Do you support sooraj or feel angry with him? - Page 2

I feel very sad and bad for Suraj..Could he have done something else ? I dont think so..I think its easy to say that he could have done this way or that but when any person is put in a crisis situation ,the first and fore most anyone would think is to protect his family and his members.

Sab TRP ki maaya hai Life. I have only that much to tell. Sandhya can think about country over and above her son, to balance that out now they made Sooraj can think about his mother over and above his son.

@Jaishankar tnanks for your replying. Im sorry I have problem in cluding things so my post always has obscure style, sorry you. I just want to express my thought. Im a fan of your post 😊

You said rightly it is so easy for me to say something about sooraj's sacrifice as I am not in his position, agree. At least, I feel I understand what sooraj is facing. Not only sooraj but anyone is put in that position I think we should take the blame for our parents especially we know that babho didn't mean to harm her son. I oppose the way he chose to do this. And you are right that it is because he lacks of social awareness.

I did feel sooraj and sandhya is in the same position like sandhya in MM and sooraj in the current track. I don't say that sandhya didn't neglect her family for this mission but she has her reason. And Ved's trauma is inevitable for me, only it could be a little slighter if sooraj was stronger and took care of him. Sooraj hides the truth because is he under the pressure of circumstance. Sooraj is sacificing himself for his family but sadly could it make his family happy? I feel so sad for him, it is unfortunate for anyone in this situation.

But I don't agree that duty comes first means you forget your family and just focuss fully on your duty. Sandhya keeps in my that duty comes first means she wants to keep the society is safe and her family is benefited from it too. And it is special job and they have different way to love their families.

Sandhya went for the mission to kill the dangerous terrorist, if she doesn't want to go for this mission and wants to work near home so that she could take care of her family then one day the terrorist came to Pusrka and throw a bomb, then all her family die. Is it the way to care for family?

I don't mean people who have other jobs like teachers or engineer, or doctors are less than sandhya and can't protect their family like sandhya but sandhya work is related to the security of many people, including her family. when she does her jobs well that means she protects her family also.

For sandhya, patriotism and love's for family is one, I don't like the way they stressed sandhya made decision to do mission MM because she had vow to serve her nation, and she love her country so she had to complete it. It would be more beautiful if they showed that she hated terrorist because they wanted harm innocent people, she was worried that the dangerous criminals could throw bomb to Purska, she was scared that they could kill her son , her husband.

I like the way sandhya remembered her parents' accident and hated the terrorist, she said that she won't let these criminal harm her family again and that made her mind focuss on capturing Rakuma. After she became a police officer, the script just says that she is a soilder and she has duty to her family. I don't know others think but sandhya left Ved at home and fake her dead (I would say it is a real dead but she had faith to come back) doesn't mean she is a bad mother.

CVs failed to portray the pain of a mother who goes for a secret mission far from home, but I found some evidence saying that sandhya is not that bad, she tried to save the little kid who is exposed to radiation when it could harm her mission, she was a mother that time, and she also wanted to help the kids go to school even she wanted to adopt the little kid like her son. she was not a bad mother I feel.

That's is what I didn't see in Lalima when she was ready to marry sooraj at first when she din't know he was mad and when sandhya came back.

Now I really feel sooraj should tell to sandhya all as every thing is kind of out of his hand, I worried what he is doing would make evrything worse. But to be honest I still can't find how he could tell to her as he can't expect her compromise, even he hide the thruth fro her becaue he didn't want her to be torn between duty and family too. Even I don't want sandhya to compromise her duty. More than that, I don't think any wife could satnd there seeing her husband kills himself even for her mother. Sandhya loves babho like her owm mother but I feel she could die for babho but couldn't let sooraj die for his mother like this.

If sooraj has to be in jail for 3- 10 years, I could expect sandhya to compromise her duty unless she has any other way which could save the siatuation . but if sooraj has to die, I strictly oppose.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Sab TRP ki maaya hai Life. I have only that much to tell. Sandhya can think about country over and above her son, to balance that out now they made Sooraj can think about his mother over and above his son.

Sandhya went to do her duty thinking Sooraj will take care of Ved. What happened. He turned insane and the child had to support him.

Now Sooraj taking blame for Bhabo thinking Sandhya will be there for Ved. What if Sandhya goes the next time for the country.

It is no longer about SURYA alone. For Sandhya her country is important( above Sooraj and Ved), for Sooraj his family ( that excludes Sandhya and Ved) is important when a choice comes. So with such parents what will Ved do.

Leave being husband-wife, are SURYA being responsible parents. Are they thinking about family as a whole that includes each other and their child, especially their child whose innocent mind is getting scarred again and again by the gruesome happenings.

How will Ved see his parents. Once he knows the truth behind his parents actions. How will the child grow up. Can he ever be secure. Without knowing when will the next trauma land in his lap.

It 's time CVs thought about portraying SURYA as responsible parents also.

@lifeisbeautiful my only sadness is CVs had the potential to show the moral conflicts of a police officer in a much better format. The trials of a police officer's spouse, the sacrifice the family has to give all could have been done in a much touching manner. I had written a FF in this forum last year. And at that time my expectation was the show would beat whatever I had written. They will have many superlative things and situations which I had not anticipated in my story. The joy with which I wrote the FF seems so distant now, because it has been a year since I quit watching DABH. . The show once I loved like anything and couldn't wait 9pm to come.

If Suraj didn't kill Mohit (and I'm sure he didn't), then I do NOT support him at all! Infact what he is doing is extremely foolish and impulsive! If bhabho is responsible, do you think she will be able to live when she finds out about Suraj being hanged for HER crime? It would kill bhabho!

So WHY would he be so foolish to make his beloved Sandhya a widow and his son fatherless??? All for what? For Bhabho who is anyway old now, to die of guilt and shock?!!

@neel-jay, Thanks for your reply. What you said is right. A mother could die for her son, no mother could let her son die for her. To be frank, if sooraj really takes the blame on himself for saving babho or anyone, he is totally irresponsible for his wife and son. But how can he see his mother in jail? even it is not sooraj, anyone put in his position can't handle everything well.