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Posted: 10 years ago
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Radhika's sister is such a dumb girl.

I mean what did she achieved in her life?
One big bump, takes help from lil sis to write love notes to her hubby-------does she even love the man she is with? Than why can't she write something to him by herself?

What was she saying? ---------You will be lonely, if you run after dream.

What about Samaira's parents? Are they not lonely? Aren't Samira lonely? On ecan still be alone in a family with marriage or without marriage. What about Radhika's mother, father---------will they stay alive and die together? Is there a guarantee of that?

Husband can die before wife, or wife can die before husband. Children may go away and build up their family somewhere else. What is the guarantee of staying together even if your life is like Radhika's sis?

She must be jealous of Radhika. Or else why is she doing this? Did she even asked Radhika---------do you love Saral. The boy came proposed----------ladki doesn't have the right to say --------Yes or No.

Bad sister and bad guide. With very low self esteem and very poor brain. Saral's family is rich, he is established. So hubby should be the money making machine to her.

I didn't understand why Radhika even listened to her? 😔


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hmm...yeah I couldn't quite get the intentions behind Radhika's sisters intentions behind just rushing with Saral & Radhika's marriage proposal. It seemed a bit weird that she didn't wait to talk some more with Radhika before passing judgement. I wonder if she just doesn't want to make her in-laws/Saral unhappy with her and that's why she rushed ahead and convinced Radhika her dreams were '2 minute butterflies lol' It's funny because her dream was to get married apparently and so if dreams crash anyway, then so should hers too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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šŸ‘ Bang on post. This is the main problem of our society, they think that girls should have only one dream getting married! Doesn't we have the right to have a individual life like the men? And it's even worse when some youngsters hesitate and scare to speak out for their right to dream. I have come across some women in my life who tried to brain wash other girls to get married and leave their dreams unfulfilled because according to them it is the safe side, why should we need to do a job when their husbands are earning! They just don't understand that it is not about earning money it is about being something...just being you in this male dominating world. That's why, I wasn't surprised when radhika's sister tried to convince her to get married but i was shocked when radhika apparently agreed with out talking to her father or trying to explain him what she really wants from her life. I was like come on girl, this is ur life! U need to speak for it. And u should be the one make ur parents understand about ur dreams and aspirations.

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