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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lurve_life


Peach when a person apologises we do not start counting that person's sins but accept it in the spirit it is offered. That's all I am trying to say here. But may be you guys are different.




yupp, we read a request as a request. not exactly the kind to mock, pull down other fan groups in a post, then start with damage control and when given a mod note, apologize in another post.

also, walking the talk is more important than mere words. the user's further posts would have indicated that instead of yet another thread.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lurve_life


Sarcasm not required here sweetheart. You did write request in the end. But blv me read the whole thing again and you will realise it looks more like a rant. Anyways, I didn't mean to be rude or otherwise but cudn't see my friend who is humbly apologising insulted again without any reason.


Wow, so you replied to me without even reading my post properly.
Even after reading my comment properly you did not understand the what I was trying to say. I was explaining to her why I felt bad about her post. She might have written it innocently but it affects people differently when it is about Real people.
Look at your own reaction/tone even when I have not mentioned or made a funny comment about your friends or Rachana.
Its something to think about and requested her to do the same in the future when she posts.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: style14


Wow, so you replied to me without even reading my post properly.
Even after reading my comment properly you did not understand the what I was trying to say. I was explaining to her why I felt bad about her post. She might have written it innocently but it affects people differently when it is about Real people.
Look at your own reaction/tone even when I have not mentioned or made a funny comment about your friends or Rachana.
Its something to think about and requested her to do the same in the future when she posts.


Style I did read your comment and I did mention it looked like a rant to me. By merely adding request in the end does not make it a request. Also, if u read my comment I was not being rude but u percieved it that ways. I am still being polite but your tone again is of a person ready to fight. Please carry on.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: peachesnplums

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yupp, we read a request as a request. not exactly the kind to mock, pull down other fan groups in a post, then start with damage control and when given a mod note, apologize in another post.

also, walking the talk is more important than mere words. the user's further posts would have indicated that instead of yet another thread.



@bold, means if you feel that you hurt someone and apologise, that doesn't mean anything at all? be it after mod note or earlier? does that means you are doing damage control?

If i remember from the original thread, she cleared well what she meant from that post as it was getting interpreting differently. Still she apologized, that shows a good heart😊..




Edited by Shyamlu - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's great to c sum Pr loyalists in forum, I see none of u have lost the fire great. Asha will soon win the hearts of EMA fans, I might have despised her in PR ( I'm an Ovi fan) but the is no denying she's a terrific actress
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lurve_life


Style I did read your comment and I did mention it looked like a rant to me. By merely adding request in the end does not make it a request. Also, if u read my comment I was not being rude but u percieved it that ways. I am still being polite but your tone again is of a person ready to fight. Please carry on.


You think you are being polite.
You have made your own assumptions from my post and I do not wish to argue with that. I wrote what I felt.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shyamlu



@bold, means if you feel that you hurt someone and apologise, that doesn't mean anything at all? be it after mod note or earlier? does that means you are doing damage control?

If i remember from the original thread, she cleared well what she meant from that post as it was getting interpreting differently. Still she apologized, that shows a good heart😊..


No one has mocked the TM or her apology dear. .
She posted innocently and I replied to make her understand my stand. May be she and I will have a nice discussion in the future, who knows.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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First off I didn't do damage control. Another thing I didn't apologies because of a mod note. I was going to post on that thread but it wouldn't let me. Another thing I wasnt trying to offend anyone. But if u want to fight it's ur perogative not mine. I didn't think that some ppl take things way to seriously.
Edited by sunyy - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oh sweetie why u aplogizing u just said the truth
Regardless people will always hate. We just have to ignore
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunyy

First off I didn't do damage control. Another thing I didn't apologies because of a mod note. I was going to post on that thread but it wouldn't let me. Another thing I wasnt trying to offend anyone. But if u want to fight it's ur perogative not mine. I didn't think that some ppl take things way to seriously.


Just leave it dear. It depends on person's perspective. I have never liked many members commenting and discussing Ashish's decision to exit or not. But I always understood that its their frustration and also expectations from him. But I have never made hue and cry over it as everyone is entitled to their opinion. And moreover its really difficult to judge any written statement with regard to exact emotions.

Just enjoy your time here.

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