i hate u pakhi u ruin everything :( - Page 2

Originally posted by: dreamyjennice

Hey I agree to a bit of what you said purvi...yes..paakhi has a go getter attitude coz she's easily got whatever she wants..she knows no ones gonna go against her wishes..she's pampered a lot..though she says her family ignored her...but she knows that her family loves her so much not yo go against her ever..and will be there for her if she wants to come back...she lives in a dream world and its all onlyabout her likes, her that, her preferences...so obv she hasn't ever seen any difficulties..she never had to fight for any attention and she's always been told that she's princess and no one can stop getting attracted to her..and here is our kalpi...who always has a stern mom..a mom who expects too much from her...a mom who only has one topic to talk to kalpi with ..memsaab...a mom who had slapped her for dancing with other kids her age who got scolded for playing with other kids her age..coz she was always reminded of her mothers dream..she had to sacrifice her childhood many times ..coz she was afraid her mom would stop talking to her...while she saw the same mom laughing and enjoying and pampering an other girlvof same age...and last straw was saving paakhi over kalpi..even knowing that she couldn't swim...and sent back to a hostel coz she worked ad maid ..her mom not even once tried to reason y she did that..she was do furious with that Lil girl who was so scared to lose her mom..kalpi is too low on self esteem..she's too scared coz she's always got the harsh side of people..she's always had to fight for herself...obv she would be hesitant... For paakhi..she has no major aim or need to achieve anything..she knows she will get all with a blink of an eye..but for kalpi..every step she takes is scrutinized..analyses questioned upon...for her itsatter of her life..so I don't see any fault in kalpi..by warning rags..she's actually stopping herself too coz she knows of it backfires or failed she will become lonely forever..with no support by her side...

Originally posted by: dumppurvi

I never said I like Paakhi and I never said she was smart. I said that she goes for what she wants. Clearly I prefer Kalpi, but I am not blind to her flaws. She needs to learn to stand up for what she wants. It does not matter where she is from, she needs to be at least more assertive. I am one of those who voted for Ragna. My post was an attempt to be objective, not bias because I like Kalpi. In my post I said Paakhi was obsessive and annoying so I really don't get where you felt I love Paakhi.😆 Are you new to the forum? Anyone sees my post knows all the bad things I said about Paakhi, I even said she is selfish. Please don't hurt my feelings by calling me a Paakhi fan.[/
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My post wasn't meant 4 u purvi it was 4 edabella n im damn sure she' like more pakhi than kalpi n no im not new although i was silent reader earlier but im regular 2 dis forum n sorry if i hurt u but dat post wasn't 4u u just misunderstood me so al cool i guesd 😳 😉

Edited by aditi37 - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: dreamyjennice

Hey I agree to a bit of what you said purvi...yes..paakhi has a go getter attitude coz she's easily got whatever she wants..she knows no ones gonna go against her wishes..she's pampered a lot..though she says her family ignored her...but she knows that her family loves her so much not yo go against her ever..and will be there for her if she wants to come back...she lives in a dream world and its all onlyabout her likes, her that, her preferences...so obv she hasn't ever seen any difficulties..she never had to fight for any attention and she's always been told that she's princess and no one can stop getting attracted to her..and here is our kalpi...who always has a stern mom..a mom who expects too much from her...a mom who only has one topic to talk to kalpi with ..memsaab...a mom who had slapped her for dancing with other kids her age who got scolded for playing with other kids her age..coz she was always reminded of her mothers dream..she had to sacrifice her childhood many times ..coz she was afraid her mom would stop talking to her...while she saw the same mom laughing and enjoying and pampering an other girlvof same age...and last straw was saving paakhi over kalpi..even knowing that she couldn't swim...and sent back to a hostel coz she worked ad maid ..her mom not even once tried to reason y she did that..she was do furious with that Lil girl who was so scared to lose her mom..kalpi is too low on self esteem..she's too scared coz she's always got the harsh side of people..she's always had to fight for herself...obv she would be hesitant... For paakhi..she has no major aim or need to achieve anything..she knows she will get all with a blink of an eye..but for kalpi..every step she takes is scrutinized..analyses questioned upon...for her itsatter of her life..so I don't see any fault in kalpi..by warning rags..she's actually stopping herself too coz she knows of it backfires or failed she will become lonely forever..with no support by her side...

Originally posted by: dumppurvi

Yes, I understand from the perspective that Kalpi is from a different frame of reference and life has not been easy.

However, remember Kamla is from the same socialisation and she never cared what anyone said, she dreamed big for her children.

Also, there are people like Kalpi who are not as afraid or hesitant.

Remember, I am not only speaking about how she was dealing with Raghav and the colour on Holi, but in general.

She hesitates and becomes hurt when she is left behind, that is the point I am getting at. She expects some things to fall into her lap. Observe her again. I was also specifically speaking about how she deals with relationships. She does it with her Mother, is her Mother forbidden territory like Raghav? No, but she behaves the same way with her Mother. Then when Paakhi takes control she is left weeping. We all know Paakhi is controlling and even wrong, I never ever said she was not. All I was saying is that Kalpi must take some blame too.

there is no use making tons of excuse for Kalpi, when we should be encouraging her to be a fighter, that is all I am saying.