.

Savvy had three kids whom she loved to bits...in my understanding almost all suicides are a result of deep mental trauma/extreme low self esteem/ mental health issues/ substance abuse ...FOR SOMETIME BEFORE THE ACT is committed.

Interestingly according to stats while younger people are more prone to attempt suicide older people and especially women plan their suicide for a longer time before committing the act.

Of course exceptions are always there. But SAVVY??? I don't know.

I have no defence to this...I strongly believe giving up on life isn't a way of living it and see suicides as a fools act...I have witnessed ppl do unexpected things when depressed...something totally out of the way for their charachters and personalities...!

The bell jar by silviya Plath is one loud example of how depressed people deal with the urge to take their lives...a brilliant poet and writer an woman who is an enigma to a lot of us lived every day of her life watig to kill herself trying to kill herself...the strongest ppl have the most contradictory reactions to certain problems in life!!! One can simply understand human mind...it has its own ways!!

Yes ma must not have taken her life but she couldn't help it...!!

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Seriousreader

@Seriousreader

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#654

Originally posted by: NSB7

I have no defence to this...I strongly believe giving up on life isn't a way of living it and see suicides as a fools act...I have witnessed ppl do unexpected things when depressed...something totally out of the way for their charachters and personalities...!

The bell jar by silviya Plath is one loud example of how depressed people deal with the urge to take their lives...a brilliant poet and writer an woman who is an enigma to a lot of us lived every day of her life watig to kill herself trying to kill herself...the strongest ppl have the most contradictory reactions to certain problems in life!!! One can simply understand human mind...it has its own ways!!

Yes ma must not have taken her life but she couldn't help it...!!

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namratha

@NSB7

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#655

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

😭

I know 😭

Like they say...the result of our actions has immediate effect on the lives of our kids

What we do good is ignored it might affect them but when we go wrong they carry the burden of our misdoings on their shoulders and get crushed under the thrust

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taramira

@taramira

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#656

And if Savvy did commit suicide...then my love for Ranjan has increased manifold because he didn't run away, he stayed put...lived through Rb's severe justice system, nibhaoed all his responsibilities and continues to do so...just as it is becoming of a head of a family. Kudos to him...what say ANU? 😉

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namratha

@NSB7

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#657

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

😭

I know 😭

Its an ugly scenario of hirearchy

The mistakes we commit affect our kids

The good deeds might not bless our kids with happiness always but our mistakes cast dark shadows on their life

The kids carry the weight of our misdoings and wrong choices...their shoulders get slumped under the weight and they get crushed under the thrust

Whatever happened three and half or four years back will remain in R&B Manny and Sam's life forever... Now even II will be sharing the pain

I don't say Ma or Ranjan committed crimes...but the kids weren't given a choice weather the want to face the wrath... They never are!

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namratha

@NSB7

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#658

Originally posted by: taramira
And if Savvy did commit suicide...then my love for Ranjan has increased manifold because he didn't run away, he stayed put...lived through Rb's severe justice system, nibhaoed all his responsibilities and continues to do so...just as it is becoming of a head of a family. Kudos to him...what say ANU? 😉

I agree