MJ is not in love with Radha

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey guys,
This is my take on what all those emotions and that FB scene in last night's episode meant. Everyone in this forum is going crazy which is understandable considering how strongly we feel about Mriara but hold your horses before jumping to the conclusion that there is in fact some romantic feelings between Radha and MJ.
I DON'T THINK THERE IS AND HERE ARE MY REASONS FOR WHY:
1. MJ has said that Tara is his 'moti' and her presence in his life has brought some hope and happiness.
2. He also said that he has never felt this way before and that his whole day is spent thinking about her. Now I'm no expert but people only really think about a person constantly when they fall in love properly for the first time. Based on the countless hindi serials on tv, we see that whenever two star crossed lovers come together, it's always something extraordinary where the hero and heroine are always meeting and thinking about one another - So far the only FB MJ has had about Radha is the negative coloured one and the new one where he's trying to grab what she took away from him in the dark room. This isn't enough info for us to assume that he 'loved' her.
3. As for his flashbacks of Tara, he always sees her smile, her little nok jhoks and her pleas to convince him to help her in her mission to save him. Whenever he sees these FBs, he always demonstrates a range of emotions in contrast to when he sees Radha's FB where he only experiences pain. This to me is an indication that Tara brings out all sorts of emotions and feelings in MJ which makes him human but with Radha's memories, he becomes almost beastly and destructive. True love makes people want to change for the better and not regress into a state of self-destruction. He wants to live for Tara but at the thought of Radha, he feels as though he deserves to die.
4. He has already demonstrated that he would go to any lengths to protect Tara and ensure her happiness even if it means that he would have to stay away from her. That day when Tara broke down in front him, he really wanted to comfort her and just give her a tight hug but she couldn't bear the pain. When he got shot, she was the first person he thought of. When she told him that she was being targeted by an eunuch, he pulled her to his chest and told her that as long as he was there, nothing can happen to her.
But what did he do for Radha? He took the blame for someone else's crime instead of exposing the real culprit. If he loved Radha then wouldn't he have tried to get justice for her? He would go to any lengths to protect Tara but in Radha's case he remained silent and protected the culprit - that's not love my friends.
5. MJ's expressions after finding out that she is alive was one of anguish that this whole time he had been suffering for no reason. He also displayed sadness at the fact that he didn't believe Tara when she was talking about Radha being alive. Now someone pointed out that MJ had a small smile on his face when Tara was talking highly of MJ and I saw it too! Do you guys remember when he wore that red kurta and Tara praised him? He was over the moon over that compliment because he cares about what Tara thinks of him! When do people care what others have to say? When they hold a special place in our lives.
6. Most importantly, MJ said that his memories with Tara would help him in sustaining his life in jail where he'd be happy knowing that she was safe. Before he got married to her, he used to sketch Radha and be consumed in those sad memories of her which indicates to me that he was feeling guilty and remorseful about what happened. But with Tara's memories, he feels loved and trusted. Where there is trust there is love and he followed Tara to Kaka's place because somewhere deep down he trusted what Tara had to say. After that revelation I doubt MJ will trust Radha or Kaka considering how they hid themselves from him and put him on death row so definitely no chance of any feelings of love between MJ and Radha.
This post was made in an attempt to pacify you guys and to convince everyone to think positively :)
Idk if everything made sense on this post but hopefully you understand my POV. As always, your thoughts are much appreciated so don't hesitate in leaving them behind. Hope everyone has a lovely day!
Shegufta xx

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good analysis Shegufta, should arrest the panic!
Agree with all your points.Here are my bits,

MJ always acted as if he was falling in love for the first time and not someone still grieving over lost love.

If he was in love with Radha, the title wouldn't make any sense, as he would have got lots of love from his childhood sweetheart and not thirst for 'ek boond ishq" as he has bee shown.

The characters are named after Hindu Gods and a variant of Siva can't be in romantic love with a variant of Laksmi, who is his sister.😆

Edited by simran_singh_24 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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TFS. ..
I really look forward to read ur post which r eye opener. ... all confusion misunderstanding get sorted after reading ur POV... 👍🏼

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tina_kapoor

TFS. ..

I really look forward to read ur post which r eye opener. ... all confusion misunderstanding get sorted after reading ur POV... 👍🏼

Yaay so glad to hear that! Sometimes I think that I think way too much about this show 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Good analysis Shegufta, should arrest the panic!

Agree with all your points.Here are my bits,

MJ always acted as if he was falling in love for the first time and not someone still grieving over lost love.

If he was in love with Radha, the title wouldn't make any sense, as he would have got lots of love from his childhood sweetheart and not thirst for 'ek boond ishq" as he has bee shown.

The characters are named after Hindu Gods and a variant of Siva can't be in romantic love with a variant of Laksmi, who is his sister.😆

Yeah his mannerisms express that Tara is in fact his first and hopefully will be last love. Haha to me Priyal looks too young to be a love interest for Viraf. She looks more like his younger sister so Radha being a sisterly figure is a more logical thing.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for turning the forum Little positive through Ur Post!!👍🏼

I agree with U..1st the scenes were shot in dark room a clear indication of Mjay being in dark room the place where he lives a dark life...if radha was past lover he wont be living that saddness life...
Radha is not related to its love life..she was teasing him..& Mjay remembering her a how chirpy girl so full of life has to go through so many hardships...she got raped...its a big thing for anyone girl..Mjay was just remembering the girl who has gone through so much...
like remember the person which at her good time...which was full of life...than she had to went through so much...
They were like a love angle types..he wont be remembering that tasveera chot nahi bola karti lines it had some other indication...
the finally the cutting part they just wanted to play with Audience mind...which they did it well !!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks a lot fr ths post
U knw I never felt there ws a love angle in Yestdys epi
Then I thought may b I didnt understand the scne properly 😕

Which gf will shw these type of actions to her Bf😆
Also she ws teasing him,
if they r in love
Why shud she behave like ths to get attention
Def he ws khadoos to her also
Last scnez ..she tuk his stuffs may b Somethng related to Rp
Which he ws trying to get it frm her

Radha will b comfortable towrds MJ & vice versa as she ws there in shekhwat mansion rite fm her childhood days.
There r relations Other than" being in love!"

Reg ur 6th point..I feel it's his guilt tht due to him,Radhas real culprit is nt Getting punished and she didn't get justice,evn in Yestedays monologue to Mariah ..he said 'mei radha Ki gunegar hoon'
Edited by dsnair - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said Shegufta, all your points are so well laid out. They are giving a positive outlook towards mj-radha relation. Feel good reading them. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful explanation...

The girl playing Radha herself has openly informed that there is no love triangle blah blah...we still do not seem to accept her as just a good friend more so like Vasu to MJ. It ends there. The scene was nothing more than that...haste khelte din...just like MJ has been shown to have some fun times with Vasu. So I think folks let's leave it at that.


Edited by ddFan2012 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Word to everything you said dear...👍🏼

I don't understand why people are jumping to conclusions after just one FB. I am 100% sure that MJ and Radha weren't lovers. The FB didn't show them hugging as I said yesterday. The pain in MJ's face as you said was from the realization that he suffered this long for no reason.

And also yesterday in the UC he was wishing if what Tara said was true, because then he will get to live his life with Tara...

I think Radha was someone in the Shekhavat Villa other than Baba, Vasu and Faheem Chacha who was close to him (Meethi only came later on). He is close to Radha, but they are not lovers...

Edited by ItsMe_Ammu - 11 years ago

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