Originally posted by: DMGFan-2b-not2b
Nicely written!
I thought Anji's part was very logical and well written. As an elder sister, her concern is perfectly legitimate. After 2 months of thinking that maybe the decision to separate was mutual, she has just disovered that Armaan was responsible for the break-up and for what a horrific reason! 😲 Frankly if I were in her place, I wouldn't trust Armaan with a barge pole! 😒
I think, as a concerned sister, she is right in being worried about how Armaan would hold up in the long run, esp when he seems to have a history of hurting Ridhima, but the thing is that everyone has to live their own lives, and learn through their own experiences. So no matter how much she wants to protect Ridhima she needs to respect Ridhima's decisions and let her make her own choices and live with the consequences. 😔
I have a coupel of freinds who have had love marriages - the ride is not all smooth. There are rocky patches incl an instance of the guy cheating, but we women are strange - its either an unwillingness to give up, or immense emotional commitment or maybe the sheer fear of being alone (I suspect a large dose of this one) that drives us to doggedly hold on on and try and make a relationship work.
I dunno if I was in Ridhima's place what would I have done? ? I dunno if its because she is very much in love with Armaan or a habbit that she cant do without, or a fear of not being able to love someone again, or the memories of the time that they had together - but thats not important. If he makes her happy now and she is willing to take her chances, they are hers to take. The only thing she needs to remember is that people's basic nature does not ever change. So this will not be the last time that Armaan will hurt her - its just whether she is strong enough to weather those instances and still continue to love him!
Maybe in the patches that he is normal 😛 the love and care that he obviously has for her would be more than enough to see her through the bad times.. and lets face it - all relationships go through rough times! Thats what makes the good times even better 😉
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