durga shud learn to trust from dev

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Because of one email durga lost all trust on dev...but dev has seen all info about rape case...he can see everything was against payal...yet he blindly trusts payal and nitya...and is even ready to suspect his own family...

dev is a true friend...I wish durga gvs dev one chance to explain...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dev has to prove he is innocent and not involved with his family in this case.
We know Dev trusts Nitya and Payal. Durga does not.

For someone who was deceived and cheated so badly and suffered so much, she is right in being cautious and not trusting any Goenka anymore.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Where was he when she needed him on her side?
why did she have to fend for herself when she had such great friend?
i dont think its because of one email.

plus, he suspected his family but did he really do something about it? isnt that betrrayal in itself?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He suspected his family but did not hv any proof...he was abroad and knew nothing...

and I agree he has to prove himself...but for that he had to know that durga is nitya and she suspects him...he does not know who durga is so to whom and why will he prove himself...

I want durga dev tog bcoz then her revenge will be even more quicker...I want to see shaurya and his parents behind bars...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It was not just the e-mail but what it said. I cannot help you Nitya because I believe my family and am on their side.

That in itself is a betrayal. mind you Dev might not have sent that e-mail but he still sat in USA for two years and did absolutely nothing.

Never used the Internet to get info on what was happening back home, never inquired
from other friends as to the details of the trial.

There are too many loopholes in his story. As a friend who implicitly believed that Payal was innocent then he should have at least tried to move heaven and earth to come back to help his such a close friend.

He did nothing and now after two long years he is lamenting as to where his friends are
and wants to help them. Too little too late.

It will take time for both Dev and Durga to overcome this misunderstanding but how and when it will happen is what makes this show fun to watch.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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From Durga's view: It's not only the email, he didn't come to India to be with his best friend. Durga can doubt that Dev's email is hacked but what about his return? He obviously knew what's going on with his family and Nitya and Payal, yet he didn't bother to comeback.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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durga is right in not trusting dev. he wasn't there when she needed him the most. even if rajnath had a hand in keeping him in usa, dev is a goenka too and a smart one. he should have figured out a way to help his best friend. i don't think a visa problem can last for 2 long years. dev's character should be explained properly.
and how come durga doesn't know sonali and her husband(dev's almost brother)? dev shared a lot of things with nitya. or was she just pretending in front of akash?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do not know how Dev and Durga will come together. But no way should Durga trust Dev or any other Goenka after what has happened.
Dev has to justify himself to audience also. No social networks or Internet either that he knew nothing for 2 years? Did he have no idea about Shaurya's ways that he never warned Nitya and Payal to be careful of him?

Only today it felt like he could think against his family. Otherwise I wondered if he would help Durga in her revenge or hinder it being a Goenka and being easily manipulated to shut up for sake of family name.

Durga need not soften on him unless she knows his reality, distinguished from other Goenkas.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: adoremevirgo

Because of one email durga lost all trust on dev...but dev has seen all info about rape case...he can see everything was against payal...yet he blindly trusts payal and nitya...and is even ready to suspect his own family...

dev is a true friend...I wish durga gvs dev one chance to explain...




It's not just because of one email. It's because of that email and the entire proceedings of the trial with Shaurya walking free and his parents jubilant, and everything that happened in its wake that Durga has lost trust on Dev. Watching her sister, her only living relation go through hell and still do it, having to undergo plastic surgery, and being tormented by memories she cannot seem to walk away from has made her a justifiably bitter person. A trial in which the outcome could have changed if Dev had been there to support her instead of being ten thousand miles away.


It's easy for Dev to trust them because he is going by his gut feelings and he hasn't suffered much of a threat to his emotional, financial or physical security here. Durga is suffering from the scars of his betrayal, her sister's friend's betrayal, the principal, the police chief, everyone who knew the truth but turned a blind eye to it.
These will last long after the scars of her surgery have healed. Also, Dev has not been victimized much by the outcome of the case, just surprised about what happened to Payal and Nitya.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, Dev trusts Payal and Nithya but what good is that trust which is not expressed and which did not lend support at the time of need? It is now after 2 years that Dev has tried to do something. And while it is commendable, as a friend he is wrong to have not at all tried to contact Nitya. The e-mail was not from him but it seems like he never contacted Nitya or Payal at all. It makes sense that Durga would not start to trust Dev so easily.

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