Something Old, Something New

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Something Borrowed, Something Blue.

It was all there today. A much better episode. Everything can be viewed through what we already know.

Something Old : Sandy was forced to speak to Ankur today. She does have family and we were reminded that she has that link. Was Suraj covering all bases? Did he want Ankur on standby for Sandy. An alert. Sandy always says her favourite 'I'll manage by myself' and Ankur knows that. Suraj knows that. We know that. Difference is, Suraj wants her to be protected and looked after.


Something New: Sandy's new life. It hasn't started yet. That first arrival as a bride was just ritual and tradition. The second time, it will be real. She will return to be his wife. When that happens, being bahu will be a firm second priority. Sandy has the advantage of coming back to a house where she knows exactly what to expect. She has survived. Survivor will return. Bhabasa said Suraj will regret this big time and maybe that regret will linger for a while. Bhabo said she will tolerate her bahu as all MILs do. That's true, she will have to. No one is expecting her to be best friends with Sandy. The rest of the Rathis are an indifferent bunch, but will present various knotty problems for Sandy to solve in the future.

I was watching a funeral. The funeral of the old Sandy. The funeral of SV2. It's necessary. Without these dying a death, we won't see a new beginning.


Something Borrowed: Sandy's friends and well wishers. Preeti is the one she mentioned. Preeti is the one Suraj mentioned. That's where they are aiming to go, to Preeti. But here, Chotu and Chaturi, Sandy's newest, most loyal friends begged and pleaded. They understand the SurYa bond better than Sandy and SV2 do. They have cheered and encouraged a one-sided love for months. They have hope that Sandy will succumb one day. Today they shouted at Suraj, reminding him how much he loves her. Even Bhabo, in a desperate attempt to stop the ghar ki izzat spilling into the street, said that Suraj loves Sandy. They were all talking about the real Suraj, but they were talking to SV2.

Something Blue: Signifying faithfulness, purity,loyalty. Love,modesty and fidelity. We have seen glimpses of these in SurYa. We've seen it in them as individuals. What will we see when they are a couple.


Waiting for reset.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely post. I hope too very much that Sandy returns as Suraj's bride this time around. How sweet ❤️will that be?

I noticed something new in Suraj's responses today that seemed to puzzle Sandy as well.. He was talking about thinking with your heart vs your brain. Did he call her stone hearted? What are your thoughts on that Hiral?

Here we are lamenting and wishing that SV1 had used his brain and communicated with Sandy rather than going with his heart and turning into Sv2.But then, that is real Suraj, he is all heart.❤️❤️
Saw tiny little chinks appearing in Sandy's armour everytime someone mentioned Suraj's love for her. Chaturi's Ram Sita reference made her wipe away a tear. Chotu was little Hanuman today, trying his best to safeguard his two favorite people.

Can't wait for our Diya and Baati to be together again...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ah yes dabhdeewani, he put his finger on the nerve. Called her a patthar dil. I think that was accurate. She had to deal with being a wife when she didn't want to be. So she put up this great wall that Suraj had to live with. She was happy to be everything else except his wife. She was just surviving day to day. But it must have hurt him. The D papers finally made Suraj realise that he had maybe hoped for too much. He had given too much and giving is always risky in any relationship. Without any reciprocity, you can't keep on giving. So he snapped. I don't buy this whole, he's doing it for Sandy's good spiel. He's very hurt,rejected. I don't mid him speaking his mind, it's only when he gets into that silent bystander mode and lets his family insult her that I get antsy.
So Sandy heard his hurt today. She doesn't understand it yet, but she knows he's hurt. The cheer squad talking about his love for her will also make her think. In any case, he's going to spell it out for her and tell her how he really feels soon.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent Analysis HiralJi.👏👍🏼 Reading it while taking sip a Bournvita Milk.😆🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Just got home from work...and watched the epi...really an emotional one. and now reading ur analysis...great read as always hiral!!

Nothing really to contribute at the moment...just feel bad for surya...and chotu and chaturi were great today too...

i really did like that suraj called sandy as she is (to some extent...) stonehearted - she needs to realize that she has had put a wall up for all this time - and "like before" isnt gonna work... this will be part of the realization we see in the next few epis i guess/hope...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Not to take anything away from the love Chotu and Chaturi have for Sandy, they are too young to realise what Bhabasa did. They have to let these two go. Let them go, so that they will self destruct and come back to them as new. There's nothing worth salvaging in old Sandy or SV2. By forcing them to stay, everyone will die a slow death watching them.
So I would comfort C and C. Their hope was not in vain.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post, as usual Hiral_Madame 😊.

This is a very interesting point you have brought up. As per the episode, old Sandy and SV2 are dying. I hope that upon their return, they are Sandy- Version 2.0, and SV1.

(Sandy V2 has a real, beating human heart. SandyV1 had one, but nikamma, never worked when she wanted it to! Or should I say, when we all wanted it to. 😆)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hiral, I always, always love your posts, your perspective was excellent. We really did watch the funeral of old Sandy, I cannot wait to see her resurrection and the strength she will return to the Rathi house with.

Excellent episode today, the CVs did a good job, I'm unsure how they will make the leap to confession of love as the promo seems to show, but it will certainly be interesting to watch. This is one of the first episodes in a long time that I watched from beginning to end.

Thanks for your post.👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It was only while writing this that I realised I was waiting for a new Sandy. Beyond that, I don't know what I want. A romantic SurYa? Immediately after ME? That doesn't give me time to adjust. But if that's what happens, then I'll have to fortify myself with some daal baati churma and try not to go weak in the knees.
Lets see. If there are signs that dbc season is upon us, I'll post the recipe and we can all have a dbc party. I mean eat daal baati churma.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post Hiral ...

True, Old Sandhya will be buried and a new one will be brought , same with Suraj, a new relation with new dreams and new understanding and a probably a more stronger support system too

Lets see how this New Sandhya will be compared to the old one , how much she opens up to her partner after confessing , not in reg to intimacy though , how much she will put her thoughts and speak to him , wont want to see all touchy touchy and blushing scenes all the while now though ...


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