Today Balwant and Veera were disgusting

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I just watched the episode and it was seriously disgusting. The way Balwant carried on? Not ONCE was he willing to accept that Veera was wrong for running against Baldev. Coming between him and his childhood dream. That Manjeet may be a horrible women, but today she DID tell some truths. The part where she asked Veera "What sort of wife are you?" That was 100% justified.


I cant believe this pathetic Veera STILL thinks she was "justified" in running against Baldev, even after he asked her and requested her to stand by him and support him? Had she actually done that, then Baldev would not have fallen into the clutches of those builders more and more and kept listening to any crap they tell him. When a person is down mentally, it is very easy to poison their mind. In his mind, his wife does not support him, so when the builders and even his Mum and Aunt, keep compelling him to see the worst, even when he does NOT want to, he ends up seeing their version.


He was ready to go see Ranvi when he was accused of stealing the song, but Bansuri and Manjeet brainwashed him. ALL of it is based on his belief that Veera does not support him and cares nothing for HIS dreams, and consequently for him! That was always the problem. I cant believe that even NOW Veera is shameless enough to think that NON of this is her fault, or the fault of her Mahaan Poojya Veeraji who "Compelled and convinced" her to run against her husband in an election, when it was her husbands DREAM to be Sarapanch! Disgusting to the max and I seriously found it hard to keep my meal down watching what I did!! What Baldev did by getting Veera disqualified was wrong, that was disrespectful to his wife! But what Veera did, by standing against him in the SAME election? THAT is very respectful towards her husband? Hypocrisy at it's worst!


I am appalled at the message these people are trying to give, that bloody Ranvi and Veera are correct and Baldev is the wrong person! Ranvi and Veera are pathetic selfish and disgusting and they DESERVE everything that has happened to them and more! Sorry for the rant but I am just SO disgusted by what I saw, I could not stay quiet!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Reposting from another post...

What baffles me is that Veera has zero self-introspection...she never bothers to question her actions and the feeling of guilt is unknown to her. She doesn't see that what she did was the single factor that has messed up this relationship, even without considering Baldev's conspiracy. Its galling to think that the entire SS family believed VeeBa's relationship will be absolutely hunky-dory even after Veera submitted her name for the sarpanch post without telling Baldev. If she actually did become sarpanch, what exactly did they think Baldev's reaction would have been?! Understanding, accepting of the fact that his wife had snatched his only real dream since childhood? Honestly even without Baldev doing what he did, this relationship was doomed to fail. If I were in Baldev's position, I wouldn't have cared for all that 'don't mix relations with work' nonsense...i would've left someone who had so little respect and concern for my dreams and hopes! Other than her supposed 'sachawala pyaar', Veera fails in two of the most important aspects of a marriage...trust and respect for her husband. Absolutely disgusted.

I do not want to waste my time commenting on the excuse for a father.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Bang on post!👏

If Veera had actually ever supported him like a wife needs to support her husband (and I do not mean blind support like she gives her veerji) , then he would have never been so vulnerable to the machinations of ManjuSuri and the mall guys. Of course, that doesn't excuse Baldev from being so gullible but it does make Veera share part of the blame as to why it is so easy to exploit his emotions for all these two-faced ppl surrounding him. He is an easy target for them coz whatever they say has a kernel of truth in it.

If Manju was actually a decent person and if she genuinely cared about Baldev and wasn't a spineless loser like Balwant, then I am sure she would have come to dislike Veera for real.😆 Whatever she said today was true!

And why does Bansuri still hate Veera so much? It might have started with the issue of her being an illegitimate child but now it's all about her not being good enough for her son, not treating him well. And Veera is now proving her fears to be right! Bansuri's irrational hate for her turned justified today. If Bansuri had actually left her home after Balwant's threat, than Veera, despite not being a vamp would have done what vamps do - break up homes.👏

You know, sometimes I feel that we shouldn't be so surprised at how Veera and Balwant behaved, when there are actually viewers of the show who think that Veera did nothing wrong and Balwant is justified to treat his son like cr*p. And us ppl who were able to find fault with Veera's actions are misunderstood to be blind Baldev supporters.👏😆

Edited by ...-Riya-... - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Riya:

I admit I like Baldev more than anyone else on this show! Even still I never blind supported him! When he asked Veera to dance in a Dhaba in front of drunk men, I said he went too far! Even if he has PTSD! I still thought that was very unbecoming of him!

But in THIS case, I can see where the giant part of the blame lays! It is with Veera, Ranvi and their family! They are the ones who were insensitive and disrespectful to start with! Now getting the same answer back, they can't handle it! If you can't take it, then don't dish it out! Ranvi should be ashamed of the way he encouraged his sister to run in an election AGAINST her own husband, who's lifelong dream was to be the Sarpanch! It was never Veera's Dream and her running against him makes her look so petty!

I am not someone who believes that only wives need to stand by husbands! Husbands need to stand by wives and support their dreams too! I am a modern women. I am foreigne as well! So I have no pretensions to this "pathi vratha" ideals! But still I would say that in this case, Veera failed miserably as a wife! Had this been HER childhood dream, I am sure Baldev would have supported her! Because he is a guy who does everything for people he loves! In that sense Veera has not done her duty as a wife! A life partner! If you can't expect support from your life partner then who do you expect it from? She cares about the Pind so much? What about the promises she made when she got married? The vows? Do those mean nothing?

Veera let Baldev down in the WORST way! Whatever has come her way, she herself has invited! I have no sympathy for her or for her hypocritical Veerji, or selfish family!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Can't comment because i saw the whole scene but didn't remember single dialogue of this scene just feel balwant were selfish don't know why he want to destroy her daughter in laws life for his son who is duryodhan what balwant feel about his son is beyond my understanding 😵
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Posted: 10 years ago
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We all bash mash and cvs about how stupid they are, but infact they are super clever. The always instigate something by the ss parivaar, whether its veera or ranvi or even someone else and then baldev reacts to these things he will usually do something stupid ( like conspiring against veera) which basically washes away ss parivaar mistakes and because baldevs was the last mistake made he is automatically made to look at fault and the one to apologise.

leaving ss parivaar to get off scot free as usual!!

So mash very clever at shifting blame focus away from them onto baldev
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki36

We all bash mash and cvs about how stupid they are, but infact they are super clever. The always instigate something by the ss parivaar, whether its veera or ranvi or even someone else and then baldev reacts to these things he will usually do something stupid ( like conspiring against veera) which basically washes away ss parivaar mistakes and because baldevs was the last mistake made he is automatically made to look at fault and the one to apologise.

leaving ss parivaar to get off scot free as usual!!

So mash very clever at shifting blame focus away from them onto baldev



Yeah, this is always their "Trick!". But even when they get SS parivar or Ranvi to apologize, why does it always look SO insincere? Like after the fake alcohol drama and then the whole Nihaal fiasco? Always they look like pompous ass's! It never looks real to me!

Yes, always wash away the guilt and crap behavior of the SS family by making Baldev do something dumb, and look like the bad guy! Pathetic!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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First of all balwant shouldn't have made a public spat of d incident...there could have been a better way to handle the situation... And veera too dint seem like she felt bad that ballu went away... Her reaction seemed too fake...
Secondly there is one thing that veera doesn't do is trust ballu.. There is no love without trust... If she trusts ranvi can't do anything wrong then he doesn't do cos he might lost respect in eyes of her sis.. Same way if she had trusted ballu can be a good sarpanch or rather he won't do anything wrong then to save his respect in her eyes he would have proved himself.. But she dint give him that chance.. She made him feel that his dream will be snatched away and made him turn ruthless ...
Something similar happened to gunju in preg track.. Wen ppl feel that they want something and it is getting snatched away then they lose the sense of thinking right or wrong...

Lastly ranvi too dint deserve to win singing competition.. He won and dint use that winning to his profit which someone else would have done ... He wasted someone else opportunity.. But did veera see that?? NO... Its always gundev whose aspirations are always pressed down and dug into earth in name of bad or wrong by ranveera.. Really I hate this bro sis obsession for only eachother and don't care for anyone else ...



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: NV-ranjanholic

First of all balwant shouldn't have made a public spat of d incident...there could have been a better way to handle the situation... And veera too dint seem like she felt bad that ballu went away... Her reaction seemed too fake...

Secondly there is one thing that veera doesn't do is trust ballu.. There is no love without trust... If she trusts ranvi can't do anything wrong then he doesn't do cos he might lost respect in eyes of her sis.. Same way if she had trusted ballu can be a good sarpanch or rather he won't do anything wrong then to save his respect in her eyes he would have proved himself.. But she dint give him that chance.. She made him feel that his dream will be snatched away and made him turn ruthless ...
Something similar happened to gunju in preg track.. Wen ppl feel that they want something and it is getting snatched away then they lose the sense of thinking right or wrong...

Lastly ranvi too dint deserve to win singing competition.. He won and dint use that winning to his profit which someone else would have done ... He wasted someone else opportunity.. But did veera see that?? NO... Its always gundev whose aspirations are always pressed down and dug into earth in name of bad or wrong by ranveera.. Really I hate this bro sis obsession for only eachother and don't care for anyone else ...





I think we once discussed this? Like when will we see Ranveera cheer for Gundev and THEIR dreams? Never is the answer I guess!! This was Veera's chance to support Baldev and "Influence" him in her own way by standing with him! Then he would not have the ear of those sick builders or those hags in his house so much! But Veera by deciding to stand against him in the elections. (Her own husband), took away any chance of him ever listening to her. She screwed up SO bad this time, but still doing the "I didnt do anything wrong!" Jaap. She is honestly a damned fool and blind to the max! Such a hypocrite to expect Baldev to support her, when she herself has not supported him, even when he REQUESTED it! How trashy is that?


Yes Ranvi wasted his win! Can Veera see that? NO. She is too busy finding fault with her husband. She is too busy crying over Gunjan and her issues to see what is going wrong in her own marriage. It's always about Veerji, his marriage, his child, his dream, his career! WHEN will it be about her, and HER husband and family? The way she has acted is beyond pathetic and what she got is what she deserves! Nothing less!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mother knows best, they dnt say it without a reason, Baldev did a huge mistake by marrying veera against his mother's choice and he is paying the price and would pay it till he dies😭
No matter what reasons but Bansuri was always right about Veera and though manjeet is negative her views regarding veera are 100% true
And this show is disgusting now, its giving wrong messages and spreading hypocrisy 👏 shame n the writers😡 actually the previous writers were better they didn't shw this much of hypocrisy the new set is utterly disgusting only throwing blames at Baldev using his pain for trps and then yash has the audacity to credit ranveera🤢

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