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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: dimpleagar

Yes...I do support n connect with present Kalpi completely...
She is still strong...She never deviated from her character n morals..
She wholeheartedly loves Raghav n respects her parents too..
she always says pakhi as one among them n kalpi is not at all selfish lyk pakhi..

I agree with u she is still very strong...Do any us have a guts 2 say to d lover dat she vl wait for her lover for 1 year and till than dey cn't meet bcoz her parents r against their relation...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes I m able to connect with few epi u can't judge her it's just only a huge up and down of her life it is saying very easy that she should forget the person whom she loved a lot and already accepted as her husband it is also not that easy for in this husband stealer and vamp is pakhi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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u r ri8 bt for dt dumbo i hv nothing,, yess i m girl n i wont allow a man to enter in my life who already married ,, or how much i love him i wont forgive bt dt feelings cant be change yarr,, n here dt feelings both hv,, he only love her,, not only in serial der r so many couple married like dis n suffer,, dis kind mrg cant b succeed,, n kalpi of course a ambitious girl n wont forget dt bt she loves him, n she has personal life ,, personal life n professional r diff ,, i dont want to think abt cvs dey r dumb head,, bt yess i connect wid her both shade lover n ambitious ,, coz she is doing her job fantastically
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Posted: 11 years ago
#14
@ innocent hi to you too
Thanks for your POV..
According to me, poo and Kalpi's relation has not been clearly defined,except in the first few episodes. The swimming comp, exam challenge, her bringing Raghav over to Poos house for Kamal's sake, her hurt at Kamala not acknowledging her role in saving the chawl...till she joined the office it was clear. She always saw Poo as an usurper of her mother's love. Any action of concern for Poo was oly to win her mother to her side.

Somewhere along the line, this clarity was lost. She was shown as softening towards Poo. or at least I presumed so. If you didnt like a person, you sure would avoid a shopping with her or spending lunchtime with her. The other instance was when she forced Raghav to come for her party stating Poo was apni...this did not conform to the old Kalpi.

But maybe now she has gone back to being indifferent to paakhi. That I can well accept..but her being blinded by Raghav's love irks me.

As for your reasoning beind precap,lol. Hope auntyjis live up to ur trust

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: chahat4u

Maybe what u r trying to say is true to some extent. But I don't agree completely. Kalpi hasn't still forgotten her career. tell me one thing, if a person has a recent heartbreak, or has almost lost his love, or worst still, Kalpi knows that Pakhi never had anyright on Raghav, Raghav was always his, but still she has seemed to lost him, then will that girl's heart not pain, does she not have a right to shed tears r be sad for even a week or month? heartbreaks are not easy to deal with! Especially when that some one is Kalpi, who has nothing but love and understanding to give to all those whom she loves. She understands everyone's view point. But how many even tried to understand hers? It was Vitthal yes, who gave him the love a princess deserves, but even he was often shown to be weak in front of Kamla. Could he ever stop Kamla from giving away to Pakhi what always belonged to Kalpi first? Kamla's time, or pen, or anything, or love? No, a few rants aside, he could not do anything. Kalpi always sacrificed everything for her parents, and Pakhi's love. But now,she finally found some one, with whom she feels complete and at peace with herself. But that too was snatched away from her!


The thing is, Kamla telling Kalpi to forget Raghav, has all the wrong reasons. It maybe because she doesn't want Kalpi being second, but its more because she feels Pakhi deserves Raghav more now. Her whole focus is wrong again. So, how and why can Kalpi give away or sacrifice the one thing which she earned for herself, Raghav's love, Raghav. which was never Pakhi's in the first place!

you know, when a person is heartbroken or in pain, he or she hardly is in her/his own rational senses! This is what is happening with Kalpi. But still, she managed to maintain a balance between her heart, her love and the rational thing. asking Raghav that they'll not meet for one year! She even went to give an interview. She is trying to live her present happily. But that doesn't mean she'll forget all the love, all the pain, and all her rights, so easily! I see nothing wrong! I will be happy if both the Ragna track and Kalpi going for her career r shown simultaneously.

The way I see it, her character is not being ruined, in fact for the first time she is standing up for her rights, for herself, not going for what others' expect from her. n for this, she hasn't till now sacrificed her self-respect, or her career! Rest, don't know hoe future tracks r shown. But I never wanted Kalpi to be traditional sacrificing heroine!


Thanks chahatfor your POV...but the common ground we are on ,is we do not want her to sacrifice her self respect
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Posted: 11 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: bhaironnath

@ innocent hi to you too

Thanks for your POV..
According to me, poo and Kalpi's relation has not been clearly defined,except in the first few episodes. The swimming comp, exam challenge, her bringing Raghav over to Poos house for Kamal's sake, her hurt at Kamala not acknowledging her role in saving the chawl...till she joined the office it was clear. She always saw Poo as an usurper of her mother's love. Any action of concern for Poo was oly to win her mother to her side.

Somewhere along the line, this clarity was lost. She was shown as softening towards Poo. or at least I presumed so. If you didnt like a person, you sure would avoid a shopping with her or spending lunchtime with her. The other instance was when she forced Raghav to come for her party stating Poo was apni...this did not conform to the old Kalpi.

But maybe now she has gone back to being indifferent to paakhi. That I can well accept..but her being blinded by Raghav's love irks me.

As for your reasoning beind precap,lol. Hope auntyjis live up to ur trust

My reasoning behind the precap came well the new promo which aired today back it up!! Looks like she has accepted defeat and is ready to live like a zombie! So there we go- more mahaanta, and this will be a moment where I will not be able to connect with her.

Anyways, I yet again disagree, Pakhi and Kalpana's relationship has been well defined per me and that began right from their childhood days! Just because we got scenes of them being cordial with each other, it didn't mean that they were heads over heels in love with each other and that they would be thoughtful of each other's sentiments. Pakhi depicted that to perfection after it was brought to her attention that her husband loved Kalpana and that he had ditched her to marry her, no remose no nothing except one line of you destroyed our lives!- So I believe that showed that for Pakhi only Kamla mattered and not Kalpana's feelings and like with Kalpana, Kamla's feelings matter not Pakhi's! (And this has been a common thread throughout the show- which is precisely why I did not quite comprehend that argument that I had highlighted in bold in your main post.

Remember, the apni dialogue came after Vithal had blasted Kamla for agreeing to go to a party organised by Neetu, and Kalpana tells Raghav her parents an argument over it, so they best agree to go. It was not done to make Pakhi happy by Kalpana, it was done to keep Kamla's feelings.


But anyways, I havent stopped connecting with her per se, but who knows what the makers will make of her character being in mind how badly Raghav has been butchered!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: bhaironnath


Thanks chahatfor your POV...but the common ground we are on ,is we do not want her to sacrifice her self respect


hmm. so mayb u r happy now?Kalpi ll forget Raghav, n move on! 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just loved ur post... ur thought and views... actually looked for it so that I could say this...
I always look forward to reading ur posts
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Love does make u blind!! Here is my take on her agreeing on the whole 1 yr thing- Kalpi knows for a fact that Raghav loves her and not the other girl; Kalpi is aware that Raghav has disclosed the motive behind the marriage too;as for khi suffering -Kalpi knows that Raghav n his mom will not any "harm" khi in any way...but where Kalpi is mistaken is that she didnt realise the extent to which khi is deluded...Kalpi must hav stressed on the not meeting each other cos in her heart she is hopin Rags discards his plans ASAP and come back to her!! As for handling khi, it is not her problem- the onus lies on Raghav to make khi understand and there is our mother India to the rescue also!! Now, Kalpi is only bothered abt soothing her aching heart...why bother abt others...if u want to call this selfish, go ahead...but for me it is basic human nature!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelpureness

I just loved ur post... ur thought and views... actually looked for it so that I could say this...

I always look forward to reading ur posts


Thanks angelpureness. Very very nice of you

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