HUGE EGO PROBLEM!!! - Page 2

i think ridz has more of an ego problem than armaan
she is the 1 who rejected him when he's told her all ready!
but yeah this is a another reason added 2 ridz's list now
of not tellin armaan

Hey,

@Maha...I kno u r totally heartbroken...by whats going on...the die-hard fans of AR wld never want whats happenning between them rt now.

@Nureat..What I felt was, he was very rt when he had made clear that how degrading cld she be..& even when he came to her home, he did make his point clear, infact he showed exactly what her folly was.But do u think, every now n then making snide remarks...wld make a person like riddhima or any woman to accept the deed & feel sorry, infact there cld be 2 scenarios one,where the person wld start feeling so much degraded, that she wld not be able to stand in front of any1.On the other hand, again when the person is trying to push too hard on her,which mite make her more confused and do actions which wld make it worse & resulting full of remorse & guilt.
I think the next day in the hospital, except for couple of comments which he gave in front of Lovely...he shld have maintained "SILENCE" & Distance which is deadly enuf for riddhima to realise her mistake.The worst of the whole eppy was when he went behind riddhi explaining she wants attention, but infact Armaan himself, who is trying to give her the BIGGEST attention, whether through his pranks,affection,anger or snide remarks...but it is all towards her.Only way to make her feel guilty was enuf for what he sed & maintain distance not keep running around like a child when shown for a Lollypop. 😊 😉

@Shifali & @Numera....now the reason I categorised both into EGO frame, as we all Know And I truly agree with u all, that Ridz has a huge EGO and she love to chant the Sainthood MANTRA.
Nevertheless, Armaan does have it too, think of it, he tried many times to convey his love but whenever he got a Great opportunity something stopped him, and he always ended up in asking about Ridzi feelings towards him.Why... 😕 ,why can't he relentlessly convey...that He loves her dearly, and then ask about her feelings.The little brake which he always had is what I cld define is EGO.If not huge, he did had a teeny weeny bit.That was enuf to not let the love acceptance.Love has to be professed openly & if u have loved truly without any conditions It will be Yours. 😳 😉

@akaur...I was getting a little carried away in the few lines mentioned above...but yes coming back to our Current Track, the lady has one more feather in her cap to avoid Armu & keep us in Vain.

Hope things go good after the BB, Iam sure it wld end as they did in the Movie "DIL" (Aamir & Madhuri)...and we wld see traces & tokens of a feeling called "Love" developing in Dr.Riddhima.

😳 😳 😊

Ash.

well it's the story of the movie DIL.
madhuri and aamir were at loggerheads in the movie
it was only after the boxing match when aaamir refuses to kiss madhuri that she falls in love with him.
here the only difference is that instead of boxing match there is a basket ball match. in Dil also, aamir has to kiss madhuri if he wins.
same situation is there in dmg also

i hope u'll all agree with me

i dont think armaan went too far with his comments actually...what ridz did was really really cheap...i have never been a fan of her anyway and never really liked her acting performance - its not at the same level as armaan, armaan is EXCELLENT in acting so i've always thought a better actress was needed so both have acting skills at the same level besides her moving her eyes all the time thing i always thought was quite annoying but after seein what she did i dont like watching ridz in that show but otherwise its a great show overall!

and another thing..ridz seriously has a huge ego problem right from the starting of the show which is another negative point of her character..i mean i would like to see a show where the lead actress is all sweet and nice and innocent not all attituded like her character is

Originally posted by: ashvez

@Nureat..What I felt was, he was very rt when he had made clear that how degrading cld she be..& even when he came to her home, he did make his point clear, infact he showed exactly what her folly was.But do u think, every now n then making snide remarks...wld make a person like riddhima or any woman to accept the deed & feel sorry, infact there cld be 2 scenarios one,where the person wld start feeling so much degraded, that she wld not be able to stand in front of any1. I understand what you're trying to say. But Riddhima would test the patience of a saint, and Armaan at last showed that he was but human. Her reactions have been immature and juvenile in the past as well...but sometimes, things go too far! and this was precisely one of those times. It is not Armaan's responsibility to make her feel sorry...he is basically trying to just hold up a mirror and show her the magnitude of her actions. And the way he is going about it is the most realistic way that I can imagine. Riddhima needs to grow up, period. It is not the responsibility of ppl around her to act in the best possible way suited to her all the time. That's not how the world works. Yes, he may be pushing hard...but for a person like Riddhima who basically seems to possess very thick skin, extremes are needed in order to give her a wake up call to emerge from the bubble she's built around herself. On the other hand, again when the person is trying to push too hard on her,which mite make her more confused and do actions which wld make it worse & resulting full of remorse & guilt.
I think the next day in the hospital, except for couple of comments which he gave in front of Lovely...he shld have maintained "SILENCE" & Distance which is deadly enuf for riddhima to realise her mistake.Agreed completely!!The worst of the whole eppy was when he went behind riddhi explaining she wants attention, but infact Armaan himself, who is trying to give her the BIGGEST attention, whether through his pranks,affection,anger or snide remarks...but it is all towards her.Yes, he did run after her...but I felt a distinct difference in his giving her the attention this time....I personally felt those snide remarks were well deserved. Riddhima needs to be jolted big time out of her moral superiority complex. Only way to make her feel guilty was enuf for what he sed & maintain distance not keep running around like a child when shown for a Lollypop. 😊 😉 AAh, we'd all LOVE to see that....but I don't think the creatives will reward us with that soon....cuz they don't seem in a hurry to resolve the AR issue any time soon.

Basically, I do agree that both A and R have somewhat of a big ego...but A's willingness to put his on the line many times, just for R earns him brownie points in my book!

Originally posted by: alvina

well it's the story of the movie DIL. .........

I agree Alvina. Though I dont remember the movie well, but you must be right. Because even the whole rape act looked a bit like in the movie Dil. Great observation! 😛

u hit d nail smack on!!!
Huge....ego prob.!!
bt in dis case ar partin shot ki dekh lete hai stemmed as much frm his ego to take her on to his frustation of nt bein able to make ridhima see the error of her ways. she is so wrapped up in her armour of self righteousness that she refuses to see how far off the beaten track she has wandered off to!!however his diag. of ye rang kuch khas nahi....,really did seem to pierce her heart....she never really expected ar to giv up on her...no matter wat...nd dis line seemed to giv her a jolt....all the more reason why she basked in sumit's fervent praises...remember d looks she ws givin ar!!

Merci ...@Pixie...Merci!!!Muaanh to u!!

Hey u kno the whole nite I was upset with those 2 dialogues...I felt ridzi heart was thumped with the piercing nail when he sed"Kuch daag Kabhi nahin mit tey"...The expression on her face was what I wanted....
lekin when he sed "Yeh Rang Kuch Khaas nahin"...Tore me apart.... into zillion pcs... 😭 😭 😭
But I din't find the same effect on Sainty Riddhi, she was giving a very perplexed & confused expression 😕 😕 😕 ...Like"what the heck is he saying"...whereas I felt Sapna behen...had a Jolt.

The most craziest expression of truimph which Dr Riddhima gave was when that pervert Sumit( I can't stand him -sorry 😡 ), was appreciating the color & Riddhi looks at Armi,as if to say..."see this color is good".Silly dumb woman...always goes into the wrong direction!!! 😆


Hey he did look very hot when he was in her romm on her bed staring deep into her....Main tho Mar gayee.. 😉

Chal lets c...aaj kya rakha hoga ...

Ash.

so true ash.....

sapna did seem to hav a jolt bt ridhima....all bafflement!! i ws like...get d meanin behind his cryptic comment u silly girl...ders more to it than the surface ripple!! 😡 😕

however ar dialogues yesterday were just awesum....a few choice words wid stunning effect....broke my heart too though!!
makes u wonder hw thick can ridhima get.