Rahav or kalpi -was anyone at fault?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ok there were a lot of posts following yesterday's episode as to why Raghav behaved so.Many thought and I, sincerely hope too, that he was trying to solve the result fiasco.But ,at some corner of my mind is the nagging thought that he did develop cold feet at the nth hour.He is a person with a lot of emotional baggage and has only started the process of unloading it to Kalpi...call it emotional therapy.Who better to understand this than Kalpi?He had fought his demons and had taken a major step in trusting someone.He had opened his narrow world to include her...but what did she do...she wanted him to include her whole family.That must have been an awkward moment for him.Love today and meet the parents tomorrow.Kalpi should have given him a little more time,i feel ,to get adjusted to the concept of love and to understand that to have Kalpi in his life forever,he would have to accept her family as well.So ,in a way his not turning up at the nth hour was justified.But what was wrong, was him not informing her of his fears ,his insecurities or even for that matter any reason for not turning up.Switching off his phone and making her lose face in front of her mother was just not the right thing to do...probably you cannot change your basic nature too much even for the person you love.[remember her tweet]
As for Kalpi,she took a long time to accept her love ,but when she finally did she fell hard and there was no turning back.Raghav should have realised that with the type of upbringing she has had she will probably think of long term commitment and will not be comfortable with being his girlfriend.After all he knows her dream and it is for her family.So he should have gauged how her family too would be involved.{the longer u take to confess ur love the deeper it becomes]exactly describes Kalpi.She has fallen really hard and even in that moment of grief ,she understood his pain and worried for him
So the need to sort it out lest we fans go mad.On a lighter note,CVs are making us lunatics either with Ragna romance or with MU.I prefer the former anyday.Hope it is settled quickly for our good health

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kalpana wants to show her mother that the person she loves is the right person for her so she told Raghav to come meet her family.
Meanwhile, I think Raghav wouldn't back off or hurt Kalpana intentionally. Both of them are right in their own way I guess.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Naa re.. this whole matter will be stretched over weekend..!!! It won't be till monday that rags lands up in chawl..!!

See.. the thing that CVs are tried to do is show us that he had cold feet with the dialogue, it's tougher then attending international conference and at the same time..! But somewhere.. he did say majboori.. must be due to results ka fiasco.. as audience we can guess...

And Kalpi... herself didn't know she would be so quick, it's just that shaken faith of Kamla which made her tell about rags..!! o.w. she wound't have ever opened up to kamla.. yet..!!

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