Reasons and Justification, of Trust Vs. Love..!! (my previous post..) - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShanUlas

just coz of kamla maa fears and monologue and conversations with vithal and the way kalpi is deliberately hiding things from kamla does make me think on lines same as u

dont know what cvs have in store as we will know it today


but one thing i am quit sure raghav kalpi relationship will come out in a reall dirty way bringing embarrassment to kalpi and kamla ...even though kalpi will have no fault and raghav too will take kalpi side and whatever will happens between them will always be love and only love


what u r thinking now i have thought quit before and feel ragna r gonna have real test ahead their relationship is sure gonna be questioned and kalpi will be blamed.But best part will be when raghav will stand for her ,though cvs will take enough liberty to torture kalpi first in name of trp



Shana.. I have no issues with this.. Raghav-Kalpi closeness and stuff.. But I do want them to stick together till the end.. and not let any pakhi-prem ruin them..!!
Particularly even that revenge track, gives me blurrness...!!
and funniest part is Shana.. While making any of such post.. I did remember u saying this thing, but didn't put it post, without ur consent..!! See how I was attacked for that.. I had disagreed with u back then.. but we never had that kind of fiction like I had it this time..!!

And.. As long as RagNa are together.. I have no issues.. and for that I want both Kalpi-Raghav to be strong.. even if one goes weak, or loses focus of life.. show is doomed, and so is story lines..
let there be main mission of
Good vs. Bad..
That is..
Sighaniyas and Jadavs Vs. Kapoors.. I would love it.. but this Kamla.. Pissess me off to the core.. except for yesterday when I found her statement too genuine.. particularly when I saw,.. CVs showing Raghav holding Kalpi back for dance.. somewhere I observed he just wanted to hold her at that moment of spree,... 😲
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Posted: 11 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: foram.

hey this is what I was worrying about as if kamla words were for raghav but yes we know how much they both love each other so now no worries...



It was for Sammy..!! Kamla's words were for Sammy.. and how much does she know Sammy to comment good or bad..I dunno..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't take your posts wrong. You are free to express how you feel.
Today's episode with the dance in public, I too felt Raghav should have thought twice before pulling Kalpi towards him like that in Public. He needs to understand that she is a young girl. and she has to behave a certain way in public. Men can always do what they want, but whatever a woman does, especially a young girl like Kalpi, is scrutinised at every turn. Unfair but that is the reality.
I know Kalpi was uncomfortable it was very obvious.

Now, I am even more concerned about how Paakhi might relay this closeness she saw to Kamla.

Otherwise, I am not surprised by how Raghav is in private moments. Raghav is a 32 yr old man. His romance is not going to be that of a young boy. Kalpi is the one who must explain to Raghav what makes her uncomfortable whether in public or private. Sometimes, women have to set her own standards of how she wants to be treated instead of keep waiting for the man to know all the time. Some men either don't know any better or they get so carried away in their own emotions, they lack control. That is where boundaries come in.

What Kamla said was reality. However, it is still in contrary to what she claims to want for Kalpana's life. If she wants her to be successful she must at least be open to her finding a man who matches that success. It makes no sense for Kamla to be saying in one breath that anything is possible for Kalpana then in another breath saying other things are impossible. Sometimes, Kamla can be such a contradictory character.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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sejal this is how it all starts as it has between raghav and kalpi ...me tend to look of physical closeness and.its their way to get emotional satisfaction ...while woman try more satisfaction on psycic level by being more into romance and emotions.Phisaical things normally comes last to them .its their final ,while for men it just starts from there.

thats why man times women feel exploited .

raghav character is being treated on same lines so is kalpis writers know what they r writing , so no complaints to them

as u said so do i want ...whatever happens i want raghav kalpi to be together in same screen passionately together ...be it out of love or hate ...i dont really care...coz whatever it is ,it looks so good and intense on them
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't take your posts wrong. You are free to express how you feel.

Today's episode with the dance in public, I too felt Raghav should have thought twice before pulling Kalpi towards him like that in Public. He needs to understand that she is a young girl. and she has to behave a certain way in public. Men can always do what they want, but whatever a woman does, especially a young girl like Kalpi, is scrutinised at every turn. Unfair but that is the reality.
I know Kalpi was uncomfortable it was very obvious.

Now, I am even more concerned about how Paakhi might relay this closeness she saw to Kamla.

Otherwise, I am not surprised by how Raghav is in private moments. Raghav is a 32 yr old man. His romance is not going to be that of a young boy. Kalpi is the one who must explain to Raghav what makes her uncomfortable whether in public or private. Sometimes, women have to set her own standards of how she wants to be treated instead of keep waiting for the man to know all the time. Some men either don't know any better or they get so carried away in their own emotions, they lack control. That is where boundaries come in.

What Kamla said was reality. However, it is still in contrary to what she claims to want for Kalpana's life. If she wants her to be successful she must at least be open to her finding a man who matches that success. It makes no sense for Kamla to be saying in one breath that anything is possible for Kalpana then in another breath saying other things are impossible. Sometimes, Kamla can be such a contradictory character.



Lol.. Thank God.. I am not the only one, who didn't find RagNa's dance at the end too romantic..!!
And.. on top of it.. I would say, that Kalpi was also uncomfortable.. and more to it was.. that Raghav trying to rule her, It was like completely unexpected and forceful turn of the story..!! He held her hand, He turns her around and holds her from back, He turns and twists her... She was like.. scaredish.. and unhappy


And I respect all those people's view who found it romantic..
To be very honest.. jaisa tha.. even zabardasti.. I enjoyed that whole sequence because more then scared Kalpi.. I was busy seeing Paakhi😆😆😆 I loved it.. I could see How Raghav wanted Kalpi..!! But.. the scene was right after Kamla's faltu sa speech..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShanUlas

sejal this is how it all starts as it has between raghav and kalpi ...me tend to look of physical closeness and.its their way to get emotional satisfaction ...while woman try more satisfaction on psycic level by being more into romance and emotions.Phisaical things normally comes last to them .its their final ,while for men it just starts from there.

thats why man times women feel exploited .

raghav character is being treated on same lines so is kalpis writers know what they r writing , so no complaints to them

as u said so do i want ...whatever happens i want raghav kalpi to be together in same screen passionately together ...be it out of love or hate ...i dont really care...coz whatever it is ,it looks so good and intense on them



How stupid of me.. I had never thought about Raghav's trials of physical needs, I had always viewed him as person who needs emotional security... that yes.. boss.. She loves me too, and his every action was just to get that yes..!! But then.. yesterday, was the first time, I felt.. He wants something more too..!! I had never seen attempting Raghav going too close to her at times.. ANd yes yesterday was confession.. and he was on cloud nine.. I was expecting a lot more.. had Paakhi not come in between.. some more Hugs, and kisses.. even from Kalpi this time..😆😆😆 But as usual.. she is busy shying away.. Even while he was proposing her... She is like sir.. someone will come.. and Raghav's like.. Not Sir.. Raghav..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree kalpi was not at all comfertable she was shocked infact , she did want to dance but not in this forced way ...i feel she will runaway and will even be angry on raghav for grabbing her that way publicly

kalpi does not want to make tamasha of herself ,she has to come next day to office too ...how will she face her colleagues...with paaki its ok she is kapoor she is rich and she is already advertising herself as mrs singhania and people will find it ok as well ...

...but kalpi !!! the girl will be chased like hell ...graduation fail ...still saves sir life on first day...has spend one whole lonely night with him jungle ...boss is going all cozy on her ...matlab kalpi ne phasaya

omg all i can see my poor kalpi in big problem coz of her boss , who will be like ...kalpi why r u scared ...i am with u na !!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Of course their private scenes I love, they are too good. Love this maturity in Raghav's romance, never seen it in tv serials before, not like that!!
They just need to tone it down in public, because besides Kalpi being a young girl, they have a boss and an employee relationship.
I am concerned about how Paakhi will relay this dance to Kamla Ma.

Raghav was so intense with Kalpi while dancing, those looks, I don't know what Paakhi will do later today, but she will be hurting badly when reality hits because nothing will change how Raghav feels for Kalpi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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sejal girl dont tell me u r a fuse bulb like paaki...raghavs expressions were enough to show his physical launging for her ...khood hi badi badi so siggy laga rakhi hai...see at raghav expressions ...and u will know what i mean ...right from first day he has seen her he is like that ...intrigued by her ...his anger has always been his shield against his laungings for kalpi .


even when he stands near he is like dissecting her and scrutinising everything in and out in her

physically touching is too direct , raghav had his own ways to get into kalpi skin, and always covered it with unwanted anger .when truth game he bacame direct but did his best not to discomfort her (though he always did by his words and presences ),,,,,,,,,,,, and after yes ...ab kalpi ko raam bachaye
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShanUlas

sejal girl dont tell me u r a fuse bulb like paaki...raghavs expressions were enough to show his physical launging for her ...khood hi badi badi so siggy laga rakhi hai...see at raghav expressions ...and u will know what i mean ...right from first day he has seen her he is like that ...intrigued by her ...his anger has always been his shield against his laungings for kalpi .


even when he stands near he is like dissecting her and scrutinising everything in and out in her

physically touching is too direct , raghav had his own ways to get into kalpi skin, and always covered it with unwanted anger .when truth game he bacame direct but did his best not to discomfort her (though he always did by his words and presences ),,,,,,,,,,,, and after yes ...ab kalpi ko raam bachaye

hey I agree. I thought m the only one thinking like this and m on wrong track. so never posted about this in forum. 😆

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