Is shravan really okay with what's happening? - Page 3

Originally posted by: vibg

confused too... in his anger.. does he want Suman to get abused by Adi for the rest of their married life? cause he can't be thaaat stupid.. or Adi to breakoff wedding?

the dhokha he speaks of never happened.. all part of his imaginary world where Sumo is his GF or wife and keeps his bed warm and never says a word😆 none of this will happen in real life!

I want him to go on a deep guilt trip and beg for sumo's forgiveness and learn how to trust because if their is no trust their is no friendship their is no love.

Originally posted by: ice _girl

I guess his angr n hatrd hs blinded him ( bt so much dat he cant see ... does it actually happen in real life ) n no one can see dat she is nt happy like seriously ... Nanu wid whom she is so close n he understands her ???? Nirmala who can see dat chipku is nt fine bt cant see Shraman's xprssns n try 2 gauge anythng ????? ( i thought mothers understood if smth ws botherng d child) Evn Mama n co do nt see ???? N preeti , yestrdy wen she ws talkng 2 Sumo while gettng her ready n askng if she is happy ... does she nt knw evrythng ???? n still askng her ( felt like whackng her ... dhakan) 😡

Originally posted by: sparkle2015

I want him to go on a deep guilt trip and beg for sumo's forgiveness and learn how to trust because if their is no trust their is no friendship their is no love.

Originally posted by: mayasingh

You must be kidding... its suman decision to marry Aditya.. why should SHravan do anything...

Suman is not helpless she could anytime say I don't want to marry him as I don't feel comfortable with him and cannot imagine spending my life with him...

who is shravan to interfere.. he is just a friend... nothing else...

before arranging her marriage no one asked his opinion.. so no one should expect him to interfere...

tell me if any of your friends will come and interfere in your life decisions...

Suman is not confiding inhim so he cannot do anything...

Suman is a independent adult girl.. She should know what is right for her and regardless of family expectations take decision or change it if required...

Its very simple ...

No one can help you if you don't ask for it...

Suman has dug a pit for herself... and I think she is a real coward to not do anything though she knows what is happening is wrong...

She is real coward? Oh what like are you kidding me friend?
Tell me one thing, what would someone do if a his/her's dear one on a dead bed ask for his last wish? I don't think any question of being independent arouses here. It's a sacrifice.

Yes why should shravan interfere? Then tell me one thing why is he interfering in her marriage? Yes you are not a friend to her anymore then why dude? You claim that you want her to be out of your life then why do you find ways to comeback when she means nothing to you? I mean he shouldn't interfere in anything na? He shouldn't keep saying ill about her whenever he feels like that too to her would be husband? If you cannot do any better than why make things even worse?

And yes he was the one who finished and put the end to all of their ties.😊

Originally posted by: puba

The question to be asked is...does he even know who he is? Purana Shravan se naya Shravan ban gaya...he has serious self identity issues! Those need to be sorted first...before he can even judge whether his actions and words make any sense.

I was quite optimisitc thinking that oh...now Shravan has started realizing that Sumo isn't happy and so that was one of the reasons why he said those things to Adi...so he breaks off the marriage...but no...his rage towards his mother and his jealousy towards Adi trumps his so called feelings for Sumo!

Originally posted by: mayasingh

yes he should regret and ask for forgiveness

but I think ultimately Sumo should also thank him to save her from a guy like him... no one did anything and his one action literally got her out of this unwanted marriage and Aditya true colors came out in open...

because she knew something was wrong with this guy and she doesn't even want to talk to him and still was going to marry him...

Aditya didnot deserve that.. She was spoiling her and Aditya both life...

true in that sense. But please how can you say stuff like that for whatsoever reason? And we all very well know what his intentions were behind saying all stuff. He wasn't doing anything to save her from chipku. He did everything to seek revenge upon his mother. And yes what if Adi would've shown his true colors after marriage? What then?

Originally posted by: mayasingh

come on guys.. look at from his point of view... he thinks Suman agreed to Aditya proposal herself..suman has not confided in him ...

she is not sharing her problems with anyone...

How will he know what is wrong with her and why she is doing this... That day when he asked she declined to confide...

She should have trusted him and confided in him and tried to get rid of Aditya with his help...

She is acting like a helpless abla nari.. so bhugto...

She is getting what she sowed...

I am not at all impressed with her stupid Mahanta...

and why Shravan should come and interfere... who is he to do it...just a best friend...right now even not that...

His POV? Like really? How would suman have confided in him when he himself told her that everything is finished between them? Don't you remember the PCT incident? The truth is shravan can be easily influenced by people. For any relation trust is the most important thing. And he never fully trusted her. And this is not about being a abla naari its about choosing your dear ones happiness over yours who by the way is almost on the death bed.

And again isn't he already interfering in her marriage?

Originally posted by: mayasingh

come on guys.. look at from his point of view... he thinks Suman agreed to Aditya proposal herself..suman has not confided in him ...

she is not sharing her problems with anyone...

How will he know what is wrong with her and why she is doing this... That day when he asked she declined to confide...

She should have trusted him and confided in him and tried to get rid of Aditya with his help...

She is acting like a helpless abla nari.. so bhugto...

She is getting what she sowed...

I am not at all impressed with her stupid Mahanta...

and why Shravan should come and interfere... who is he to do it...just a best friend...right now even not that...

Originally posted by: vibg

@She is acting like a helpless abla nari.. so bhugto...

so, she deserves to be raped and be a ping pong ball between two step brothers?

if you know anything of Indian culture, you'll know girls are taught to sacrifice from an early age. suman hasnt' lead a life on "bed or roses" either. woh apni mama mami ke aisaane ke tali dabi hai, which we have seen mami reminds her all the time, plus all the financial she owes them. on top of that nanu on death bed putting pressure on her. Aditya bulldozing a proposal through his mom. in all this Shravan barking at her her, destroying her PCT, not once but twice~!!!! and Raamnath's threat to her... she doesn't want shravan to get hurt again by losing a dad too. she knows his pain... knows more than anyone else. but shravan, sadly knows nothing of her... just builds castle of love in air.. doesn't know first thing about love or the woman he claims to love.

shravan is a blind, obsessed brainwashed angry man who only sees what he wants to see. he claims to love her and all that.. he can't see the pain, the helplessness, in her eyes. Hell.. even chachi told him.. Suman is not happy with the wedding. uski aankhon ki excitement hi chali gayi the dude is still clueless and only thinks of his ego, his hurt.. and how Adi challenges him. he himself has seen how Adi has been taunting Sumo... but dumbo only sees Adi as Nirmala's son😡

as for Shravan interfering.. that's all he does.. he is a master of that! if he wants to stay away, why get involved with wedding preps and appear all mahaan to nanu and other relatives?

BANG ON! 👏 Couldn't have said any better.

I second u gal 🥺
For time being I just don't find him to be Shravan... the Shravan we love so much!!!
Infact I am thinking if I should stop watching it as of now!!