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Originally posted by: sanjeevani09
to clear the previous questions u all had raised...
geet has never been in relationship...maan has been. he can understand his feelings more clearly. geet will take time to understand it. she is now also not being driven by love else the fact washroom wud not have irked her... when she will understand she wudnt mind closeness unless someone is watching them. she was not liking the scene being washroom. all romance she is familiar with is movies. this has been mentioned earlier and in movies the man confesses fast. in real life man takes time to confess specially maan...and his past. geet is confused but slowly she will analyse her behaviour and realise she is in love. then she will work getting close to him. she knows him well...now after staying in office she knows much more...im not detailing it as it will slower the pace of story which u all r complaining is already slow...one more thing its just 1.5 years of marriage im keeping track of time...i will mention after some update how much time passed to keep u people aware...any more doubts...plzzz do ask.. i hope now geet's feelings are coming out...next update she will introspect that wud clarify more...
Thank you for the reply. But my main question was not only about her being attracted to Maan, but also about taking progressive steps to further their relationship.
In a general scenario, many women even today get married in an arranged setting and yet work towards working on their relationships with their spouses. Our parents are a set of such people who have worked out their relationships wonderfully to the extent that as kids we have seen nothing but care and love around.
Geet was the one who had a discussion with her friends about giving the relationship a chance. Every step that Maan has taken towards Geet is because of the natural feelings that are arising in him. But Geet had thought of doing the same after thinking and talking it over. Initially we also saw how she couldn't make most of a situation, e.g. coming back from her friend's wedding with Maan, and rectified the situation immediately after Meera made her see the opportunity. But these days she seems to be back to being indifferent again, except the wonderful updates you gave us just.
She seems too set in her ways, resents his presence and hardly ever tries to see any good in his actions and methods. I agree, it was because initially Maan left her on her own and this has made her stay aloof from him. But then she was the one to make a decision to work on her marriage, not Maan. Maan's feelings have been developing naturally without any deliberate thought in this direction. Doesn't such a decision involve trying to understand your spouse, trying to spend time with him, trying to know more about him? It's like she made the resolve to work on her marriage and then conveniently forgot about it.
I know you have written that the next updates will clarify more. It's just that I wanted to let all my doubts out once and for all. Now that I have opened up with you, my head and heart feels lighter. I will wait for the next update and will be able to read it at ease now. Hope I haven't bugged you much😳
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