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So here I am listing my own thoughts regarding the idea of love from the perspectives of Kalpi VS Porky I am so tired of watching Ra---Khi nonsense scenes and how they are making a mockery of the word love in these scenes. If it truly is Ra---Khi in the end (which I believe is a NO), this show has made a joke out of the idea of true love...
Kalpi's love vs Porky's ''love''
1) When kalpi dreams of raghav, she sees him happy and smiling (I recall a scene when she dreams of him playing with children and looking so happy). When Porky has dreams of Raghav they revolve around physical intimacy (basically her own happiness/ desires, and nothing about Raghav's wellbeing)
2) Kalpi is wiling to put in the trust in Raghav and wait for him for a year despite him living under the same roof as another woman. This is not easy. This only is achieved through immense trust and maturity. VS Porky trying all stupid ways to win a heart which is not even hers to begin with. the scarf falling incident yesterday was just too stupid. how can someone become so happy and hopeful after something so ridiculous and insignificant?
3) In true love you dont demand your rights. They are yours without utterance of any words. Raghav opening front door of car for Kalpi shows that only she has haq to the front seat of his heart. Kalpi has never had to demand for her ''haq''. Porky on the other hand, keeps shouting, talking about and demanding wife ka ''haq'. nobody demands wife ka haq or true love. it is not a toy to demand for.
3) Kalpi has had numerous open heart conversations with raghav (about his mother, his childhood, their discussions about their economic differences). these are mature intelligent emotional conversations. Now name me one intelligent and emotionally mature conversation between porky and raghav? none. coz porky and emotionally mature/ intelligent should not go in the same sentence.
4) porky using ways such as cooking and bringing food for raghav, wearing nice nice sarees and doing all these 18 century things to win over raghav. is this they way to a man's heart? rubbish pls.. VS kalpi who does nice things such as cooking for raghav only after getting to know him well and to start building a relationship with him. please stop showing young girls/ women that cooking and wearing nice saree means a husband that dont love you will somehow love you.
5) Porky's dialogues sound lik raghav is an obsession, a thing that she has to win over from kalpi. And there is also no self-respect in thinking that there are ways to win over someone's heart and make them forget their true love. it is pure selfish obsession.
end of long rant. porky's portrayal of love is very immature and hence there is no emotional connection or pity we can feel for her. instead it becomes highly irritating to watch this mockery of ''love''.
kalpi's love is mature, strong and full of powerful trust.
these are reasons enough why true love (ragna) should triumph over teenage kind of crush (ra---khi). and i sincerely hope it does.
Kalpi's love vs Porky's ''love''
1) When kalpi dreams of raghav, she sees him happy and smiling (I recall a scene when she dreams of him playing with children and looking so happy). When Porky has dreams of Raghav they revolve around physical intimacy (basically her own happiness/ desires, and nothing about Raghav's wellbeing)
2) Kalpi is wiling to put in the trust in Raghav and wait for him for a year despite him living under the same roof as another woman. This is not easy. This only is achieved through immense trust and maturity. VS Porky trying all stupid ways to win a heart which is not even hers to begin with. the scarf falling incident yesterday was just too stupid. how can someone become so happy and hopeful after something so ridiculous and insignificant?
3) In true love you dont demand your rights. They are yours without utterance of any words. Raghav opening front door of car for Kalpi shows that only she has haq to the front seat of his heart. Kalpi has never had to demand for her ''haq''. Porky on the other hand, keeps shouting, talking about and demanding wife ka ''haq'. nobody demands wife ka haq or true love. it is not a toy to demand for.
3) Kalpi has had numerous open heart conversations with raghav (about his mother, his childhood, their discussions about their economic differences). these are mature intelligent emotional conversations. Now name me one intelligent and emotionally mature conversation between porky and raghav? none. coz porky and emotionally mature/ intelligent should not go in the same sentence.
4) porky using ways such as cooking and bringing food for raghav, wearing nice nice sarees and doing all these 18 century things to win over raghav. is this they way to a man's heart? rubbish pls.. VS kalpi who does nice things such as cooking for raghav only after getting to know him well and to start building a relationship with him. please stop showing young girls/ women that cooking and wearing nice saree means a husband that dont love you will somehow love you.
5) Porky's dialogues sound lik raghav is an obsession, a thing that she has to win over from kalpi. And there is also no self-respect in thinking that there are ways to win over someone's heart and make them forget their true love. it is pure selfish obsession.
end of long rant. porky's portrayal of love is very immature and hence there is no emotional connection or pity we can feel for her. instead it becomes highly irritating to watch this mockery of ''love''.
kalpi's love is mature, strong and full of powerful trust.
these are reasons enough why true love (ragna) should triumph over teenage kind of crush (ra---khi). and i sincerely hope it does.
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