Guys, for the past few days I've been noticing this surge of negative emotions towards Riddhima all of a sudden. Why I wonder. At first, all of us used to be so full of praises for her sweet nature, for the way she handles situations, for the way she treats her patient. But now, why are we all against her so much? Why are we all getting impatient with her? Is it because Dr. Armaan has taken our fancy so much that we don't want to give a chance to anyone who seems to be hurting Armaan in some way? Her fans are deserting her when she is going through this emotional turmoil. Now is when she needs the most support and understanding. Lets try to be reasonable guys, even though I know she is not being reasonable at this time, and lets try to understand what is going through her mind.
We can't really empathize with Riddhima cuz I am sure most of us haven't gone through an adoption and its sudden revelation. For Riddhima, this revelation has turned her world upside down. Her world, where her father was her hero, her idol (He still is), her God, turns out to be a lie all of a sudden. Remember how she almost worships her father? I am particularly thinking of the basketball match when she says that their team can't lose because her papa is in the team. We can all see how highly she esteems her father. Try to think what happens when you find out that the person you've held above everyone in the world has kept a secret from you for so many years, has made you live a lie all these years. Try to think that someone like Dr. Sashank, who never makes an error in surgery, who has never given a wrong diagnosis, who you think is incapable of doing anything wrong, who is as good as a god, turns out to be merely human. It turns out that he is also capable of making some judgmental errors. I would be sad, hurt, and confused. I wouldn't now if I can trust my judgment. This is what Riddhima is going through too.
She can't trust her judgment anymore. And she thinks she is falling for Armaan. She thinks she is in love with him, but now she is unsure if this is right. She doubts her own judgment. She starts to think that maybe she has been misguided in thinking that Armaan is a good person too and on top of that when she realizes that Armaan also kept a secret from her (the same mistake her papa did), she gets absolutely certain that her judgment was wrong, that she can never make a good judgment. That's why she has to push herself away from Armaan. She has to create a distance between herself and Armaan. She doesn't want to get hurt again, trusting Armaan. It takes up too much effort to deal with pain. She doesn't have energy anymore to deal with anything.
Now I wanna know guys, how wrong is Riddhima? Well I do know it's unfair to Armaan but put yourself in her place. Try to think and come on, you know how the leading ladies in hindi serials are suppose to be. They come to a conclusion very fast and don't consider that they could be overlooking a major fact!!
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